Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

Ok.I'm not gay at all.It's just that whenever I see a woman that is cute,I start comparing myself to her.There are a lot of pretty women in the world and sometimes I ask myself,"Why does my bf want to be with an average looking girl like me when he could be with someone that's alot prettier than me.And I know it's not always about what's on the outside but i get insecure about my looks sometimes.I start wishing that I had a bigger chest size or a bigger butt and other things.Can anyone relate to this?

2007-12-05 06:26:08 · 5 answers · asked by sweetie23 2 in Singles & Dating

I was walking upstairs in my house to go to the bathroom and my younger sisters boyfriend who is 22 was up there playing with the dog. So when i got to the top of the stairs he was on the ground sitting with his legs out in front of him, but he had baggy shorts on and his penis was sticking out of the leg opening and it was very visible and i have to add it was huge, i mean i didnt even know they could get that big. It was out of his shorts about 2 inches right by his knee but you could almost see the whole thing right up his leg because of the wide leg opening do you think he was showing off and doing it in purpose to try to get my attention or do you think it was a accident because i would think he would be able to feel it outside his shorts. If he did it on purpose im going to be very uncomfortable around him, hopefully it was a accident.

2007-12-05 06:25:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-05 06:23:27 · 19 answers · asked by demetre a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About 3 months ago, me, my wife, and my 3 kids moved in with her parents. Forced to due to job downsizing. Anyway, from the day we moved in they treat us like maids. They make the mess and they expect us to clean it. And when it doesn't get cleaned, they put up a storm. They expect the house to be clean 24/7. We have a 5, 4, and almost 2 year old. If my 2 year old has something she isn't suppost too, my mother in law won't take it away from her, she will tell one of us to get it from her. Just last week she had a knife, and didn't take it away. Could have been a disaster. I am 30 and my wife is 24, but yet, her parents are trying to tell us how to raise our kids. Just the other day, i heard her mother say that we are the laziest parents. I almost blew up cause I work third shift and i just took on another job. When i get home from working 3rd shift, i try to get sleep, but then they get up and start the bitching, and i can't sleep. Any advice would help.

2007-12-05 06:22:25 · 12 answers · asked by bud73_1999 2 in Family

Girls, If u had the chance to hit 1 guy u hate in life right now in the balls, what would u do...kick, knee, swing an object down there, or punch lol and why would u do it to this guy and why would u think that move is affective to make u get the upper hand in things?

2007-12-05 06:21:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law moved in with us on October 18. She insisted that we turn on interent service for her, through our cable provider. She brought her computer along and it was hooked up the very next day. She had to pick up the modem herself, due to the fact of us working full-time and took it upon herself to upgrade the interent service to a package that's almost $50 a month. She been staying with her daughter for the past couple weeks to help w/babysitting and has not given us money for the internet service. She owes us $100 so far and it is due on Monday 12-10!!! We have let her know several times about the bill and the amount and she has not sent or stopped by with any money. I sent her a text last week and all she said was ok. I sent her a text today and have heard NOTHING.

How should I handle this? Do I have him handle his mother now? And how do I get him to take care of it? He doesn't even like dealing with his own mother because she's such a pain!

2007-12-05 06:20:24 · 15 answers · asked by colleenjp78 3 in Family

I am 14 and all of my friends have done it but is it too soon? I want to know from an outside opinion

2007-12-05 06:19:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother told me she can't come to his birthday party because she's too busy with Christmas shopping and decorating. She's always been extremely selfish and nasty but I don't know what to tell him about why she's not attending his party. I don't want to tell him that shopping is more important to her than being with him. What do I do?

2007-12-05 06:18:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok,i played this girl in a game of tennis a month ago. she was only 5'2 and i was sure i would beat her. after 4 games we were tied 2-2. then she started hitting shots that made me run from side to side. she was too fast and beat me 6-2. she laughed about it. i've been practicing and we bet on another game. we play tomorrow. who will win do you think?

2007-12-05 06:17:22 · 6 answers · asked by maracana 1 in Singles & Dating

sister and i were very close till the past month when she got married,pregnant and moved to italy for the air force, what do i do?

2007-12-05 06:15:45 · 6 answers · asked by hollis 1 in Family

Been together 8 years have 1 child BUT we live with his family, still haven't gotten a ring. Is it best I move on??
Or should I give it more time?

2007-12-05 06:13:52 · 18 answers · asked by papoose52cat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The craziest thing I've EVER done, was jump in a freezing cold swimming pool at 6 am in the morning, for $20.00. My stepdad dared me and my brother to do it without dipping our feet in first, just run and jump in as soon as he opened the gate. He also dared my brother to drink a gallon of apple juice, for $20.00, with only 3 breaks in between gulps. He did it, but was sick as hell and throwing up apple juice for the next 45 minutes or so. Good times! Tell me your stories. Did you regret it later?

2007-12-05 06:12:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

could be making things up? This 26 year old said he had
a 6-month affair with a nympho teacher. (of a different race.)

2007-12-05 06:12:38 · 7 answers · asked by judy f 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am the type of girl that has always gotten along better with guys than I do with girls. So I have many close guy friends that I have been friends with for several years, but my boyfriend of two years always gets jealous when they call, or see that I have talked to them via text message on my phone. I dont talk to these friends everyday, or even every week for that matter. We both have busy lives, but it is nice to touch base every now and then.

Why does he act like this? I have never cheated on him, and have never given him a reason to think other wise. This man is talking about marriage, but I dont want to be 'trapped' in a marriage where I cant talk freely to my friends.

Any advice on how I can get him to back off? And please dont advise me to leave him, because he is a good man, and I love him. I dont think I should leave him because he gets jealous.

Thanks in advance for all your help.

2007-12-05 06:12:11 · 21 answers · asked by MayMay 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 06:11:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok - my entire life I've been stared at, told I was gorgeous, etc...but I recently got an awful hair cut, I mean AWFUL = boy cut. Guys still stare, but are they staring making fun of me or because they still find me attractive?
I have a nice body, nice face, nice clothes, but AWFUL HAIR!

2007-12-05 06:10:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he annoys me and is mean in a funny way, he gives cheesy smiles, and i like another boy, when i bring the other boy up he says, oh u know like he doesnt like u, but i know he is lieing coz that boys my friend and he is nice to me. is he jealouse, i mean i dunno, does he like me

2007-12-05 06:08:54 · 1 answers · asked by Pretty.Malibu™ 2 in Singles & Dating

I was getting ready to take the dog for a walk and happen to be standing by the front door. I looked up to see my husband's truck go by. I know it was his truck because he has a decal in the back window that only he would have- it was personally made for him with our daughters' names on it.

I watched him fly by- VERY FAST- like he couldn't get by the house fast enough. He's supposed to be out of town at work. I called his cell to ask why he was already off work and he said he was at work. I said "I just saw your truck" he said "No you didn't my truck is right here."

Last week, he had car trouble and I had to go pick him up- he was about 10 miles south of town. He works north of town. He said he was out there dropping a friend off, but now I'm wondering if that was true. He'd never mentioned this friend before, yet claimed he had given this friend rides home before.

We have a good marriage. We don't fight. Sex life is fine. But this seems odd. What do you think?

2007-12-05 06:08:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and i have been dating for 3 years and he just asked me to marry him a couple of months ago, however i feel that our spark in our relationship is slowly dimming he just does not seem that interested anymore. How do i spark it back up! Please help me!

2007-12-05 06:07:38 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley W 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are divorced and i'm 15. My dad is strict and yells and gets anger but then my moms all nice and supportive and lets me have fun.What should i do about my parents when there saying to many different things. Help me please.

2007-12-05 06:06:23 · 44 answers · asked by Honey Bunny!!! 2 in Family

2007-12-05 06:04:46 · 25 answers · asked by ilovecats 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a guy for 9 monthes now. and for a while i was kind of living there then we had problems and broke up, Well now we are back together. And maybe its just me but it seems like he doesnt make an effort to see me?

Another question

I have had sex with him 2x when we first starting dating.. We havnt had sex since WHATS WRONG?

2007-12-05 06:03:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married 2 years, my husband is very controlling, it is either his way or no way, and we have been fighting for about a soild year now. It got so bad that i actually left him a good job and moved back home with my parents. Out of the 2 years we have been married i have gained about 20 lbs. I am not fat by no means average i would say, but he told me that i was letting myself go and he couldn't be with someone who does that. The mean things he says to me i can't forget. I am tired of walking on egg shells around him. I do love him but not like i used too. There has been to much damage done. I know the best thing for me to do is get out. But i don't know how to do this. I am 21 years old and still in school. I have a job and family and friends to support me but he makes me fill guilty about how i fill. I don't know what to do.

2007-12-05 06:02:22 · 52 answers · asked by Sasha C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for 14 years 7 of which we have been married. He says i'm not because he worked for it not me .I am a homemaker and we have 3 children together. Any information would be helpful. Thank you.

2007-12-05 05:59:09 · 13 answers · asked by Christine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we met in our youth group and became good friends. over the summer he told me he liked me and i told him i liked him too. we became SUPER close but didn't go out becuase we weren't allowed to. we talk to each other all the time and he sends me the cutest emails but recently they have started to stop coming. we go to different schools but i talk to him at least three times a week. i sent him a messaage saying that i loved him and if he didn't like me it was ok but i just wanted him to be honest. he said he really liked me but he always was afraid i was going to find someone else. i that i wanted it to be us and he agreed. we talked for a while and the messages went on for weeks but now he has like stopped sending me them even though he says he likes me when ever we are together. is this real? if so what should i say to him cuase it really hurts me that he doesn't talk to me more or express his feelings?

2007-12-05 05:59:06 · 1 answers · asked by samantha 3 in Singles & Dating

the hard cocky rough thug type that wont back down and you know can be capable of doing and saying anything to survive.? or the nice bf type thats caring and knows how to handle a relationship and show affection and sweet to be around?

2007-12-05 05:55:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

coworker after he told you about some of his exploits? Then
you have to pass him at work.

2007-12-05 05:55:49 · 5 answers · asked by judy f 3 in Singles & Dating

You never hear about it ...

2007-12-05 05:55:10 · 15 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 05:52:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dose anyone were rain coats? I have a reggata one.

2007-12-05 05:52:13 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships