My Family is trying to seperate me and my fiance... they talk sh** about him everyday... Yes in the beginning of the relationship he wouldn't let me have any privelages but that's because I cheated on him and lied to him... I think I deserve what I got... People just don't understand that he didn't get controlling or abusive (not like hitting me or anything) just because it was because I was unfaithful... I Love him and I will never make those mistakes again... They keep sayin we'll never make it and he's an as*H*** and I don't deserve someone like him.. our relationship is perfect we haven't had a fight in so long as he finally trusts me and loves me and he's not being controlling anymore... Who is right? me or the people?? I think after cheating and lying i think i deserved the way he treated me after that... tell me what to do because everyone is spreading rumors tryin to split us up and ruin our plans.. i'm 7 months pregnant and we're getting married..please help
2007-12-05 07:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IT'S A BIG STEP AND U DID GET WHAT U DESERVED SORRY BUT IT'S TRUE,AND IT'S GOOD HE FORGAVE YOU AN DNOW YOU 2 CAN MOVE ON AND ENJOY YOUR LIVES TOGETHER GET MARRIED ANDTAKE CAR EOF THAT BABY AND YOUR FAMILY IS YOUR FAMILY BUT DONT MAKE OR LET THEM CHOOSE FOR YOU OR DECIDE FOR YOU OR TELL YOU WHAT TO DO YOU DO IT FOR YOU NOT FOR THEM IT'S YOUR LIFE AND YOUR LIVING IT ,YOU DID WHAT THEY WANTED ALL YOUR LIFE GROWING UP AND NOW YOU ARE OLDER AND YOU DO WHAT U WANT AND NEED TO DO AND FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT AND ALWAYS TRUST IN YOUR HEART AND BELIEVE
2007-12-05 09:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so right. You cheated and you did get what you deserve. Now your fiance trusts you again. Thank god he forgive you. Now about your family.... who cares? Yes they are your family and are a big part of your life but remember it is YOUR life. If you love him it shouldn't matter. You got eachother and that's a lot for love :P
2007-12-05 08:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Coca Cola 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's forgiven you then you need to concentrate on just the two of you but understand your families reservations of him b/c regardless of how just he was or not on his reaction to your cheating, your family is protecting you which is kinda nice. Push them aside in your mind and just concentrate on the two of you to get past the hurdle. You're pregnant and need to be healthy and happy to have a happy content child. That should be the focus now.
2007-12-05 08:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's an exceptionally crappy concern and that i'm so sorry to hearken to that. sounds like consistent rigidity day in and day trip. even even with the indisputable fact that shifting isn't an decision, do you think of you may exchange your telephone numbers and e mail addresses?
2016-10-10 08:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as helpful as parents and family members try to be they forget when they got married, or going to get married someone didn't approve of them.
can you honestly say you want to make it work ? if so then read the bible it reminds us that we are to leave our parents and Cleve to our spouses. In the end that is what it is about do you and are you willing to spend the rest of you life with him. if so go with it.
2007-12-05 08:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by working together 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you need to tell your family what you did to make him act the way he was acting. If they knew all the facts then maybe they would back off & understand why he acted that way.
If they can't accept it then you do what you have to do, if you really love him marry him, & your family will come to accept it or not, but it will be their loss not yours.
2007-12-05 07:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship is so perfect why did you cheat on him?You probably deserve each other.
2007-12-05 07:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trust your heart but use your brain.
2007-12-05 07:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by coolkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please marry him as fast as you possibly can.
It is women like you who lie to themselves and refuse to see the truth that make divorce attorneys like me rich as hell.
Good luck.
2007-12-05 07:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋