We dated for 3-4 years and he was my first love. She's still in love with her ex. But she and my ex are best friends. The reason it upsets me so much is because she was with him when we were first getting together, and yes he did choose me but it was always a hard thing to deal with because they were so close, and she always told me stories about them sharing a bed etc that made me feel jealous or uncomfortable.
She asked me 2 weeks after we broke up earlier this year how I'd feel if she was with him, and I told her she had a right to do it but I didn't think our friendship would survive it. I just found out they slept together over a month ago and nothing more is apparently going to happen, and I have a new boyfriend so perhaps I shouldn't care, but I feel very betrayed by her. Is this feeling unjustified?
I want to move away from the friendship but I'm worried people will think I'm being unreasonable or immature? What do you think?
2007-12-05
08:59:19
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