2007-12-05 05:52:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not just girls dude. EVER SINGLE guy I have ever been in a relationship with in the past ten years has told me they loved me and were in love with me between 2-4 weeks... WAYYY before I felt it.
Needless to say, none of them worked out. Too much too soon. I'm finally learning the concept of "When you get into it too fast, you get out of it too soon"
2007-12-05 06:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know i guess I'm pretty strange then. I do believe in Love at first site.
But on any first couple of dates I'm on I'm looking for the sparks. Then after that connection i should be really into them and hopefully falling into love within a few weeks or a month.
I think if you see someone a lot and are dating and don't fall in love soon i don't think you will.
2007-12-05 13:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Scott 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don' t know the answer to that. Honestly. Infatuation ? Real love ? Both ? None of the above ? I have asked that myself time and time again before. So I honestly don't know.
This is actually a good question to ask in Yahoo. "WHAT IS LOVE !"
I have had so nmany women in my life and believeme that is not boasting -- None even come close to my present wife. She is everything I dreamt of. Is it love now ? Was it love all those times before her ? I haven't a clue.n What the hell is 'love' ?
I suspect that love is nothing more than an adaptation of what's available (crude, I know) with the purpose to eventually eventually. Otherwise are you telling me that you all would not find 'the one' if you had moved to China when you were 5 years old instead of staying in Europe ? Would not you find THE ONE in China eventually too ?
2007-12-05 16:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by RED-CHROME 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the key word in your question is "girls". Women know better than to attach themselves to a man that quickly. Girls on the other hand, being immature, and not knowing what love is really about, will "fall in love" with anyone that shows them any sort of affection or kindness. Suggest that if "girls" are who you are messing with, you are messing with the wrong age group and maybe aren't yourself ready for a relationship.
2007-12-05 13:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find it that weird. I thought I had fallen in love before until I met one of my most recent ex-girlfriends and found out what real mutual love is. And the thing is, it happened within the first month that we said it to each other.
2007-12-05 13:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls, women, boys THEY ALL DO IT TOO. I freaked out when my partner said that to me in 3 weeks into the knowing one another/relationship thing. Going strong for 8 years now. Weird and wrong it is when "players" say that to another person and they lead them on, lied blah blah blah is all the same yet very wrong
2007-12-05 14:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by !@#$% 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm .. i believe in love at first sight. it's when you say it straight away ..then it gets a bit freaky, when i first laid eyes on my lovely fella, i KNEW he was the one, the very first second when our eyes met, but it took us a year to get together 'properly' and months after that to actually say the words.. but hey, 10years on we are still together, (mostly) very happy, and have a gorgeous daughter between us!!!
On the other hand, when people say it straight away it really does freak me out and i (did) run away.. make of that what you will.. do you believe in love at first sight?? xx
interesting question.. have a star.. x
2007-12-05 15:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by izo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't fall in love with you, they just like you and want to be with you.
2007-12-05 13:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is not weird because it happend alot and most of the time it is not love. Tbe sure that it is love just give it some time so you can be sure.
2007-12-05 14:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love at first sight.....its not necessarily wierd, depends on the situation
2007-12-05 13:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋