Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

My husband and I are expecting and well through out my years in knowing him hes always said he wants a little girl. WHich is fine by me im happy either way. Heres my question, we do not know the sex of the baby but im due next month and well, im worried if he doesnt get a girl he will be dissapointed in me. I know he loves and cares for me we dated for 4 years and have been married 2 1/2. I just dont want to dissapoint him, ive been able to give him anything and everything he has wanted etc(not just material things)but this is the one thing i can not control and i just dont want him to be upset, how do you think he will react? Has anyone else felt this way?

2007-12-05 08:57:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There are so many problems in my house, I don't have time to name them but, I I want to move out...what do I need to do once I live on my own, I'm not completely clueless I know it's going to be hard supporting my self but what should I do, are teens allowed to rent apartments. what can I do and what shhouldnt I do


please no bad remarks I just need an answer

2007-12-05 08:56:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-05 08:55:49 · 13 answers · asked by Nyema 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Been married 8 months. B4 my b-day he asks me what I want and I give him several reasonable ideas. All under $50 not that $ is an issue. On my bday I get nothing. He invites his parents over even though I have flu very bad and they don't even bring a card. I still haven't gotten anything and its 2 mo later. He knows feelings hurt but i don't keep bringing it up. He cancels plans with me (we rarely get to go out alone because of kids, he works a lot and sometimes out of town) like its no big deal. I thought he was just that way, but recently I notice he doesn't do that to anyone else. His parents asked us to come get Xmas tree with them and I said OK, but then told him I wanted to do it another day, not feeling well. He was so upset to cancel these plans. We see his parents several times/week and go on vacations with them. They are very nice people and treat me well but what gives? I feel bad and don't know what to do. Not like this at all before we got married. I treat him VERY well.

2007-12-05 08:55:07 · 26 answers · asked by Sushieater 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Which is better in your opinion?
Guys: based on enjoyment and comfort with requesting
Gals: based on enjoyment and comfort with positioning/maintaining

A. The classic "Pretzel" position
B. The "Wall Facing Hand Stand Peach Cobbler" position

2007-12-05 08:52:52 · 4 answers · asked by mxyzptlk20 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently came home from jail (4 years). Before I went in my wife said she'll stick buy me. When I was in jail my wife refinanced the house and now the mortgage is through the roof. I have been home now for 3 month and unable to find a job (im actively looking). Now all she does is complain about bills piling up and how i'm not helping out.She didn't let me use her car to on everal interviews and I had to take pub. transpo. She constantly says i need to "be a real man" and hes more naggy and verbally disrepectful since I came home.Recently we mutally agreed that I stay with my brother until "we get ourselves together". When I call to come over or try to talk to her its just not there. I doubt it's another man because the bills are still past due. If I get a job and move on with my life separatly am I wrong. Or if she suddenly wants me back is she wrong. How would married women treat their husband if he fell on hard luck?P.S when I was working I contributed to everything. Im not a slob

2007-12-05 08:52:12 · 22 answers · asked by lifelongskinsfan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this is the girl is everything in the world to me

2007-12-05 08:51:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

stares at me when I'am readind a book but she asks one of her classmates to sit next to her.Also she would observe me when I walk past her?What do you think she is thinking.Is she she just curious about me or she is trying to avoid me or what?

2007-12-05 08:51:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago, and well ever since he did there are many guys who began showing an interest in me. My heart is still with my ex though, so what do I do... do i try to get my ex back or try to get a guy that is somewhat decent to actually like a girl like me?

2007-12-05 08:50:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 08:50:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IS IT WISE TO LEAVE YOUR SPOUSE FOR SOMEONE YOU HAD AN AFFAIR WITH OR YOU THINK YOU LOVE, WE A BEAUTIFUL SON, I AM CONFUSED. WE HAVE BEEN SEPARTED FOR 8 MONTHS CUZZ OF THIS AFFAIR. I DONT KNOW IF I WANT TO GET DIVORCED.

2007-12-05 08:50:34 · 13 answers · asked by Pete 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy on my bus who obviously likes me, but i really don't like him. How can i tell him without really telling him that i don't like him?
Help!!!!!!!

2007-12-05 08:50:33 · 3 answers · asked by -->[[Katie]]<-- 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so this guy that i realy like asked me out but i know my mom and dad wont like him but i said yes anyway. the thing is that i am not going to tell them but my mom is a teacher @ my school so she might find out anyway. am i totaly screwed

2007-12-05 08:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Follow up to my other question.
Better Picture.
What would you rate her?
*HINT* Halloween Picture :)
http://i137.photobucket.com/albums/q202/cheer1023/DSCN3797.jpg

2007-12-05 08:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by cheercutie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 08:49:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at the beginning of the year i met a guy darren and he reallyy flirted with me all the time. we always gave eachother hugs and acted all nice around eachother. he even asked me for kisses. then one day he stopped coming around me and he hasnt been close to me since probably the first week of november or last week of october. now, when he comes at my lunch table he talks to EVERYONE, my friends and he looks at them all but now he wont talk to me or EVEN LOOK AT ME. when he comes to our table for about a few minutes, i see him and he DOES NOT AT ALL look at me. in gym, he used to look at me, now he doesnt. i used to be really shy around him so maybe i did something? hes really outgoing. like today he talked to my whole table for a few minutes, didnt look at me once..at all..is he treating me like this becuz hes mad or upset that i seemed un-interested or is he jealous that im friends with guys or WHAT...i really would like to know why hes acting like that....is he doing it for attention?

2007-12-05 08:47:18 · 10 answers · asked by sugar 3 in Singles & Dating

Do women stop growing? And men??

2007-12-05 08:46:45 · 4 answers · asked by cutiecaity85 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 08:44:57 · 25 answers · asked by vw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this guy and we've done almost everything except traditional sex. Its driving me bananas. Why doesn't he just f**k me? He knows every inch of my body, its like he's studying me with a microscope. What the heck does he want from me? I want to love him. BTW, this is a long distance "relationship" or should I call it a friendship. One never knows, lol.

2007-12-05 08:44:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok experts-About 5 years ago, this girl and I hung out a lot and dated each other and liked each other a lot. We dated for about 6 months until she told me we should be friends because things moved too fast and because of lack of communication. She told me that she didn't know if I liked her or not and she said she thought we needed to get to know each other more as friends. I still liked her a lot so I kept being her friend and we stopped dating, but still hung out. After that, I only hung out with her once in the past 3 years when she invited me to her Birthday party( when I went to her party I took the chance to tell her my feelings and she said she had a boyfriend, and he was actually at the party!). So that was the last time I saw her, until this past weekend where she instant messaged me and told me she just moved to my city! She said she wanted to hang out. So we actually hung out for the first time in about 18 months over the weekend....

2007-12-05 08:42:59 · 29 answers · asked by DN1503 4 in Singles & Dating

i was havein sex wit my boyfriend and i was on top and he nutted inside me and a couple seconds later i got up and it leaked all over me

2007-12-05 08:42:57 · 68 answers · asked by crzygurl0003 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm only fourteen.

Okay, so I was having a really bad day, felt terrible, no makeup on and wearing sweets. And then this really cute guy asked me out after 6th hour!!!! It was really awkward. At first I thought I had misheard him because it was so unexpected. He said that he'd been trying to get the courage to ask me out all week, and of course I said yes. (I mean, he's really cute!) But it was just so awkward and then we both just kind of walked away and I don't have his number and don't know what to do now. What in the world do I do? I get so shy and nervous, I can't talk to cute guys, and the only time I see him is 6th hour and I don't want all of my friends watching when I talk to him, I'll be embarrassed!! I've never been asked out by a cute guy before!

HELP!!!

2007-12-05 08:42:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so you know when you try to ring a number and the phone just gives a dead line? no dial tone or anything what is wrong with the phone? is it out of service or what?

2007-12-05 08:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by Amy G 1 in Singles & Dating

ladies .... where is the fine line between someone trying to prove their love and being a downright stalker??

2007-12-05 08:41:04 · 33 answers · asked by curious question 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 08:39:43 · 17 answers · asked by john f 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband a friend, he can talk to her on a personal level.
He use to talk and text her all the time until I said something. It has slowed down since then. But know he wants my permission again to talk to her. I told him it bothers me for him to even talk or text her. He says Im being paranoid. Please help WHat do you think?

2007-12-05 08:38:17 · 44 answers · asked by NERAK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend (mr.perfection) who i mentioned in another question, found my question, knew it was about him, and became real upset. he didnt talk to me at all today and i was going to forgive him and talk about what happened but he didnt want anything to do with me. and now i think ive lost a good friend, he may be a jerk, but he was still my friend

2007-12-05 08:36:33 · 6 answers · asked by Moose Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm alwayz "playfully" being mean to him, but I'm dying to tell him how I really feel

2007-12-05 08:36:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is she pretty?
on a scale 1-10
what do you rate her?
http://i137.photobucket.com/albums/q202/cheer1023/DSCN4232.jpg

2007-12-05 08:35:06 · 44 answers · asked by cheercutie 1 in Singles & Dating

how could people on a fix income or just plain poor people afford to go christmas shopping when thing or so high to me the holiday are made for the rich not for the poor where do they get the money from ?to go shopping. they have bills to pay do they skip paying a bill ? I'm on a fix income I dont have a christmas tree are gifts for my kids are my self thing are to high I paid my rent and buy food that it . I wish i could go Christmas shopping and my bills or paid. how do they do it? I would love to go christmas shopping I just dont hve the money

2007-12-05 08:33:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships