Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

been dating for over a year. we have talked about marriage and plan to once the money is right. the guy that is coming to town is such a distant relative if it was my family i wouldn't even count it. he said wile the guy is here he can't stay over at my house which i sort of respect because he wants to fake like he is a good muslim. he said he can come see me some or go do stuff. i asked him where he would tell the guy he was going. he said the guy wouldn't ask. so i kept after him til he admitted if it came down to it he would not admit to having a white girlfriend. he has told his immediate family about us and our future plans just not that we are having premarital sex and sleep overs. was i wrong to be so hurt about the double standard? my family isn't thrilled about me being with a muslim but since the start i have stood up for our relationship to them.

2007-12-05 07:46:32 · 13 answers · asked by cajunbaby 6 in Singles & Dating

Jeans and boots is what I usually wear, whats that say about me if its true?

2007-12-05 07:46:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to cook for my girflriend today to surprise her, and i dont know when to cook for her, either during the day when nobody is going to be home or at night when a few people going to be in house.

What should i do?

2007-12-05 07:45:35 · 4 answers · asked by luke2026 x 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that there are so many expenses involved in getting married. I was just trying to see if I could eliminate one fee. I think people spend WAY too much money on a dress. I would love to be able to find a dress for free. Money is very tight for me. I know there are people who want to get rid of their dresses or who bought one and never wore it and wants to sell it for cheap to get rid of it! Please help!

2007-12-05 07:45:03 · 15 answers · asked by maygenb2207 1 in Weddings

My Family is trying to seperate me and my fiance... they talk sh** about him everyday... Yes in the beginning of the relationship he wouldn't let me have any privelages but that's because I cheated on him and lied to him... I think I deserve what I got... People just don't understand that he didn't get controlling or abusive (not like hitting me or anything) just because it was because I was unfaithful... I Love him and I will never make those mistakes again... They keep sayin we'll never make it and he's an as*H*** and I don't deserve someone like him.. our relationship is perfect we haven't had a fight in so long as he finally trusts me and loves me and he's not being controlling anymore... Who is right? me or the people?? I think after cheating and lying i think i deserved the way he treated me after that... tell me what to do because everyone is spreading rumors tryin to split us up and ruin our plans.. i'm 7 months pregnant and we're getting married..please help

2007-12-05 07:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-05 07:44:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I haven't been to a wedding since I was very young, so I don't know much about normal protocol. I've heard of the typical stuff - towels, pots and pans, blenders, bed sheets, etc. However, I don't really know where to draw the line...

My fiance and I may be getting married as early as next May (we're planning small, so not much to do for it), so I figure we'll need to register kinda soon, and I don't want to register for something tacky or rude. We may also be buying a house, so not only would we need linens, etc., but also house stuff like a lawnmower, hedge trimmers, etc. for the yard. Is that ok?

Long story short - is there a price limit you should stick to, what items are normal, and what items are off-limits?

2007-12-05 07:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by Galaxie Girl 6 in Weddings

My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years and I have stayed at home with the kids while he has worked. He has never let me buy him anything for any of those important holidays or just because I wanted to. He feels that since he makes the money he will just buy for himself which means whatever he wants. I dont even get to buy for my friends and their kids or my neices for any occassion is this the way it should be if you stay at home and dont bring in the money?

2007-12-05 07:44:32 · 16 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to hire someone to write a biography of my grandparents to give to all the grandkids and great grand children as a gift. Any suggestions how I would go about doing this? It would be in the Sacramento, CA area if you have a referral.... Thank you.

2007-12-05 07:42:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

For those of you who had the willpower to wait until you were married to make love. How long did it take you to become good at the physical act?

Did it take a few weeks of talking and practicing until you became an expert on what you and your partner enjoyed, and you didn't need them telling you to go higher, lower, softer, etc?

Did it take weeks, months, years, or only a few days? How often did you have sex when you were newly married?

2007-12-05 07:42:05 · 9 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She is 35 and I am 22. We both got to know eachother a couple of months ago, while we were painting a family friends apartment....after the painting, she gave me her number and told me to call. I did. She came over and we had good conversation, then it shifted to the PAST younger guys she has been with... she told me that she has been with a 20 year old and a 21 year old... Should I take this as a sign that she LIKES ME? Or does she want to see want I will do? please I need help. When do i call?

2007-12-05 07:41:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and me have been going out for over five years, since we hit the three year mark I been asking him about marriage. He is a little younger then me and everytime I talk about getting married he gets upset and says he will talk to me later. Later never comes! I'm 25 and I don't want to wait forever. My question is how long should I wait until I decide to break up with him and find someone that is willing to commit to me?

2007-12-05 07:41:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband said he wanted to give me a creampie, but he can't cook or bake all that well.

2007-12-05 07:41:00 · 11 answers · asked by Sandy O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 07:40:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and now there is a baby thats involved... he says he loves me and he wants to be with me but he feels he has to stay with her to be a good dad WTF should i do?!!?

2007-12-05 07:40:22 · 18 answers · asked by fina87 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Yeah, it isn't a big deal really, but I want to let her know I'm sorry and I love her. What is something nice I can get her and leave it in her car so she sees it after work? Dun think flowers will hold till then and kinda cliche anyway.

2007-12-05 07:40:05 · 7 answers · asked by Grant 2 in Singles & Dating

anything i do..even if its correct she has the balls to criticise me ... and wehn my sil.. her younger dil.. demands food on bed cos she had a NORMAL delivery ...and has trouble walking in house..mil is ok with that ,
iv been married 8 years but i have not much say .

if i go to holiday and i WANT my kids to be with my mom im having a hard time thinking how to convince them???

2007-12-05 07:39:47 · 3 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like her and cant live without her. she is my best friend. she is really mad at me and havent called me in 4 days now. i need her back in my life. what should i do? please help me out!

2007-12-05 07:39:30 · 9 answers · asked by surfingbeaver 2 in Friends

He's like 29 now. This is my mom's 6th or 7th marrige, and we all hate him. He's from Ecquador and he's living under a false name. He's working under that name too, and he switches back and forth between a couple of names to avoid his past criminal charges coming to light.
He mistreats my grandmother and he doesn't treat my mom right either.
She says she's going to get rid of him, and she has a violence restraing order on him, so he can't do anything. He's hanging on a thin string by living here.
He wants to get rid of me and my grandma.
I've only just turned 17.
Is there anything I could do?
I'm willing to do just about anything to get rid of him.
Please help.

2007-12-05 07:39:17 · 7 answers · asked by Dr. C∂ƒƒee £ips :} 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok im a newly wed and we been having trouble with the relationship..he keeps receiving Naked pictures of a girl that he works with..I have cought him with those pictures twice and i confronted him!! But he would always tell me that those pictures didnt mean anything to him and that he would make sure not to receive those pictures anymore..he promised and he said that he Loved me and will stop right away..i believed him and forgave him.. But today i check his email and guess what i find? yup, new naked pictures of that same girl..cuz he would receive the pics in his cell and then from his cell he would send them to his email..He thought he was sleak..(the only reason i go thru his stuff is cuz he brokethe trust that i had for him) What should i do now? is having naked pics of a girl/boy u work with acceptable if your married? He promised to stop and he didnt should i forgive and forget or just leave him for good? is this cheating?

2007-12-05 07:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok im a newly wed and we been having trouble with the relationship..he keeps receiving Naked pictures of a girl that he works with..I have cought him with those pictures twice and i confronted him!! But he would always tell me that those pictures didnt mean anything to him and that he would make sure not to receive those pictures anymore..he promised and he said that he Loved me and will stop right away..i believed him and forgave him.. But today i check his email and guess what i find? yup, new naked pictures of that same girl..cuz he would receive the pics in his cell and then from his cell he would send them to his email..He thought he was sleak..(the only reason i go thru his stuff is cuz he brokethe trust that i had for him) What should i do now? is having naked pics of a girl/boy u work with acceptable if your married? He promised to stop and he didnt should i forgive and forget or just leave him for good? is this cheating?

2007-12-05 07:38:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hold hands-
kiss-
cuddle-
hold each other at night-
sex- is it better worst not as much or just get it and go to sleep?

How have things changed since you've been married vs when you were dating?

2007-12-05 07:38:23 · 13 answers · asked by atchison5_07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people confuse lust for love?

Can lust turn into love?

2007-12-05 07:38:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a huge crush on a junior that goes to my school.i am a freshmen.i have never talked to him b4 but ppl tell me that he is a super nice guy! i wuld really like to get to kno him though. i have liked him for like 4 months and just recently he has been looking at me constantly in the mornings and at lunch and then when i pass him in th ehallways he glances at me EVERYDAY! He has a GF though and they supposely just started going out. What does glances mean if they happen every day from the same guy? could it mean something? does he know i like him? he barely even knows me and i don't know him that well but he seems like a really cool guy...can u be interested in someone you don't know?? and at lunch his friends always look back at me and he does it too...my friends even notice him glancing at me all the time...please help me i am so confused!!! DO GLANCES MEAN ANYTHING AT ALL????????

2007-12-05 07:38:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend of 5 years has recently begun talking and getting involved with guys from myspace, which I think is very dangerous, but she does it anyway
She has a new bf now that she met from there, and they have been dating for about 6 months or so
I noticed that she had been gaining a lot of weight which is VERY much unlike her, and I asked her if something was wrong and if she was depressed w/ her new guy
She told me that for years she has had this sexual fetish to gain weight and this guy shares it with her, and together they are trying to gain as much weight as they can
She went on to tell me about how they feed each other fattening food and have the best sex ever
I was more than stunned, and being her friend, I just listened, but now she tells me all the time about things they do together, and it's bizarre, not to mention a health hazard!
How can I handle this without being mean and loosing my friendship with her?

2007-12-05 07:37:46 · 4 answers · asked by marm212 5 in Friends

Is it possible for you to just...become insane from the lack of friends or popularity?
Because...I've lost all my friends in three days due to retarded reasons, and now I'm alone.
Everyone hates me because of the retarded stuff I've done.
ex: jealousy (in thier minds) and offending my best friend with an matter-of-fact remark.

and now, they've told everyone, and now I'm screwed, and nobody likes me because they think I'm a *****!!

PLEASE...
I don't know what to do....

2007-12-05 07:37:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My parents got divorced about two years ago and I'm over it.
I live with my mom, but see my dad on the weekends.
Once, I met his friend Carrie, she seemed nice, but I couldn't cope with her. She kept telling me to appriciate my dad and the things he does for me. Which is what my mom tells me too. And both my parents always tell me to speak my mind so I said, "I already have a mom to tell me these things, I don't need you to." She seemed offended, I didn't care, she isn't my mom and she never will be.
I didn't even know they were dating, my dad just says 'friend'.
They have been 'friends' for 5 months now, and my dad said they are getting married in February and my sister and I might be able to live with them.

What do I do?

2007-12-05 07:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just choose YES or NO...

2007-12-05 07:36:48 · 12 answers · asked by Fionnah G 1 in Singles & Dating

i told my mom she should get him anger management because hes always mad at me and her but not as much this isnt the first time it has happened and she tol me shes heard enough and im not allowed to go out tonight or this weekend what should i do?

2007-12-05 07:35:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-05 07:33:29 · 37 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce