Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

Aren't you getting sick and tired of these Women who are married, engaged, or in a relationship talking about what they want for Christmas(lol). Yes I am Hating.

Naw but don't you girls wish you had someone to spend this Christmas with?I do, well I'm only 22 years old, but I've always spent Christmas alone(single). I mean the times I was in a relationship during the holidays he claim he couldn't make it. I know I'm ratting and raving about nothing, but when I go home for the holidays you see everyone else giving and receiving gifts to and from their significant other, but me. I thought I would of been in a relationship this year but he just wants to be friends.

It's not just Christmas, it's all the holidays. I try to be happy and thankful for those that I am around, but most of the holidays seem like a constant reminder that I'm single again.

I just want to know am I the only "single lady" that feels this way?

2007-12-05 02:53:17 · 4 answers · asked by tc22 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl were dating for around 4 months and everything was cool at first. When we were only friends there was no arguing or problems but as soon as we began to date it was going smoothly. Then it turns out she became a totally different person for a while and i knew it was because of the fact that she was steal hurting from her past relationship. Well the girl told me she loved me and admitted that she was falling in love with me. I stood by her but we got into an argument and ended up splitting. I tried to talk it out with her the next day yet she didn't want to. A couple of days go by and she calls me up and we hang out a little the next day. The day after she ignores me and i tell her that i tried to remain friends but it seems as if you don't want to so i will leave you alone. She calls me up and tells me no dont trip i just need to get over my past relationship so that me and you can be together properly. Do I move on and forget about her or move on but don't forget her.

2007-12-05 02:51:39 · 19 answers · asked by Mike J 1 in Singles & Dating

For me that would be my mom and dad.

2007-12-05 02:49:54 · 15 answers · asked by kim t 7 in Friends

I am now 15 and I lost my daughter on april 17, 2006 and this past christmas was soooo hard because her daddy and i couldn't be together any longer because of the way he chose to deal with her death can i do to deal with the pain this christmas??

2007-12-05 02:43:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 02:42:26 · 8 answers · asked by varsha g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Went over to a friend's house to watch a football game last weekend. Of the twenty couples there, 11 are divored or divorcing. I had a chance to meet the "new women."

Man, you should see these whooores. Some of them are known loose women. ( I live in a small community. ) The others are clearly sluuuts, not someone you owuld take home to relatives or to a work fuction.

If I leave my wife it won't be for that.

What's up, fellas?

2007-12-05 02:42:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, you have to take a shower anyway...what's so much harder about washing your hair? lol

2007-12-05 02:41:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im being serious with this question. I always here women talking about how there guy pops right away and doesnt last long enough to satisfy them, but I have the opposite problem. It takes me forever to climax during sex. And Ive also heard women make the jokes about, well if a guy is going to take so long at least he should have something good to look at up on the walls, pictues painting... etc. Which had you rather have ladys? A guy that doesnt last long enough or a guy that takes forever? lol

2007-12-05 02:41:18 · 7 answers · asked by worknman1323 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend wants a lady to marry her and her fiance but he wants a man.She says in a traditional wedding the bride finds the preacher...has anyone ever heard this?She says its okay even though he dont want it cause its her choice traditionally.

2007-12-05 02:38:59 · 7 answers · asked by jt 3 in Weddings

We have a great sex life and pretty much everything is good but he has said a few times that he wishes I would kiss him more. Does this mean he needs more attention or what? Or does it mean anything at all?

2007-12-05 02:38:45 · 21 answers · asked by I got answers! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My kids are already getting mommy a really nice bracelet for Christmas albeit paid for by me since my two toddlers don't have money.

I'm clueless what to get my wife. We set a really low limit on what we're spending on each other this year $50, because we're saving for a trip in February. I've already got her a few little stocking stuffers.

She's hinted at earrings or watches, and I've seen a few nice ones. However, I don't think she'd want just a jewellery only Christmas.

Would you have a problem if you main gift from both your kids and your spouse were jewellery?

2007-12-05 02:27:42 · 28 answers · asked by CHARLES R 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner and i only ever fall out over his family. The problem lies with his mother and his sister. Ever since we got together they have never made an effort to get on with me, they say things that are hurtful, his mum and dad treat my partner and his sister totally differently, it's one rule for her another for him. His dad doesn't say anything but then that's just the problem, he obviously doesn't see anything wrong in the way they behave. I shouldn't take it personally as from what i can gather they have acted like this with all his girlfriends. I can understand people saying about his mum, oh that's because he's 'her boy' no-one will ever be good enough for him but she doesn't seem to care about him at all, never phones, visits or asks how he is. The biggest problem is although he knows what they do, he won't stand up to them. He thinks they are family and he doesn't want to burn any bridges, i think he should tell it like it is and they might have more respect? What's your view?

2007-12-05 02:23:41 · 12 answers · asked by honey 3 in Family

am kinda of nice but i dont want to be used

2007-12-05 02:23:11 · 1 answers · asked by P.D 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there too many rediculous relationship questions on here and do they get on your nerves? Don't you just feel like saying 'Ditch the *****' sometimes but instead end up acting like some knowledgable love Guru?

2007-12-05 02:21:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I made a big Pot of Homemade Vegtable soup!

2007-12-05 02:19:18 · 21 answers · asked by Dew 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know if there's a non-embarrassing way to put this. I'm one of the only virgins that I know, and there's this guy I really like, who kinda likes me back, I'm not exactly sure how he feels, but anyway, I kinda thinking about taking our relationship thing to the next level, but I'm kind of scared that we'll end up having sex. My problem with that, is that he's done one of my best friend's too, I just don't know if it's right. Any opinions?

2007-12-05 02:19:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=3000&prodgroup=123

This is a link to my dress...I am having an outdoor ceremony and indoor reception. My Fiance is wearing a tuxedo, is the dress too casual or formal enough?

2007-12-05 02:19:02 · 29 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Weddings

if you're 25 years girl.
and you love him so much.
but your parents will refuse this situation,and also you adore and respect them and you don't want to disobey them.
they're afraid of the problems that may arise later.
and that his income has to be divided on TWO houses.
and the children will come to live with you and him in your own house after their mother's custody ends,and you have to raise them up and take care of them.
but it's okay with you.
what will you do with your parents?
would you continue in this relationship?
what??

2007-12-05 02:18:27 · 53 answers · asked by passionate 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It could be there all it is work,eat and sleep like as if your single, lack of or no internation (like conservation or doing things on weekend). With the holidays here i think its worst emotional when you are feeling alone.

2007-12-05 02:09:13 · 19 answers · asked by just hanging around 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I used to work with a man and we would heaps now this was about 6 years ago we talk often and email he told me that he loves me we have only ever kissed and that is because we were both drunk. we have a huge spark between us and both of us know where we stand i dont want anything from him other that what it is now and he is the same . Is he cheating ?

2007-12-05 02:08:16 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard the saying "upstage a bride" and I just wondered how on earth one could do that and why would one want to do that?!

2007-12-05 02:07:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We act shy around eachother.

2007-12-05 02:06:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner says he can't get to sleep in our bed and has, for the last 4 or 5 days gone to sleep in the spare room. He says I wake him up. We have been under alot of stress lately. Our sex life hasn't changed much.

2007-12-05 01:59:14 · 29 answers · asked by nesta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 01:57:20 · 14 answers · asked by orange c 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 01:55:24 · 11 answers · asked by Stephanie A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I always meet guys that I like but when they ask me out on a date i get scared and make up excuses theyl ask me a few more times then get fed up and not bother again! how can I get over been so scard?

2007-12-05 01:52:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my bf and I got together 2 1/2 years ago he did not explain to me the true nature of his relationship with this girl. He led me to believe that it was a casual thing when it wasn't. Now I realized that he did not even have time to get over her. Am I the rebound girl and what should I do? Sometimes I feel that we should take a break and let him see if he wants to be with her.

2007-12-05 01:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend....lets say Mark ...has had his wife tell him full of joys that she is pregnant again. They already have 2 children 9 and 5. She was over the moon .......i congratulated him. Then he told me that he had a vasectomy 2 years ago, and i remember him going. He is asking me what he should do...he is devastated. How the hell do you give advice to this.......any ideas.

2007-12-05 01:43:53 · 36 answers · asked by tezz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello
I have been married ten years. To a man that was first loving to me and then kind of drifted off in his own shadow to speak.
So After having two kids now 5 1/2 and ten boy and a girl, I got my life on track. went to college 14 units. certificate in teaching with childcare.
My husband is not knowing proper disciplne and the home gets kind f chaotic. He works 6pm to 6am as an engineer and does not know hot to adjust to things or persistance.
I am very flexible unless people do not accomodate well like 50/50 then I walk away.
I feel this marriage has been a one way street.
the only things I feel are risky are my health I have lupus
my childrens needs
and the money. I have a bit saved up but thats what it all boils down to and he does make a good salary, so I am going to be ok if he wont be a dead beat dad in the end???
ADVICE THANKS
ps we also have a 4,000 mortgage and he never listens to my advice. Two homes. lol! OMG divorce and get $? 4K?

2007-12-05 01:43:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he doesn;t want to see me cos he says that he can't resist me. I still want to stay in touch, but i imagine that it is torture for him. he obviously still has feelings for me??

2007-12-05 01:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating