i like this guy and i flurt with him all the time. today, he was hangin on me. he had his arm around me and keept leaning toward me. we have 2 classes together and we call eachother all the time. are we just friends, or does he want to be more?
2007-12-05 07:18:43 · 40 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for the guy, more - physically
2007-12-05 07:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants more. Flush out soon, however, if all he is interested in is something physical or if he respects you as a person and would consider being your boyfriend if that's what you want. He should not be doing this with multiple females, though, and if he is, then he's a player and I would back away. If he is leaning into you and has his arm around you, he wants a kiss, I would say. It starts there, but don't waste your kisses on someone who is looking to just use you. Take more time getting to know him 1 on 1 via activities together that don't necessarily depend on physical touching.
2007-12-05 07:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by John S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless ur in 3rd grade the best way to determine such things is conversation. find a private place where talking is easy and ease into a conversation. "you know we've been pretty close for a while (two weeks, two months, whatever) and I'd like to talk about how you and I feel about each other. I really like all the attention you give me. It makes me feel like we're starting to grow something. what do you think?"
you have to be ready for anything. that means you have to think. talk with mom, close girl firends or anybody whose opinion you respect.
possible answers.
1. I'm so glad you want to talk. I can't think of anybody but you.
your voice makes crazy and when you smile at me i feel like the lord of creation.
2. cool babe, i'm lookin' for a new booty call. you up for it?
3. I've never felt like this for anybody. I think we're too young for a long term relationship but I'd love to spend time with you and get to know you better.
or a thousand other possibilities.
good luck.
2007-12-05 07:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by bardmere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be at the beginning of a relationship. That's why you feel desperate. You want it to get going already. Enjoy this time with him, and the flirting that comes with it. Make it fun, and change your mind set. Show him your playful side, and that will tempt him to come closer, but don't ask for anything. Let him do the chasing, but don't let him catch you too fast.
2007-12-05 07:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this so many times! It's hard to be confident with this stuff if they don't make the first move. First, ask yourself if you really want to be with this guy, and if you like him, ask him about his feelings. If you think he likes you try telling him your feelings first, otherwise he MIGHT not tell the truth. But you have nothing to lose, the worst he can say is no! Hope this helps, good luck!
p.s. Most guys would like it if you made the first move.
2007-12-05 07:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by Alexandra F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult to say. I have a girlfriend, but at the same time I still walk up to my girl friends and say "Hey Cutie" or something to that effect. I also tend to hang on them, I mean, I'd never do it in front of my girlfriend, but she knows that I do that sorta stuff. So, as you can see, I don't want more. You'd probably have to put yourself out there and ask him what girls he likes and things like that.
2007-12-05 07:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both like each other.
Give him some hints that you like him too so he will be more confident in making the first move.
You could ask him over to your house to watch a movie or something. Or you could ask him to go to a movie, but be prepared to pay if you invite. My husband has told our daughter even if you ask him he should still pay. Depends on how he was brought up as to if he knows etiquette.
2007-12-05 07:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so i guess you need the house to fall on you not just getting hit in the head with a brick.
why are you waisting time go get what you want, he wants to be more than just a Friend. tard get out of the comfort zone and make the move it won't return void
2007-12-05 07:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see:
1. He's making physical contact with you.
2. He makes it a point to be near you.
3. His body language points toward his attraction for you.
I would say these make it conclusive that he's into you. :)
2007-12-05 07:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT in "desperate need of help". I am guessing you're about 14 years old & have your WHOLE life ahead. Don't try to grow up so fast. Ask him how he feels & put him on the spot or ask him out.
Maybe I should change my name to "Miss Cleo"!
2007-12-05 07:35:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seem that he wants some thing with u. if he didnt he wouldnt b spending alot of time with u. so good luck...if u really like him tellhim how u feel and he will probably make a move.
2007-12-05 07:24:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋