My friend constantly has a boyfriend. One day, she told me that tons of guys liked me, and if I wanted a bf, then she could give me a list of some guys that liked me. But the guy that *I* liked wasn't on there. I know we'll never be together though, because he has been dating this girl since september, and it's going really well. There was another guy I like on there too. Should I go for him and move on? Or should I continue waiting for the taken one? Thanks a million =]
Felicity♥
2007-12-05 07:14:22 · 9 answers · asked by FelicityFrachesca 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. be in a relationship if you feel right with the person.
2007-12-05 07:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like you have to have a boyfriend. It's okay not to.
So the guy you have your sights on likes someone else - it is really mature of you to want him to be happy and not interfere and not try to "win him over" from her, etc. You sound like a really good person. Things may go very well for them, and maybe he will end up marrying her, so I'm not sure how long you should really wait around to see if things pan out there.
Maybe it wouldn't be bad to go on a date or two here or there with some of these other boys. Maybe you'll find one that you do like and you'll forget about what's-his-name? Going steady with someone before you are emotionally over this other guy may not be such a good idea. It may hinder the relationship of the guy you are with.
2007-12-05 07:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by Damocles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Felicity, don't compare your social life to your friends s/l. So what, if she has plenty of boy friends. How does she know what guy likes you?? I wouldn't rely too much on "what she knows." When a guy is interested in a girl, he will let her know. He'll find lots of reasons to be near her, or in the same room/area as she is in. He'll eventually want to make small talk with you, get your phone number or whatever. In a nutshell, don't go after a guy, wait and let him notice you and start the hot pursuit thingy. Be patient and let Nature take it's course; you will eventually be rewarded.
2007-12-05 07:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a kid. Enjoy life and be happy. That's infectious and attractive to boys. They will be coming around soon. Don't go after another girl's boyfriend. That's never an option. And don't sit around waiting on him to realise that you are the love of his life, and dump her. That's probably not going to happen. Just be young and happy. Don't give yourself away. Hold on to your self-respect.
2007-12-05 07:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the other guy. Who knows you might end up liking him better. I mean would you rather spend your time dreaming of one guy, or having fun with another? It's not like your marrying the guy, you're just gonna go out. Try it out and see how it goes.
2007-12-06 03:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by ihateurdimpies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bypass for it. adult men at that age.. lets basically say they cant be relied on to do the finished with females. wait till you discover someone you've issues in user-friendly with. and the priority about your fantastic buddy, get over the guy because there is not any way your buddy will forgive you in case you bypass out with him. believe me i comprehend from adventure. sturdy success!. i'm hoping for you the finished. xoxo
2016-10-25 12:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u really that stupd?? well go for the UNtaken one duhh!!!
u just plan on waiting 4 a guy u dont even kno if u will ever have a chance with him bcuz u dont even kno his feelings towards u..... i personally would go 4 the untaken one....
make sure u trust ur friend n that shes not lying to u bout it....
luk girlie :)
2007-12-05 07:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by ~*precious*~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont rush into a relationship just because your friend is always in one that is just her style. if you want to get involved with someone make sure you want to be witht that person and they wnat to be with you.
2007-12-05 07:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls will NEVER have problems getting dates...guys will FOREVER be scared of rejection...just continue to let your light shine...someone will notice!
2007-12-05 07:17:50 · answer #9 · answered by WORD UP G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋