Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

my parents have knocked down my bedroom wall which is downstairs so technically i don't have a bedroom and i can't listen to music or do my reviion for exams or anything else. insted my bed is in the corner of the lounge and all my stuff is in boxes. i have to listen to crappy football and i'm bored out of my brain. i have nothing to do and i only get 30 mins on the computer per night... i need help i'm going insane not to mention suffering music withdrawal (i sound awfull huh? but i just want to chill out for a while after doing exams all day, i'm 15 btw)

2007-12-05 04:38:35 · 19 answers · asked by pritzy-fairy 3 in Family

Which would you prefer to date? Why?

2007-12-05 04:38:27 · 11 answers · asked by comfort eagle 6 in Singles & Dating

n with this girl in a different state and my family is 1,000 miles in a different state and I want to make them both happy.

2007-12-05 04:36:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean, c'mon, gravity and age can combine to give most women droopy boobies. Does that mean you're not interested anymore?

2007-12-05 04:36:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 04:36:45 · 4 answers · asked by shaie 1 in Family

I just had sex last night for the 1st time with my boyfriend of 1 month. This was my first time. I wanted to wait until I was married to have sex, but I didnt. And I knew it was gonna happen Tuesday night ever since like the day before. But, I wanted to wait, and we've only been together for 1 month (I've only known him for 2), and we used no protection whatsoever. This is why I'm upset, mostly because I wanted to wait. And I did a stupid thing by having sex without protection. But I know I was protected by God, but I'm definitely not gonna do that again. Anyway, I don't know what I want yall to say but I'll read all your answers and I will write you back.

2007-12-05 04:36:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My current gf just told me that she wants to be friends, start back from the beginning, and take things slow. She wants to be single and have fun with her friends and felt pressure when i was going out with her. is this the end?

2007-12-05 04:34:35 · 6 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Singles & Dating

Two weeks ago my little brother borrowed $50 from my husband for the night when we went out together and my brother forgot his wallet at home. We have talked to him since but he has never brought up the fact that he owes us money. How do I ask him for it back without seeming money hungry?
I know he has the money, so the issue is not that he doesn't have it.

2007-12-05 04:33:10 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah K 4 in Family

2007-12-05 04:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 04:32:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do i cope when the one person in my life who really cared and loved me has died? I was closer to him ( my grandad ) than anyone else in the family and as I lived with him and he brought me up its like my dads died because he was like a dad to me. i dont get on with the rest of my family and although this happened 2 months ago I can't get over it, has anyone else ever been in a similar situation? and if so how can you cope with it? thanks

2007-12-05 04:31:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i live with my sister and her husband and it seems like they fight alot or there is always tension in the air...how do i deal with it? its hard because i dont want to get involved or in the middle but at the same time it sucks because its stressful.

2007-12-05 04:29:49 · 7 answers · asked by moviestillofaheart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He just wants to get divorced and get it over with.

2007-12-05 04:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by Lynn V 6 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl who fancies my boyfriend to bits
shes trys to flirt with him when i aint around sometimes like when my bf said she grabbed onto her boobs and shoved them up and said ''comon baby! u no u want them!'' to my boyfriend
when i was with my friends waiting to go into the dinner hall, she came over start sayin that her and my bf had an orgasim together
and she now giving me evils for some reason

my boyfriend says he would never cheat on me, but how can i tell if hes just sayin that just to be with me, cus im like his FIRST gf

2007-12-05 04:29:18 · 3 answers · asked by Stacey O 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 04:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-05 04:25:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have a bf and yesterday i went to the mall with my friend and we seen him sitting down with this blonde chick he works with, she had the shortest skirt ever, made me feel so low-class...and my friend said he looked stunned to see me, then when it came to him saying goodbye, he didnt hug me or kiss me....my friend even went to go ask if there was something going on between them, and she said they are just friends....but im worried he might like her or something else is going on, how can i tell? i may be overrreacting but my subconcious is scared hes going to leave me for another girl and hes tired of me....and seriously i want a guy's opinion on this, i just want to know the signs if he would want to cheat, plzz answer

2007-12-05 04:25:31 · 23 answers · asked by Canadian19 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 04:24:52 · 8 answers · asked by mohan k 1 in Singles & Dating

some ladys at my work were talking about how your weak if you leave and you should stay for better or for worse...and i just thought i would get ya'lls opinion on it.
how do you feel about seperation and divorce?

2007-12-05 04:24:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short, my FMIL plays head games....such as pitting the grandkids against each other, pitting the SILs against each other, playing favorites, etc etc.

Example: My future nieces (named Kaleigh and Haleigh - crazy I know) are only 2 and can't tell their names apart. If the correct grandkid doesn't listen to her when she calls her name, she spanks them. After I saw this, my FMIL turned to me and said, "____ and _____'s kids are complete brats" (in front of the mothers) and "you better have better behaved kids than these little shi**."

Needless to say, going over to her house is completely awkward and not a very joyous occasion.

I'm supposed to go over there tonight to have dinner. I love my fiance very much, and have of course bitten my tongue whenever his mother says rude things to other people (she is NEVER rude to me, just plays mind games).

What should I say/do when she tries to get my FSILs and me against each other? So far, both the FSILs *hate* me.

Any ideas?

2007-12-05 04:09:40 · 13 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Weddings

this guy i like was talking to me on IM one night and he asked who i liked, so i told him that i liked him. He seemed cool with it and we kept talking. the next day, he sits next to me in one of my classes and starts flirting big time. like playing with my computer and joining in on every conversation. After this he doesnt talk to me anymore on IM and when he does is very brief. Last night i tried to talk to him and he left in exactly five minutes, right up to the last second. It's not like I had a stop watch but on IM it gives you the times everything was sent. it was just something i noticed. then, in school today, he tries to talk to me more like joining in on my conversations and helping me with my work and stuff. then he sits right behind me in writing and we were both turned around so we would occasionally make eye contact.

but i like him and i wanna know if he likes me too.
what game is he trying to play???

2007-12-05 04:09:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm an adult and got beaten up at weekend i have 1 child 2.I cant go 2 the police as her bf will beat mine up so i had 2 drop charges.Is there anything else i can do? we want to move house has they dont live far away and we are both scared.Plus i dont want my son to see me like this again im a mess.

2007-12-05 04:01:40 · 14 answers · asked by My children are my world 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-05 04:01:21 · 15 answers · asked by Laquita B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have little satin pouches for my favours and Im going to fill them with cadburys rosesis this tacky? my weddings next week so I thought Id get away with it cos its christmas time

2007-12-05 03:56:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I think that there should be a bullying section or at least a school problems section, does anyone agree ?

2007-12-05 03:51:10 · 8 answers · asked by pop 4 in Friends

I saw the bride and groom tap all the fingers with the ring before placing it on the ring finger, have you seen or heard of this? Im all worried (getting married a week 2moro)

2007-12-05 03:50:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He is almost 8 years older than me, is that a problem? I'm still in school and he is working. Do you think if we dated our ages would be an issue

2007-12-05 03:46:29 · 21 answers · asked by TM 1 in Singles & Dating

I think beautiful black and pale pink would be quite sufficient and lovely. What do you think?

2007-12-05 03:43:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i work for the state of NJ in the accounting division .. nice job .. i have always been independant ... since the age of 16 i am 25yrs old. i am a college student part time ... education degree .. my husbands wants me to quit my job go to school full time ... sounds great !! but that would mean depend on him for everything .. money expenses ... anyone advise on or experience ... on this should i leave my job or stay part time student full time employee part time housewife ?

2007-12-05 03:41:34 · 39 answers · asked by spanishangelita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It helps if you are a man...Is sex your prefered way of expressing your love for a woman?
And do you believe her willingness to have sex with you is the best indicator of how much she loves you?

2007-12-05 03:38:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating