Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

so there's this guy that does varsity swimming with me for my high school. We are pretty good friends and we just met at the beginning of the swim season. So we joke around alot and smile at each other alot. At last weeks practice he like pushed me in the pool then i like splashed him and got him freezing. lol it was just a joke he didn't do it 2 b mean it waz funny.
then he also comes up behinds me sometimes and goes boo. We also talk alot and say hi to each other in the hallway.
hes a really great guy... but i'm confused. is what he doing flirting. or just being funny. and wat would b flirting?? sometimes i probably flirt and i dont even know it. examples!?!?

Thanks so much

2007-12-05 07:32:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were together a yr she was in the army&got out in Aug,was moving up here,was supposed to stay with fam in D.C. for the wkend,instead she started talking about finding jobs there&a house for herself,stopped saying I love you&stopped calling me baby,told me she needed space.the only time she said she loved me was when she needed money&she got over$5,000from me.she just stopped calling me her phone is off&I had no way of contacting her,after a mth she called me asking me to help her shes about to possibly get arrested&Im her only aliby.that was thanksgiving day&I havent heard anything from her since.I still love her very much eventhough theres apart of me that hates her,we had alot of bad times,she was emotionally,psysically abussive&cheated several times.let me add she was my 1st everything.but I remember the good times.I still have no way to get in touch with her what should I do,about my feelings&helping her??

2007-12-05 07:31:30 · 18 answers · asked by shine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Forget about personality for second, if a girl/guy (whatever you prefer) already had the perfect personality that you want in a significant other, and it was up to you to determine their looks...what you pick?

2007-12-05 07:30:28 · 13 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this one guy, his really nice but he's annoying. He sits with me during our 20 minute break, in between classes, and talks to me all through last hour, and sometimes even at lunch. How do I tell him that I would rather just sit with my friends at lunch and break without being mean or too harsh?

2007-12-05 07:29:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

but he told me this after we moved in. he didn't tell me this in the beginning of our relationship . was i used ? ( btw i moved out ).

2007-12-05 07:29:04 · 7 answers · asked by rodriguez m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We are planning a medieval wedding and for the favors we are wondering for the women would you rather have an organza sachet filled with some sort of fresh scented potpourri or a lace handkerchief... the men.. either a letter opener in the shape of a sword or gold chocolate coins in a velvet pouch?

2007-12-05 07:28:50 · 18 answers · asked by Kit 5 in Weddings

Say yes but in a very odd way. Who ever says it the coolest I'll give best answer.

2007-12-05 07:28:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to a wedding this summer of a college friend.

Well it was predominately a Jewish wedding. I'm Asian.

When I got to reception they seated me at an empty table with their housekeeper. I was shocked , humiliated, insulted because I thought she was my friend. That night I was just a stranger to her obviously.

Did I mention I spent $500 on their gift ?

I'm over it now but I look back and I think it was pretty racist of them . Why did she invite me if she didn't know where to seat me ?

2007-12-05 07:28:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

panties. Solids or designs? Favorite colors? And what type do you have on now?

2007-12-05 07:28:28 · 6 answers · asked by RD 1 in Singles & Dating

Welll i like him but my mate does 2... shes called kelly.. and the guys jack.. well kelly likes jack and she asked him out and he said no.. then kelly got her mate laura to ask him out for kelly.. and laura was literally begging :| i came up to them and asked them what they were talking bout and i just heard laura saying 'please go out with her she really likes you' and he said 'i cant go out with her, i dont like her like that' then looked at me and smiled..

And the other day i was talking to him and my bessie said that he was giving me the 'fall deeply into eyes' look, and when the bell went to go in he hugged me and said bye 2 me..and not anyone else =]

he always flirts with me in science and finds excuses to talk to me ... does this mean anything? he like me? lol sorry for the essay :$ xxxx Thanks

2007-12-05 07:26:48 · 5 answers · asked by Chillax 4 in Singles & Dating

Why are guys attracted to younger girls? Especially if they are petite or blonde. It is almost pedophile-ish!

2007-12-05 07:26:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend an i live about an hour away but see each other all the time. We are going amazing and have been together for a long time. We both mave had past relationships but we both can feel something different. We know we would last.....but LATELY he has made plans then cancled, doesnt call that much and not to mention he is a hugh flirt. But when i ask him if he wants a break or whats going on he get hurt and upset and says he LOVES me more than anything and "why am i doubting him." But im confused! What does he want??

2007-12-05 07:26:04 · 31 answers · asked by Ashleigh 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for over 15 years and have children. There is an attractive young lady who works on the same floor as me. As a guy, I couldn't help but stare sometimes, and I think she finally figured I was eyeing her. She started flirting with me from afar. I tried avoiding her once I noticed that, but then I started having feelings for her. I learned that she us also married. It seemed like she changed her mind about me because her flirtatious looks stopped. Then she was back at again. It's like a game. Now u have tried to completely avoid her, but it's diifficult when she's just down the hall. Was it my fault and did I lead her on? Now I think she's fallen for me and is probably wondering why i'm avoiding her.

2007-12-05 07:22:27 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a 2 1/2 year long distance relationship with a guy which ended a year ago. I used to travel to see him every other weekend and really hit it off with his best mates girlfriend during that time. I was completely and utterly besotted with my ex, but the relationship ended because we just couldn't see eye to eye and rowed constantly. Pragmatically, breaking up was the right thing to do, but I only feel that I coped with it so well because we made a clean break and have never attempted to contact each other since.

For the past 9 months I've been in a very stable and loving relationship with a new guy who has now moved in with me. Everyone says he's a much better match than my ex was and we get on fantastically although if I'm honest, I don't think I'll ever let myself fall for someone the way I did with my ex...

However, my ex's best mate and his girlfriend (whom I've kept in touch with via email since the split) are now getting married and have invited me to the wedding.

2007-12-05 07:21:36 · 23 answers · asked by arrabella 3 in Weddings

I bought one recently and wondered how well it would go over for a date. Should I get some antlers to go with it?

DRAGON 2008
"I BELIEVE IN U.S."

2007-12-05 07:21:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my age u win the 10 points, a star, and a thumbs up! Check my 360 page and good luck!!!! NOONE has ever guessed my age!!!!

2007-12-05 07:21:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cleening and now its getting to the worst of me. my house SMELLS SOOOOOO BAD. I sometimes feel like I live in a dirty fish tank!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! caus all the stuff is every where dirty and old food that smells soooooooooooooooo bad

:(

its also bad caus I cant ever let anyone in my house

I have to make up lies about the bathroom and be like "OH WERE WAITING FOR THE PLUMMER" to snak out the toilet :(
but everyone still no's im a slob...wich I dont care, I SWEAR to it, but i still dont let anyone in, unless its my little sister who is ten years younger thin me, im 24 she is 14 and she is a slob to so I no she wont really care :P

2007-12-05 07:21:03 · 27 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad's side came into some money recently and they were like us raised poor middle class. and now have become sadistic twisted cruel malicious aholes from the 9th circle of hell. Their kids are so cruel to me and their less wealthy cousins. They torment one so much she tried to kill herself. They didn't care that she tried to either. I think they called her a waste. She's a nice person. They are for the lack of a better word EVIL. Becoming Rich is all they care about in the world. NOthing else. they're crazy and get in my face and yell at me that i'm not good enough for the family and they teach their kids that it is ok to be violent and mean. And that they are better than everyone else. They treat me like i'm dirt and do spit at me in public.

2007-12-05 07:20:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Quick background: I am going through a divorce right now, and things are actually getting a little easier. My soon-to-be ex and I have had a few talks about a lot of stuff. The split is over something that happened several years ago, and just couldn't be let go, but in the meantime, enough time has passed, and enough changes have been made, for things to go relatively calmly, because we've both been able to realize it's in the past. So there isn't any present hatred or anything.

He is seeing someone, VERY soon after moving out, though. It hurts me a lot, but I am trying to deal with it, and am starting to come to accept it a little more. And my kids are crazy about her. Even I have to admit, she does seem genuinely nice.

This afternoon, my sons (4 & 6) and I were talking about making Christmas cookies, and a little later, about Christmas presents. My six-year-old wanted to know if I'd help him make cookies for "Miss C" for a xmas gift. (NOT FINISHED)

2007-12-05 07:19:44 · 51 answers · asked by CrazyChick 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy and i flurt with him all the time. today, he was hangin on me. he had his arm around me and keept leaning toward me. we have 2 classes together and we call eachother all the time. are we just friends, or does he want to be more?

2007-12-05 07:18:43 · 40 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and best friend of 12 years told me this weekend he needs to let me go. Not much reasoning behind it he feels he is not giving me what I deserve in a relationship. He is my best friend and I am totally devastated and heartbroken, We have 3 kids 1 of which is his (she is 9) and they are soo close she is his little mini me,,,they will absolutely crush her she is very sensitive and easily cries over anything. I know there isnt anyone else I know he would be going to a family members house to stay for now. I almost feel he needs a break more then a break up,,,I do everything for him he really has no idea the amount of stuff I do for this family on a daily basis. I am throwing up and havent really eaten anything in 4 days..he wants to stay until Christmas before he leaves. What the hell do I do?? I feel like a part of me is dying so please no nasty comments : (

2007-12-05 07:17:58 · 9 answers · asked by neicey800 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

alimony from my ex! Is is selfish of me to stay single?

2007-12-05 07:17:39 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend constantly has a boyfriend. One day, she told me that tons of guys liked me, and if I wanted a bf, then she could give me a list of some guys that liked me. But the guy that *I* liked wasn't on there. I know we'll never be together though, because he has been dating this girl since september, and it's going really well. There was another guy I like on there too. Should I go for him and move on? Or should I continue waiting for the taken one? Thanks a million =]

Felicity♥

2007-12-05 07:14:22 · 9 answers · asked by FelicityFrachesca 3 in Singles & Dating

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2007-12-05 07:13:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Been dating a guy for about 9 months. It was wonderful when we first met. Then we had the issue of his Ex interfering (3 yrs. sep. & divorced). He made changes and things improved, cause he wanted me in his life. I have always been open with him from the beginning about everything (not overly so). Always calm and communicative about stuff. No yelling or swearing, not my style. This is the thing, he always speaks in general statements, such as "I see you in my future", "I will do anything for us". He has never really opened up or talked about deep stuff or the future. He is an overly nice guy w/ a good heart. He says he "use" to be open. I don't know if the Ex beat him down or if it is just me? I have told him he can always talk to me and he says he feels he can. I just don't see it. How do you build something when you don't share deep feelings, thoughts and talks? He says he loves me. Can you help someone to open up or not? And if so, any ideas how?

2007-12-05 07:11:48 · 20 answers · asked by 2008girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am suffering a lot becasue of my wife. I got married one year ago, its arranged marriage and everything was done in 15days. Intial days of my marriage she is scold me about i am eating too much and i am ugly, not good and she created all the lies stories and telling to her parents. After one month of my marriage she gone to her parents house and didn't return and told the all created stories to her parents and they are also believed her. My self and my parents ask to come home but didn't come, after some days they realized and come to my home and told appolgies. After that I and my wife went to Singapore for my projoject. Here also she behaved same and created stories and telling to her parents. She is telling she didn't love or like me and i am not good by looking. she is pregnet now, she is in india with her parents, last 4 months no contact. Her parents believe her and creating mess to me. They are saying they will file the case. Its muslim marriage she is also muslim. please help

2007-12-05 07:10:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I called legal aid to get a lawyer for a divorce about 3 weeks ago and i finally got the paper work in the mail to start the process but iam so afraid to go thru with it even though my marrige is not working and i need to move on but im afraid.

2007-12-05 07:09:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Throughout the years this certain person constantly argues about every little thing. This person is cared for tremendously and well loved, but no matter what you do or say its not good enough. There ego is truly erratic and they think their better then you. They can be very insulting and extremely rude. Also, when guest or friends are around they go into outburst with them. When it's their friends they don't want you to say a word or say anything about them. This person continues to make attempts to make you upset. I don't know what's wrong with this individual. It's alway a complaint, their never satisfied. What would you do in a situation like this? Serious response only. Anyone that give a best answer will receive the 10 points.

2007-12-05 07:06:18 · 8 answers · asked by ione_thestar1 4 in Family

How much of the truth did you tell him?
I caught my wife having what I interpreted as an emotional affair of sorts. All she said they did was kiss on two occasions. But, of course I fear or have a suspicion there was something else. How honest were you?

2007-12-05 07:05:07 · 13 answers · asked by Here&Now 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need some advice on how to deal with my sister who has a bad temper. I live with her and her husband because its closer to work and closer to my boyfriend and its really cheap which helps me to save money. the problem is she has a really bad temper and it doesnt take much for her to go off on me and blame small things on me and give me a ton of stress. i dont know what to do. i dont know if i should move back in with my parents who live an hour away from my work and boyfriend costing me more money and less time with him, or if i should stick it out until i can get my own place in a few more months. how do i handle her until i can move out??? help!

2007-12-05 07:01:55 · 2 answers · asked by meganzss 2 in Family