Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

husband is to old and boring..im 19yrs old he is 9yrs older..i need tips so i don't get cought. i want to do a over night thing. i have it all planned for the most part..give me all the advice u have..

2007-12-05 11:07:29 · 20 answers · asked by kyras_mommy121205 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, this is gonna sound weird but, here it goes, It all started when I first started coming to my new school, The school was smaller but a lot of fun, the first few days it was fun, until Sarah came into the picture, At first we were sorta friends, and we both liked art, I drew Anime, and was best artist in class, she drew, um... stick men, anyway, she started copying my style, failing at it in every way, and so I tried to train her, but she never listened, she stole some of my art and tried to pass it off as her own, and then it got ugly, I started showing my darker side, a little emo/goth if you wanna label it, she copied that, I dyed my hair, she dyed it the same color, she started following me, stole my phone number and even said she hates me, but the next day she started saying "HI" really loud all through the day, Pretending to be my friend, speading rumors, and I just ignored it, she kept at it, now she copy's me in everything. I really hate it!!

2007-12-05 11:06:29 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-05 11:06:11 · 7 answers · asked by Why does everyone hate me? 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that likes me. and i didnt know he did for a fact untill yesterday. when i was going thourgh my purse i found a small peice of paper with his number on it. i really dont like this guy he gets on my nerves, i dont wanna call him and i was just going to act like i didnt know that i had his number. but then my big mouth friend goes up to him today and says " why did u give her your number???" and he said he didnt. but i know he did. now he wont talk to me. i mean hes one of my friends but i dont know what to do! ughh some one tell me somthing anything!

2007-12-05 11:05:00 · 1 answers · asked by Morgan A 3 in Singles & Dating

like with my gf. i think there is a difference between having sex and making love. but no matter what its a trick to get her in the mood and even then she is weird about it. so she wont let me just go to town on it, she makes me barley sneak it in for like 5 minutes barley moving it and then finnally after im bout to go insane she lets me move it a little. even then she will come up with something to get out of bed like " i have to pee" and im like wtf dont preheat the oven if u dont plan on cookin. she claims she is not a virgin but i dont know. on top of it i just came from a relationship where i got it when ever i wanted it however i wanted it. this sucks

2007-12-05 11:01:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im only 12, but im like super mature (already gone through puberty) and a guy that is 14 really likes me, and i really like him. i know he is gonna ask me out, but im wondering if i should say yes or just say im not ready. p.s. we have kissed before and we text eachother all day saying that see like each other. ok not done. theres also this guy in tenth grade (im in 7th) at my school and hes super nice and he also likes me and i like him too and i dont know what to do because hes 15 almost 16 and were already going to the movies together (i think as friends).... p.s. parents are not a problem.

also guy #1 doesnt speak (i speak spanish the language he speaks) english my language of choice, and guy #2 does speak english....

ok i need answers!!

2007-12-05 11:01:09 · 13 answers · asked by spogetti0s 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do ?
when someone betrays you then they come back and you act like every thing is ok (but you hate them inside) but your just gona wait for the momement to pay them back but as you wait you gorow close to them agan and you still hate them more then ever .....what do you do??

2007-12-05 11:00:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-05 11:00:27 · 1 answers · asked by asahiippo 2 in Singles & Dating

my 3 friends and i had a few drinks and one girl had a few too many. i'll call her "Ducky". Ducky has never been w a guy. ducky had got sick and we had to lay her down. so like 3 hrs later i get smashed and have to lay down so i go to lay in her bed. well ducky kept trying to finger me and i kept tellin her No and pushing her off and i even curled up and squished myself into the corner of the bed. but she was very persistant. so i went to sleep on the couch in other room. i am so freaked out and disgusted cuz it makes stuff awkward between us and i am not even sure she remembers. but if i remembered it and i was drunk- how can she not?
should i just toss this up to a wild drinking night and forget about it?
or should i talk to her and ask her if she is gonna wear birkenstock sandles and move to san francisco to become a freewheelin lesbodian?
i am trying to make a joke but this really is bothering me.

2007-12-05 10:58:03 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

Like, teenage guy tips?

2007-12-05 10:55:17 · 17 answers · asked by crapocat 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone raped your daughter, like between the age of 12-15 what would you do to the man who did it to her?

2007-12-05 10:55:09 · 22 answers · asked by Melony C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 15 years old and over 200 pounds. I can't get a date because of my weight and I'm so ugly that everytime I look in the mirror I look at myself and cry. I try to change but things don't really work out. I have an awesome personality but guys here don't really go for personality all they care about is looks. And when it comes to looks I'm butt-ugly. And I've been called ugly so many times by guys I'm starting to believe them. And whenever someone gives me a positive compliment, I can't seem to get the negative ones out of my head so I say yeah right. Help!!!!

2007-12-05 10:53:54 · 29 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Singles & Dating

who you just thought WOW


What was she like?

2007-12-05 10:50:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 10:48:40 · 12 answers · asked by Heather R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems every pro-abortionist I've talked to is disgusted that men are pro-life... of course they are! And for the same reason that women are as well. They respect life, and do not want to see their children, siblings, nieces, nephews, etc. killed in the name of "choice."
I see no problem in men being allowed to be pro-life. After all, abortion degrades fatherhood as much as it does motherhood.

Why do you think there's a problem?

2007-12-05 10:46:05 · 19 answers · asked by K.D. 2 in Family

My boyfriend best friend killed himself this past week and I am really not sad about it. He was a drug addict who liked to try and make everyone as miserable as he was. He told me once that he wanted the whole town to shoot dope like he did so they could all enjoy it. Since me and my honey have sobered up the only time we have seen them ( the friend and his wife) is to try and get us to do **** or try and get my honey to commit fraud by saying the guuy worked for him. We have a house and kids and our lives had changed. I try to be sad for my honey as they were best friends growing up but as everyone is telling me how great this guy was all I see and remember are the terrible things he did and said to everyone. I honestly think maybe he will finally be happy and at peace so I believ it is for the best. Yes he was too young but the life he was leading was hell. Am I terrible for not feeling bad?

2007-12-05 10:42:34 · 37 answers · asked by Kookie M 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you deal w/a guy that is nothing but DRAMA. And I don't just mean some things...I'm talking EVERYTHING is a major freak-out fit. He doesn't like something, he swears it's all your fault & you are the worst thing to ever happen to him & he's never stepping foot in your car again! Or he gets mad at you and constantly emails your ex telling him how horrible & insane you are?! Or he gets frustrated & can't talk things out so he just tells you to go to h*ll and then spends the next 24hrs sending you nasty, horrible texts/emails/ims telling you that you are a b*tch & a wh*re & every other evil thing he can think of? Oh, & don't forget how the world is all about him...he never thinks of you. And he writes horrible posts online about you. And you are 5 months pregnant! How would you deal with him? He's 30 years old...would you expect more maturity and respect for someone his age? Would you give it time to calm down? Should I cut my losses and run??

2007-12-05 10:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by sublime 5 in Singles & Dating

I realize that this person a hopeful new friend has a baby new mom and all , but why after a few days not return my calls since yestuday? They are looking for someone to spend their life with a decent guy of which i am one but all the same.Why not call even though I know the kid takes up her time.

2007-12-05 10:39:03 · 11 answers · asked by craig_snow2000 1 in Singles & Dating

Since rent should take up no more than 33% of your pay, that means that we would need a household income of at least $4500/month in order to live in a 1BR apartment in SoCal. He makes nowhere near that, maybe $2200/month. He has been searching for a good IT job in the area for over a year. His current employer's company will most likely go bankrupt very soon, and this employer has not given him a raise in over a year. I know my fiance is constantly looking for a job, but in all this time he's been to 2 or 3 interviews. When I ask him about how we are going to live on his current pay (I am a full-time student but am willing to take on a part-time job), he does not give me a direct answer: something like, "Don't worry about it; I will get a job." I love him very much, and I will never leave him, but it really worries me when I do not know how we will be able to support ourselves at the minimum. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I should handle this situation?

2007-12-05 10:38:48 · 18 answers · asked by irinaczarina 1 in Weddings

I know the male ego can be fragile but If your man wasn't pleasuring you right but you know telling him that would offend him. Would you just say nothing and hope it gets better or let him know?

2007-12-05 10:35:39 · 22 answers · asked by kharilli 5 in Singles & Dating

i am sick of guys, i really want to find a sweet guy that is just honest with me, but there are just to many players, (skilled players) and they just use me as eye candy for their friends and selves, i dont like it, how do i know if a guy is being true, and not just using me, and has other women on the side? and if i do know they are using me how do i confront it, without being to outrageous?

2007-12-05 10:34:14 · 39 answers · asked by charlie 2 in Singles & Dating

What is ur opinion on dating what age do you think a GIRL should start dating and what age do you think a GUY shoudl start dating???

2007-12-05 10:33:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i read in seventeen magazine about this girl who was forced to pose nude on the internet. there was this guy and he started talking to her on myspace, and then some how got her email address. then she moved and bought a web cam, and he would get mad when she wouldn't have time for him. i mean like she didn't even know the guy!!! well um then he kept asking her to show him her boobs. and she tried to change the subject. then he finally said if you don't he would rape her and kill her parents. she did what he asked and cried while she did it. what would you do?

2007-12-05 10:30:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he really loves me and that hell b with me forever and he wants 2 marry me.And i loved him 1st,but i knew him 4 5 years and now he says he loves me.We r goin out but i dont think i should,my parents i dont think will let us go out.Wat should i do if we really love eachother?

2007-12-05 10:26:28 · 3 answers · asked by NekoNini 1 in Singles & Dating

we were married 6 years and i left him for someone who was a lot better for me. but now i realize that there were alot of things i could have changed about myself and i regret my choices.he says he still loves me but doesnt know if he could trust me again.

2007-12-05 10:24:39 · 18 answers · asked by VANESSA H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she is devastated and i dont know what to say to her or how to help her

2007-12-05 10:23:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i really liked this girl. and well idk i thoguht we could become better friends and it never really happened. like we would talk but nothing more than a little bit. nothing that deep. anyway not that that she ignores me but she really dont start convorsations with me i gotta say sometin2 her. i mean idk if shes shy cuz theres been times weve talked alot. well idk, but i dont think she really likes me. shes sorta more popular than me and well idk i realized 2 day that its not gunna workout. i wanted 2 find a gf this year i thoguht she was the 1. now that i realize shes not.. i really dont even like any1 else at this time. idk please help me get over it and find a girlfriend. Please help me im really desperate.
thanks 2 every1 who responds 2 this!

2007-12-05 10:20:14 · 12 answers · asked by Fballa 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay I have a boyfriend soon too be baby daddy. I hooked up with him like 5 months ago. He's a rapper. Not famous. But latley things been really confusing. We dont live together yet so it kinda makes things worse. Hes always to busy for me. He only texts me befor he goes to work. He was havin a relationship with this girl on the net, until i found out. He says that sh*t is ova with and that he loves me, only me, always me. But sometimes I dont think so. We are gonna have a baby. Is that why he holds on to me? What should I do about his mixed signals & giving me mixed emosions?

2007-12-05 10:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think its terrible

2007-12-05 10:19:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Females feel welcome to answer also but I want to know from the males what you all consider to be wifey material...if you could mold a female into what you wanted what would her body look like her personality intelligence even what you would consider a "ok" number of sexual partners etc.
What lets you know that the female you are dating is not ready or may never be ready to be Mrs. Wifey?

2007-12-05 10:18:03 · 3 answers · asked by Helpkwas! 2 in Singles & Dating