I have been with some at work and it's exciting etc. But i want to know how many people have done it, thought about it, and have been tempted......makes you wonder who is going to be honest....
2007-12-05 05:12:25 · 14 answers · asked by Keepin it real 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
temptation is always there. I took a vow and I take it seriously, How could I cheat on a man that treats me like I am made of Dresden. Impossible. The temptation is there and the thoughts, but no action will be taken on my part ever. I have a fantastic husband. this is keeping it real.
2007-12-05 05:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by KARMA IS IT THOU? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! with all the wonderful people out there it is tempting. But i have known the impact of an affair on the family. And for the participants it may be fun and bliss but for the rest it is so painful.
While i live a lonely life of separation and meet many wonderful women in a hobby class, i find temptation everywhere. But I would rather try to find my bliss in small enjoyable things of life and wait for that special person rather live with a guilt of destroying a good family. i wish this sense prevails with me for long.
2007-12-05 13:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by protege 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i texted a lot with a guyfriend of mine. while i'm in a 9 month-relationship. my boyfriend is at hometown uni and i'm at a dorm, so we can only see eachother once a week. normally i hear from him every day, but at the beginning of octobre or so, i didn't hear from him for 5 days and got tempted because my guyfriend was giving me a lot of attention. but i didn't do anything wrong, because i love my boyfriend very much and am not the cheating type. i only sent him some texts, because i was happy to hear from someone - anyone! i never crossed the line =)
and by the way, afterwards my boyfriend told me that he felt like i wasn't really into him anymore because I didn't text as much anymore either. so we were both facing the same concerns - and i'm so happy that i didn't act on the opportunity i had!
2007-12-05 13:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only ones who have done what you are asking about are those that have NO self respect, NO sense of morals, and NO idea that they are screwing themselves before they do much to anyone else. Of course ultimately, such selfish and immature behavior ends up hurting EVERYONE involved, so lets add NO maturity to the list above as well.
2007-12-05 13:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been tempted but never acted on it..just to scary and i don't want to face any consequences at all.
2007-12-05 13:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im woman enough to tell my man if i wasnt happy and i would leave. i will never cheat on someone i am true strong willed to stay somewhere if i am not completely happy with who i am with
also sharona do you think maybe that is why you are single????ya i hate woman who think cheating on there mate is i quote you EXCITING...... must not have alot of self esteem to go with your lack of self control
2007-12-05 13:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have an affair. that will ruin your life. maybe not right now. but it could ruin it later on. it's just not a good thing.. so STOP.. this could hurt you and the one that you are cheating on.. good luck
<3justine
2007-12-05 13:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't let myself get in that situation knowing I have someone at home. That's just me. I don't understand how it "accidentally" happens with some people.
2007-12-05 13:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by Casie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been tempted but i never did it...bc i know its not right and it will come back and bite me in the a**!!
2007-12-05 13:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has at some time or the other.
2007-12-05 13:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋