Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

Now I realise its not a dating website lol but just wanted to know if anyone out there has met anyone from YA! and if so has it turned out to be a good friendship.

Even better, have you found your life's soul mate with complete and utter love ? .......... cause maybe i just have !!!

2007-12-05 01:43:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It will be nice to go restraunt but it will cost 20to 30bucks, and my money will go away fast. Iam student and I only get like 100bucks a month, even if there were more money, restraunt cost a lot, so I dont think I can be happy, should I get a girlfriend?

2007-12-05 01:41:44 · 28 answers · asked by Nopicture 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have been going to a therapist and she asked me if my dad has ever touched me or anything inappropriate. I told her he has touched me a few times when he has been drunk, and now she is gonna call social services. The thing is my dad doesn't live with us anymore. So I was just wondering what would happen based on this? Would he go to jail for life just for touching me or will they place a restraining order? I don't want him to lose his job I just want him to stay away. So what is your opinion on this or what advice or comments do you have. I am scared this gonna ruin my life, my mom is scared too.

2007-12-05 01:40:27 · 14 answers · asked by sillygirl227 3 in Family

And she wants 100% of her money back. I told her that I will keep 50% of the deposit for booking services. I can not give her the whole amount since its not my fault that she wants to move the date to a one already taken. Who is right and who is wrong?

2007-12-05 01:39:26 · 14 answers · asked by mefistofeles 1 in Weddings

2007-12-05 01:38:16 · 10 answers · asked by stayathomemom 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 11 years and have a couple kids (not babies any longer). My wife seems to have lost all interest in sex and/or spending time with me. When I try to talk to her about it, things usually go sour and everyone feels bad. I would like to talk with a woman who may be in a similar situation as my wife. I am looking for a woman who is between 30 and 45, in a stable marriage, but has a "reduced" sex drive (that would be your call). I would like to talk openly about the physical relationship I have with my wife, so it would be best if you were not inhibited or easily offended. I would like to explain my concerns and questions over email, so if you think you can help me out please reply to this question or email me through the link on my profile page. Thanks

2007-12-05 01:37:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you find atractive in a girl?

2007-12-05 01:36:46 · 15 answers · asked by jazzie jeff <3 3 in Singles & Dating

Who of you you are living or has lived a love story (male-female) completely unexpected?
What did you think inside of you before the love? were you realists with yourselves and therefore sad, desolate, angry or did you still have hopes that the love would be somehow been born?

...sorry for my english!! :)

2007-12-05 01:35:25 · 1 answers · asked by solshell 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

when it comes to an engagement ring?

2007-12-05 01:35:14 · 21 answers · asked by Andy J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

No, this isn't a come on, so please keep reading.

One of the most common things I hear women looking for is ambition. I can fully appreciate wanting to find a partner who wants to get ahead. But how would feel about a guy who had been with his current job for a long time, liked the company he works for and what he does, and was at the highest level possible in his present company? In other words, are you ok with a guy who is happy where he is in his career?

As a follow up, would you feel differently if he would have more upward potential and/or earning power with a different company, but wanted to stay where he was?

2007-12-05 01:34:52 · 10 answers · asked by Justin H 7 in Singles & Dating

Well, I found out yesterday that my husband cheated... but this is what happened.
He didnt have any physical contact with anyone... it was actually a version of "phone sex" but through text messaging... including sending pictures to one another through text messages and all of the typical things someone would say during phone sex... so of course I see this as cheating.
He hid it from me for a couple months and it wasnt until I noticed on our phone bill that he was texting this girl that he supposedly didnt like, that I questioned him...and he finally admitted.
Frankly, I'm disgusted and angry. I dont even understand why he would feel the need to see another woman naked and talk to her like he would talk to me during sex.
What should I do? I feel like I need time alone from him, but I also feel like I just need to yell at him...
I guess I'm just confused.... so I really dont know what I'm asking here.... but any general advice?

2007-12-05 01:33:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents have a terrible history of fighting and they are currnetly going through a divorce.

Well....Last night, they started fighting REALLY bad. I didn't know what could happen next and my dad was screaming so loud I couldn't take it. He was threatening my mom (which is nothing new to me) but it just really scared me this time.

Anyway, I called 911 and left the phone off the hook. The police showed up and stood outside the window recording everything he said to my mom. THey even said 2 of our neighbors called complaining.

Next thing, they come in our house and ARREST my dad!! I felt so terrible but the cop said I did the right thing. What do you guys think? Did I betray my father??

2007-12-05 01:28:41 · 14 answers · asked by **In Love** 4 in Family

I see that she's been on Match.com searching and more than likely writing to other guys.
She opened the Match.com account many years ago, we both use to be there until I started being with her , then I quit the internet search but she's still at it and I'm curious what you would do ?
Should I stop seeing her cause it hurts me that we are only a romp in the bed once in awhile or do you think I should continue to say nothing (of me checking out her online match.com site) and enjoy the time I do have with her ?
What says you ?
Curious me

2007-12-05 01:26:56 · 13 answers · asked by inbangur2008 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband just told me last night that (against my wishes) he has remained friends with the girl he cheated on me with. I am feeling hurt and full of hate right now.

2007-12-05 01:24:38 · 28 answers · asked by cat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Before we decide to move in together? I'm asking experienced people and not from a religous view point. I'm almost 25, he's 29 and we have been together for 5 years. I still live at home with my parents by choice, He is well off i.e. house, other property investments, makes over 100k a year, neither of us have children..... I have never lived with a guy and I am a little scared but something is telling me that we should get married first. I don't want to live with him & we have a big fight and I'm back at home after a year...or should we get engaged and live together for sometime first? (I just feel like a scared immature girl for not knowing what to do.)

2007-12-05 01:23:29 · 15 answers · asked by Tiffani 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my longest is 4 months
shortest- 5 sec l0l

2007-12-05 01:22:57 · 19 answers · asked by ♥ pretti shy girl♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

them??
Thanks!

2007-12-05 01:22:17 · 9 answers · asked by thankgodformaryjane 4 in Singles & Dating

I am at my wits end... we have a 7 yr old boy and 4 yr old girl and just a 6 month old german sheperd puppy. When my husband comes home from work, which is usually 8 hours., he goes straight to the puppy and basically ignores the kids. I have tried telling him about it and nothing changes. I feel that its a lost cause. But he has never really payed any attention to the kids.

How would you deal?

2007-12-05 01:21:16 · 25 answers · asked by luv my gsd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i cant walk through the door without getting the evil eyes from my step mom
every one says its because i resembel my mom i look and act like her in many ways
my step mom has never liked me and i know i dont want to talk to her becuase she has always has a discust twords me and i have never done any thing besides be me!
i walk through the door and she wants nothing to do with me
what should i do about this should i just leave it i mean im moving in with my mom on friday

2007-12-05 01:18:09 · 20 answers · asked by Kaylee M 1 in Family

My friend got married about a year ago and his wife does not want to change her last name. She has no particular reason. Is that weird?

2007-12-05 01:12:17 · 28 answers · asked by Mr. Q 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My duaghter has purchased silk roses (singles) for her wedding cake. HOW the heck do I arrange these so that they are ready to go on the cake? I would just rather purchase them already made! Does anyone have a website that has directions to do this? Or even a place or website I can buy them? All the previous question here talked about using silk flowers but not how to arrange them! thanks all!

2007-12-05 01:11:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Friends,

I realize we are all busy and usually in a hurry.. But I was hoping I could persuade you all to take a moment out, to enjoy a little something.

Please, click on this link...: http://www.jacquielawson.com/viewcard.asp?code=ZS43976949

Then click on one of the ink bottles, and watch what happens.

Thank you!

-R

2007-12-05 01:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by -R 6 in Friends

2007-12-05 01:08:59 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

are men and women desighned to live together? and if so why cant we get on? why are men nags and moan if us women are not in the kitchen 24/7 ???

2007-12-05 01:04:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 1o weeks pregnant and I work full time and my husband and I run a dance school and dance company. So my schedule is work 7:00-3:00 and dance rehearsal and 4:30pm-8:00pm on mon, tue, wed and fri our schedule was working fine because we are building something and I felt really positive about that. We want our dance school to be our main source of income. Now that I pregnant this schedule is really getting hard I spoke to my husband yesterday about quitting my job and I would just work on the business so it could come along faster. We got into a big argument because I make majority of the money and he feels like if I quit I will be making our family struggle on purpose and he got very upset. He also said that people have been working pregnant for years and I should be stronger that that and I am diverting from our plan which was for me to work and after the baby take off. He really made me feel bad he said he has the same schedule as me and he is able to make it. He is not pregnant. After our conversation yesterday I am going to stay at work but am I selfish for asking to stop working he made me feel so bad he said he is trying his best and he is tired and has the same schedule as me but he is making it work. He also said people would love to just stay home and work on a business but it is not reality. I realize all these things but I still feel so tired some days I can barley concrete. Was I wrong? {Please no hurtful answers yesterday was hurtful enough I can’t take any more mean things said}

2007-12-05 01:04:21 · 42 answers · asked by juv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 00:56:04 · 16 answers · asked by kayville 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

from his wife, while simutaeusly going after my oldest son thru social services & stealing his fathers estate. He is now testifying against my sister-in-law to get his hands on his granddaughters. They both manipulate my brother 2 call us & son/g/f start trouble with us. They are claiming to people we are going to shoot them with guns because my hubby used to gun hunt yrs ago until a person shot the camper he & our oldest was in. I told both my parents to stop ruining our family gatherings over themselves & pitting people against us. I called once again & told them to stop having my son, girfriend, and brother hurt us over them only to have my father (60s) pick up the phone and cut off the answering machine/unplug the phone and make a handful of phone calls to get people to threaten me. They have a history of using people & want my son to see me badgered by the police for telling them to knock it off. I am being told to blame ALL their behavior on our son. Any suggestions?

2007-12-05 00:53:41 · 3 answers · asked by GoodQuestion 6 in Family

i have a little sister, she's 14. she has been getting texts from this guy who was in my year (so he's 20) they have been very flirty, perverted etc. he sent her one that said soemthing along the lines of "all i want for xmas is you in my bed" and there's many more like that. i spoke to him on msn and told him to stop, he never replied and carried on doing it.
this is really upsetting me because she is only 14. she is not interested in him at all, and hasnt been replying to his messages for a while now. i know it would be completely illegal for him to have sex with her (thats not going to happen) but is just texting somebody so underage in this manner illegal too?i've had enough of this, its upsetting her and me and its been going on for ages. please help

thankyou xxx

2007-12-05 00:50:20 · 21 answers · asked by nat_urally 2 in Singles & Dating

what do u think of a woman whos so ambitious that she doesnt marry ............... or even if she gets married she asks her husband not to think abt kids until she achieves her goal!! is she right ?

2007-12-05 00:47:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy on line,we started talking daily and phoned each other for about a week before meeting. We met at a coffee shop and spent the day talking and laughing,got along really well. Second time we met we didn't do too much went for dinner he wasn't feeling well,he thought he let me down. Any-way,he wants to get together again and he says he wants to hold me and tell me how he feels about me. I tried to explain to him that I do not know him well enough yet and I am curious as to why he is rushing this. I have only seen him a couple of times,I am divorced for four years,he is separated for only six months,he says he and his wife haven't gotton along for years.I need some advice,am I heading in the wrong direction or am I being overly cautious. Have been out of the dating scene for a while.

2007-12-05 00:46:16 · 8 answers · asked by deborah h 2 in Singles & Dating