Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

I work for my ex. We have been working together for 4 years. He owns the company and I'm the admin VP. This morning he was waiting for me at the office with the company's lawyer, he wants me to see a spychologist to deal with my divorce issues and the company will pay.......and if I refuse that I will be kindly asked to leave.

I am in my office crying all the tears a body can hold.

I don't know what to do, yes I have issues and I can not afford a good sphychologist that would help but on the other hand this meeting was so humiliating I could die right now.

2007-12-05 05:13:55 · 30 answers · asked by Jane Marple 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with some at work and it's exciting etc. But i want to know how many people have done it, thought about it, and have been tempted......makes you wonder who is going to be honest....

2007-12-05 05:12:25 · 14 answers · asked by Keepin it real 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are celebrating our 2nd year anniversary on new year's eve. We are going to be stuck at my grandparents' out in the country. I want to take some time out to just be together. We just had a baby and had a really rough year. I want him to know I love him and for us to feel special. Any ideas. It is hard with other people being around.

2007-12-05 05:11:48 · 7 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it is hard on the kid but it is hard on the adult. the other parent is ruining my kid and I dont know what to do.

2007-12-05 05:09:49 · 3 answers · asked by Amie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to hurt anyone and specially cause I know my boyfriend is a good man.

2007-12-05 05:06:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I deal with a guy who's being mean to me in order to hide the fact that he actually likes me?

This guy I used to like last year has taken an interest in me lately & he seems like he's testing the waters to see if I'm still interested.(it's obvious to me he does really like me)

Usually,he's pretty good with me & tries to make me laugh , but sometimes he says very rude things,esp after he's asked me something which might make me think that he likes me now.He's 17 & I can see he hasn't matured yet.But how do I manage his occasional wrong-doings?(I still have a bit of feelings for him which makes it harder to come up with a good comeback,plus I really don't want to stoop as low as he does at those times)

Thanks all.

2007-12-05 05:05:03 · 16 answers · asked by warm_glossy_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 05:04:55 · 18 answers · asked by mama bear 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 05:04:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 05:02:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend jim-bob want to get hitched next month but we just found out that were cousins on my momma's side. We found out when I took him to my family reunion in calcutta ohio. Because my momma's uncle is his long lost daddy that got released from prision for beatin up them homosexuals. should I still marry my feller.

2007-12-05 05:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How come some girls still stay with their bf if they have been hit or cheated by them? One answer I got is that they hope they change. Come on if A guy hits u, it usually means that he will hit you again. or if he cheats on u.

2007-12-05 05:01:48 · 17 answers · asked by Zeroman 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean I love kissing him and hugging and cuddling with him but he's starting to go a little farther than I am ready. I actually want to, a lot!! He is incredibly gorgeous, and very sweet, and I am not a virgin but when he's trying to,it's not the right place. So how do I tell him to slow down without hurting his feelings or having him dump me?

2007-12-05 05:01:29 · 42 answers · asked by prinsisss 4 in Singles & Dating

Just what we needed before the holiday he gets into a fight at school. By the way he is a senior.
What happened was is that he was being made fun of and verbally attacked by a couple of kids in the hallway. These other kids happened to be black and my son is white. My son is not totally innocent but this is what happened.
When the kids were poking fun at him as he was walking down the hallway, my son begins shouting racist things at them, calling the other guys dumb ****ers with the hopes that they would come to attack him so he has an excuse to use self-defense. Of course the other kids charged at him and my son was able to block the other guys hand from hitting him and he pushed the other guy so hard that he fell into his friend causing him to break his hand. The school has a strict policy on fights but since the issue was brought up that my son specifically said racist things he is now in more trouble than the ones who had attacked him. Shall we get a lawyer?

2007-12-05 05:00:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What is it that I do that makes women so in love with me??

2007-12-05 04:59:55 · 39 answers · asked by Aaron S 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 24 and my boyfriend is 29, we have been dating 4 years now

2007-12-05 04:58:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok.. here something about me.. im a fat guy.. i am caring.. i like children becoz i always take care of my sister children.. im shy.. im funny that can make people laugh.. i know something about computers.. ok.. thats all..

so, do u think one girl will fall in live with me.. will i seen my true love???

2007-12-05 04:56:41 · 1 answers · asked by raymond 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my friend and i are really close and her and her BF is really sweet and kind not exactly "Hot" but ......... IDK i think he likes me like when he is with my friend and has his arm around her he will walk away from her and walk towards me and start talking to me. It makes me feel bad becuz my friend is starting to see that we like each other. i am REALLY REALLY trying not to feel any thing towards him i even avoid him u know he is my friends' BF but i really do like him and u can tell he cares for me

wat do i do !! am i a bad friend ??

2007-12-05 04:56:15 · 12 answers · asked by Alejandra C 2 in Singles & Dating

...some guys who are in their mid 40s? Could you ever invision yourself partnered up with a guy 20 years older than you?

2007-12-05 04:54:56 · 14 answers · asked by Rita K 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are trying to figure out what we would like the inscription on the inside of our wedding bands to be. What did/will you put on your bands and do you think there is anything wrong with being a bit humorous with the inscription? (i.e. - A cute inside joke between just the two of you...)

2007-12-05 04:53:35 · 12 answers · asked by huge_tracts_of_land 2 in Weddings

I have a friend who moved 10 states away after graduation. She insisted that 'she would not go visit ANYONE, until they visited her first'. This is her typical attitude, so naturally being the good friend I booked a flight a month after her move to go stay with her & her bf for a week.

She refused to cook, let me cook or bring us to the grocery store. We ate out 3 meals a day, and in the end spent $450 on FOOD. Then our flight going home got delayed, and she insisted we stay at a hotel near the airport to 'not inconvenience her to get up at 4:30am'. We had a budget of $500 for this trip, we spent $1,100 in total.

Ok, yea we shouldnt be friends. But being the person i am, i ask when are you going to come stay with me? Oh, after her june visit to friend X, her july visit to friend Y and her february visit to friend Z.. NONE of whom plan or have been to visit her.

its one of those relationships where i know i shouldnt be friends with her, but i figured that out too late

2007-12-05 04:52:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, so nowadays a couple gets together and if they don't want to get married they just have 2 kids first. Then they get married but can't afford what they want, so they have a wedding do-over when they can afford it.

Then if the second one isn't the perfect thing they had in mind, they have a 'vow renewal' in a year or so.

Is this ok, desirable, and normal and am I just an old relic that can't accept change? Or is this excessive?

2007-12-05 04:51:16 · 15 answers · asked by danashelchan 5 in Weddings

my girlfriend broke up with me after 10 months because she cheated on me. the thing is i still want to be with her she says she doesnt know if she wants to be with me and im willing to wait but she doesnt want me to. is this her way of letting me down easy?? i just want her what do i do??

2007-12-05 04:51:01 · 13 answers · asked by AaronR 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 04:50:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 04:46:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She says that she doesn't like the way things are going. Her husband i think has some thing to do with because he puts her down all the time. she doesn't feel like eating any more or doing any thing any more. I don't know what to say to her. how can i get her help with out her getting mad at me?

2007-12-05 04:42:53 · 46 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4 in Friends

ok so me and my boyfriend split up with each other nearly 2months ago.
we were together for 3 and a half years.
i finished it with him because he cheated on me but then i wanted him bk but he said no.
2 weeks after we split he was sort off seeing another girl, she had just come out of a long relationship aswell, he says he really really likes her and she aint like any other girl hes met.
they have decided to take things slowly.
im apsolutley heartbroken and its hurting me so much.
he coming round to mine at some point this week to watch a dvd together as mates but do u think i should try it on with him?
i need to get him back before he gets with this other girl!

is he on a rebound and if so should i tell him this.
i want him bk soooo badly - need lots of advice!

2007-12-05 04:42:46 · 9 answers · asked by danni d 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 27 and still to this day bothered by the fact at parties in college I'd see these girls hanging off some douchebag and I'd talk to the guys and they'd look at me like they weren't all there.

It bothers me. I wasn't offended, but you know what i mean?

Meanwhile I ended up being the friend even though I made the first move and asked them out.....

Why are you all like that?

2007-12-05 04:40:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like every time i go out i always come home disappointed. I'm starting to think I intimidate men because absolutely no one talks to me. What should i do to look more approachable...I guess.

2007-12-05 04:39:44 · 21 answers · asked by Pinklipgloss 3 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy and he MIGHT like me and im ready to ask him out what should i say??

2007-12-05 04:39:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if he's shy?

2007-12-05 04:38:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating