I don't want to hurt anyone and specially cause I know my boyfriend is a good man.
2007-12-05 05:06:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you aren't willing to commit to him long term then don't stay with him, even if he's a good man he will end up hurt more if you continue to lead him on.
2007-12-05 05:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to grow up....you don't go looking at other guys when you have a good one with you already...what is the matter with you? are you one of the generation of those who "want it all and want it now, and don't give a damn about anyone but yourself"? time to realize that life is not all about YOU girlie, life is about everyone BUT you. if you keep focusing on what YOU want and what YOU feel and what are YOU gonna do? you will be miserable for the rest of your life, and deserve it to boot.
So knock off the immature, selfish, hurtful crap of looking at other guys and devote yourself to the happiness of the one you are with. If you can't do that, you don't belong in a relationship of any kind with anyone.
2007-12-05 05:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about you tell him the truth. He'll probably be heartbroken but hey you have to love him too. If you don't then nothing will ever work out for you and him. Tell him you still want to be friends(if you want to). DON"T CHEAT
2007-12-05 05:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy answering your question, I would like to be told of your feelings. There are "many fish in the sea" Even though he will be heartbroken, its better than being led on. Please tell him so he can move on with his life.
2007-12-05 05:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by shawn n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with your bf, then. You don't want to cheat on him. Stay single for a while and test the waters.
2007-12-05 05:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by misselie1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was married for 4 years to a DAMN good man...but it wasnt enough...you have to have LOVE too or it wont work...you wont be happy and hearts will end up broken anyway in the end...
2007-12-05 05:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by Amber R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously that you dont want him anymore
then break it off
then go to the other guy
dont cheat
2007-12-05 05:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by Clueless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD BE WITH BOTH. SO **** THE WORLD. ENJOY LIFE... BE HAPPY
2007-12-06 07:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by janet_23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋