Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

We have lots of people coming from out of town, and being in L.A., traffic and driving can get a bit complicated. I want to include the directions to the church, and from the church to the reception restaurant. What is the best way to do that?

2007-12-05 03:38:03 · 11 answers · asked by Benji's Mommy 6 in Weddings

How far along after a date would you kiss a guy? Would you expect him to pay for everything when you go out?

2007-12-05 03:37:35 · 14 answers · asked by TM 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have been going out with my boyfriend 2 months and we are head over heels in love, do u think it is 2 quick? he is genuinly a nice guy always complmenting me and everything... the thing is our sex life or lack of it... would it last without good sex?

2007-12-05 03:37:33 · 8 answers · asked by J 1 in Singles & Dating

or should i avoid even speaking to women i find attractive? i ask because a woman in one of my classes keeps talking to me and wants to email back and forth about assignments. she knows i am married and she has never been appropriate but i have a guilty conscience for even talking to her, like maybe i shouldn't at all since i know i would date her if i was single. i would never, ever cheat, so that's not a possibility. i just wonder if it's inappropriate to talk to her at all, or if it's innocent.

2007-12-05 03:37:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

MY boyfriend and I love eachother alot but I have never gotten him jealous and I want to go to his friends house this weekend and Have some fun and dance and I want to teach him how to grind and his friend knows so until I can teach him I want to just grind with his friend... Do you think he will get jelaous.... and I am really good friends with the guy too, and if me and my boyfriend ever broke up he would defineitly become my next boyfriend....so What do you think?

2007-12-05 03:37:07 · 35 answers · asked by scarred_soul_princess 2 in Friends

i have no car [cant aford it]. i have no job. therefore i cant get a car. i still dont have a permit. my dad will not teach me. i got held back in kindergarten, so im a junior and i dont really want to do another school year.

what do i do? i want money.

2007-12-05 03:36:27 · 24 answers · asked by ytuj7 y 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just out of curiousity, how soon is too soon to have sex or to move in together, if you have to?
Need opinions.

2007-12-05 03:33:44 · 6 answers · asked by prinsisss 4 in Singles & Dating

After all, Bill Clinton said oral wasn't and that's with another human. I would really appreciate solid answers not smart aleck ones (although I know I'll get both).

2007-12-05 03:31:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

divorcee records for free? or if not free, who is the most reliable source on the internet?

2007-12-05 03:30:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 03:29:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Inspired by a very interesting question about upstaging the bride, I want you ladies (and I said ladies, skanks refrain please) to give me your opinion.

On a wedding that I attended in California the totally fabulous bride and groom had the wedding of their dreams on a gorgeaus location. The event required a lot of work. Both the bride and groom and the wedding party worked their butts off to set up such a large event. By the time the wedding took place, everyone was tired and they just wanted to go home to sleep.

The bride didn't get along with the MIL or FIL, and neither of the families spoke with each other during the ceremony or reception. It was quite awkard.

Anyway, the MIL and FIL were delighted by my presence, I paid special attention to the gradmother and she loved me. The MIL danced with me, we laughed, his family and I had a great time. The bridesmaids wanted to be with me, the flower girl jumped on my lap and followed me around, the photographer was smitted w/me

2007-12-05 03:28:35 · 24 answers · asked by Blunt 7 in Weddings

My long distance boyfriend and I are planning on me coming to visit him this summer. He wants me to meet his family and his friends and that scares me. Part of me wants me to tell him that I don't want to come but the other part of me wants to go and spend some of the summer with him. He really really wants me to come to see him. I am afraid that his friends and family won't like me and every time I talk about it with him he tells me not to be scared because his friends and family will think I am wonderful just like he does. What should I do? Do I stick with the plans and go visit him or do I just forget the plans and not go?

2007-12-05 03:28:09 · 15 answers · asked by raidergurl2008 1 in Singles & Dating

but when someone who is unattractive comes along they are quick to diss them

2007-12-05 03:23:58 · 16 answers · asked by mrellis08 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has two children but she is great and we get longer great but she has kids. What do i do? Do I stay with her or should I find someone without kids?

2007-12-05 03:23:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got more spankings from mom but the ones from dad were worse.
When we were little, both of them spanked my sister,my bro and me. But later, dad used to spank me and bro and mom only spanked my sister.

How about in your family?

2007-12-05 03:20:01 · 43 answers · asked by Carlos L 2 in Family

what do you all do on a saturday night?
clubs, bars, pictures????????????? etc

2007-12-05 03:18:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK- for those who know me- it's the crazy ex-friend.

So long story short- This girl is already married and having a redo which included two showers! She is 6K short of paying her wedding which is less then a month... she hasn't sent out invites so no one knows if the wedding is still on.
Well, her bridesmaid (who is a mutual friend of mine) wanted to get her something nice that she could use. This bride told her to use her home depot registry. The bridesmaid said everything on there was over several 100 dollars... which she isn't spending on a shower. And there are two tubs on there- one is $1,000 and the other is $3,000!!! They only have 1 bathroom and a very small 2 bedroom house!!
Do they honestly think someone is going to buy them a $3,000 tub (and they don't have the money to buy it later with the 10% discount they give you after the wedding)? Plus they have NO room to put it anywhere.
What is the stupid’s or tackiest thing you have seen on a registry!

2007-12-05 03:18:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

if someone came up to u and said i want have one night stand with your parther for £50,000 would you take it?

2007-12-05 03:16:04 · 10 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know. we were just there in bed, doing it and then he came and shouted out "Emma!"
I feel used and ill. What do I do? I'm so embarrassed.

2007-12-05 03:15:47 · 44 answers · asked by nai 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-05 03:14:48 · 35 answers · asked by jewelzr4eva 3 in Family

once or twice i caught her quickly closing apps and voiced my suspicions, she called me paranoid and got real angry. One day some1 was messaging her and she went to close it, i told her to answer and she did, telling me it was a girl called karen, the conversation went..Hi wheres your boyfriend, oh in the other room watching sport lol, came the reply. The next day i checked her archive, and sure enough she had sent a message saying pretend your name is karen not kevin. The next day i made her talk in front of me with him, after she begged me to stay, he said she had shown him her beasts etc and commented on his body when he stripped to his shorts etc. she denies that to this day, but why would he have to lie? I love her we have a child together but when she lied to my face about it and called me paranoid its hard to forget, i believe we live by our instincts and she brought mine to question. So am i mad to stay, will it work, over to you to do your oprah bit and hit me with the answers

2007-12-05 03:11:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think the high divorce rate is primarily contributed to immature behaviors and attitudes of many Americans. Since the military develops self-discipline and respect, which are two qualities that are seriously deficient in America, I think the divorce rate will go much lower because many more Americans will respect and love their significant other much more and will develop more self-discipline, which would help prevent them from cheating or doing anything else stupid.

Also, after being in boot camp for a long time and being deprived of female companions, I developed a more heartful respectful for women. I don't know why, I guess when as a guy you go through such a painful experience for so long without women it makes you appreciate them more. Kind of like how you appreciate a nice, warm meal after going on a hunger strike.

I could be very wrong, and most people (including me) would think that this is a crazy idea. But I'm just curious to know what you guys would think about it.

2007-12-05 03:10:01 · 12 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, just want to ask. My fiance and I are celebrating our 1st year anniversary in a few weeks time! Yes very soon, and I need some help. I plan to get each of us a ring..yeah yeah I know it's odd because u guys must be thinking that we are already wearing our engagement rings now. NO. He did not propose to me with a ring, so now I plan to get us one. What do you think? Do you think it's odd to give rings on anniversary? Do you think guys should be the ones to give and not girls? Help!! Serious answers needed..thanks lot.

2007-12-05 03:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by Springboard 2 in Weddings

Tragically, my mom's cousin and his wife died in a car crash 2 days ago. I have only met them once at my grandfathers funeral. I live far away and don't plan on attending the services. However, my mom's sisters are trying to pressure me and my sister to attend. All of their kids are going. I am starting to feel guilty about my decision. What do you think?

2007-12-05 03:06:37 · 17 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family

a lot of the answers say "it is in the Bible". but there is nothing to back it up. does anyone know where in the Bible it says that it is a sin? what book, chapter and verse?

2007-12-05 03:05:44 · 5 answers · asked by loriloriloriloriv 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok soi just met this guy at school anf he likes mebut ive just got dumped by my ex boyfriend and he left me for a GUY.and im not sure im ready for a realtionship?
What do i say?

2007-12-05 02:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a mother of a 23 year old daughter who is so frustrated at finding somone to love her. She is very pretty , funny, spunky and has alot of friends that she hangs with guys and girls but when it comes to dating they always end up being losers or cheaters...she just doesnt get it...she said they seem to be so sweet at first and then .....
I have a hard time understanding ....she is not perfect...who is...but she is intelligent, funny, spunky, very pretty, has a job, adventurous.....
She seriously has been getting depresssed and talking about hating her life and how nothing goes right. I worry about her....she says she hates being alone with no special person in her life....
She lives on her own and sometimes when she calls at night I can feel all her pain in her voice. She hides it from her friends that she feels this way....any advice ...someone please tell me why she can't seem to find a good moraled ,loving man???

2007-12-05 02:58:08 · 12 answers · asked by Lisa H 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 26, a father & a step dad. I love my family and being around them.. But my wife sometimes says i act like the kids sometimes alomost as if i am a child myself. is this wrong & what can i do to chage if it is

2007-12-05 02:57:44 · 8 answers · asked by blackwhiterider 1 in Family

2007-12-05 02:55:42 · 8 answers · asked by Tristar 1 in Singles & Dating

I think it's about to end which is a real shame as we've been living together for a year and make a great team most of the time. But he just doesn't seem to care.I'm 23 and have made some stupid decisions in my past but try to be alot more careful now.I think I do alot for him and always happy to hang out wiht his mate etc and I used to model so I'm okay looking. BUT he just never seems to be over the moon with me, I wrote 'love you tonnes' to finish off an email before and he wrote nothing back. I know this sounds silly and I'm really insecue, I think maybe I should just end this.We are travelling and a long way from home though so I wonder if things will change at home.I don't have as many mates as him and I'm not as trusting so I would feel very very alone if we were to break up but I know thats not a fair reason to stay with someone. Please give me some advise, I feel really sad

2007-12-05 02:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating