Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

This past year has been really tough. My parents got divorced and I have had to deal with a lot of other issues that have come to a point where I can no longer put off dealing with them any longer. Recently I have been dealing with the emotional from a childhood of my mom hitting me when she got upset, my friends telling me that they didn't want to be friends any longer because 'god' told them to and a very verbal and physically abusive twin sister. Recently, I fell for a guy and he knows all about this stuff (he was the first person I ever told). Last week I told him that I liked him. I am 98% sure that he likes me back, But after I told him that I liked him his gf broke up with him. He has been so upset that he won't talk to me. I have tried calling him and texting him numerous times and he hasn't responded. It has been a week since this all happened. I am getting really frustrated. What should I do?

2007-12-05 13:15:57 · 1 answers · asked by In<3w/myBOO 2 in Singles & Dating

So this girl in my class already has a boyfriend, I know cause I asked her to lunch and she said she has a boyfriend but she always wants to talk with me. Every day before class I come and she is waiting for me and talks to me bout random stupid stuff. And everytime in class she has that sort of roaming eye and she looks behind her and stares at me and this other guy and its not like Im trying to hook up with her or anything but is that natural, do all girls have this roaming eye or not?

2007-12-05 13:15:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(continued) because i spent most of that week at my cousins, didnt call her except for thanksgiving and didnt hang out with her because i though she would be working most of the weekend but because i never call her, since i'm so smart i didnt know that she free most of the time.

She doesnt believe me when i say i care, what do i do? i dont want to lose her

2007-12-05 13:12:56 · 18 answers · asked by eddie k 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy approached me 1st.We have been having sex talking but now im freaked out!I'm scared to tell anyone

2007-12-05 13:10:43 · 36 answers · asked by Thelma 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well at my school all the guys go for the girls with the body and really bad attitudes i dont get it i mean im pttie(think thats how you spell it lol)(short kinda small girl) but alot of guys like me just not the ones i want ta like me which would you choose a girl with a good attitude and nice thats cute or a girl with a body with an stuck up attitude and mean to alot of people

a little info about me: im 13 :)
with hazel eyes and hair about 3 inches past the shoulders

2007-12-05 13:09:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 13:09:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We sit together at lunch (along with several other people). I would consider us friends but that's all. I am 97% sure that he "likes me" likes me. It wasn't until recently however that he follows me around everywhere! The other day, I was talking to one of my teachers for about 4 minutes, and bound to be late to my next class and he waited for me... I know that sounds sweet but now he walks me to every class and feels the need to talk to me every time he sees me. He's a really nice guy so I don't want to hurt his feelings but he's getting so darn annoying! What can I do?

2007-12-05 13:09:15 · 10 answers · asked by QT Patuty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-05 13:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello, I am a 27 year old female 'entertainer'. I have weird tastes, and recently my partner has left me. We met each other in this industry, and found that the female bond is much stronger than anything else we have endured. She has not had a job ever since six years ago, and I have been supporting her and giving her more than half of my pay check every week. Recently however, she has disappeared on me, and hasn't come back to our hotel room yet? I also seem to have misplaced my special belongings, including a few hundred thousand worths of jewelry.....

I love her and I was thinking of getting a cell phone so I can remind her to come back to our room and maybe help me look for my jewelry. Where has she gone to? After 6 years, I thought we were inseparable....

2007-12-05 13:05:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 13:03:53 · 2 answers · asked by Andy Assasin 4 in Family

There this guy that i really liked so much.....he is the biggest crush i ever had and i ended up crazy over him. I cant get him out of my mind and it seems like he likes me back but hes to shy to talk to me. The reason why i wanna get over him is because he got a girl pregnant and it was his ex-girl. She's still pregnant right now and he didnt even want her and thats bad. I'm afraid he gonna do me the same thing just like he did her. He used her. Sometimes i catch him staring at me and being shy. Hes been to shy to talk to me for a while and if i make the first move i'm afraid hes gonna think i'm easy and he gonna use me too and i dont want nobody like that but at the same time i still got deep feelings for him and i cant get over him. I told his friend to tell him that i'm not feeling him anymore and i dont kno if i shouldnt have done that cuz i still have feelings for him. I just hate the way he done that to his ex and i dont want to end up being used by a guy that i really like.

2007-12-05 13:00:22 · 3 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are mid 20's.....we have a great relationship.....but one problem....he always tells me he loves me over the internet.....not on the phone or in person....why? is he insecure? how can i assure him that it is okay to say it in person and on the phone. p.s. I never say it first. I always let him say it first and then i say i love you too.

2007-12-05 13:00:12 · 2 answers · asked by Tiffany H 1 in Singles & Dating

sometimes i feel if i had, had more partners our sex life would be fine. he asks me what is it that i want him to do and i just dont know. now i dont have sex at all with him and i love him so much and i want to please him but i dont know how and im only 20 been married since 18

2007-12-05 12:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by ladysmokejs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when a girl tells you she has a suiter?
I'm a filipino from the states and met a girl from PI that I'm interested in? She tells me she has a suiter and he is courting her. Sometimes her actions seems like she's interested in me but I want to respect her wishes cause she feels like she's cheating on her suiter. Does suiter mean dating? she's says it's in the beginning stages and does not consider him her boyfriend. I'm confused and I want to know if it's worth it chasing this girl. My heart tells me yes, but I feel like I'm just gonna get crushed in the end. Can a girl have more than one suiter and courted by many?

2007-12-05 12:59:34 · 2 answers · asked by Flippin 1 in Singles & Dating

Since January of last year my life has taken a downfall first I was terminated from my job because of discrimination I think my partner and coworkers set me up and told the supervisor they treated me teribly said sexual things about me and abused me in lots of ways because Im christian and they hated me i think they told the boss things I wasnt doing and I got fired which is unfair because another worker crashed a car with the tow truck and didnt get fired and I did for what?I thought I was alright but then my cousin and I liked this girl and about 2 weeks after being fired I found out they were girl and boy friend he told the girl stuf that wasnt true I guess?she was my crush and he didnt even treat her right!then in July my car broke down and had to walk for 2 months.just last month a little girl that had given me hope and actually cared about me has also been taken by her dad and I think is being abused/neglected by her parents Im unemployed people seem to hate me is there hope?

2007-12-05 12:58:03 · 6 answers · asked by Mr.romantic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I have an 11 year old daughter, she's in fifth grade, she turned 11 2 days ago. I can't really get quite all the information out of her, but she tells me some things. She has been going on and on for about a month about this really perfect boy "Kyle." She said just yesterday that this boy Kyle kissed her for her birthday and that they had agreed to be boyfriend and girlfriend. She said all this at dinner, acting a bit like your stereo type teenager. I was shocked and she said I acting like she is a baby. She invited Kyle over for dinner, 2 hours ago, and I have never met him. After dinner I came into her room and I found them kissing standing up. She is now completely mad at me and this boy Kyle I think has become very shy. I have absolutely no idea what to do and she is in fifth grade!

2007-12-05 12:57:33 · 11 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 2 in Family

nothing..

2007-12-05 12:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by Gurlcheater 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex gf and I are still in each others lives even though we broke up a year ago and have dated and "BEEN" with other people. We always seem to end up back with each other. She always says she jsut wants to be friends and Iam fine with friends with benefits situation. Recently, a good friend of hers told me she still has feelings for me, and compares all the men she meets to me, and I still have feelings for her. However, she says she doesnt want a relationship.. is she trying to convince me or herself. We have been hanging out and communicating a bit more often than usual as of late. We had a bad break up, both at fault,but cheating was not a factor. I was fine how things were but now that these things have come to light, I am unsure what to do. Is she wanting me to take the intiative or not. I would rather have what we have now than nothing at all. I have been taking it slow. any ideas recomendations, suggestions... I am confused

2007-12-05 12:54:01 · 3 answers · asked by 6474 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i always meet man who was younger than me....
why this happen to me....

2007-12-05 12:53:52 · 1 answers · asked by haLa 1 in Singles & Dating

on my other qestion i said
my friend and I called the guy i like
She said: do you think shes ugly
Hes like Uhh no
Shes like soo you like her
Hes like uhh Idk
Shes like ooo
Hes like i already got a girlfriend
Shes like well if you dident have a GF would you like her
hes like Probly
and then she called me and told me
Does that mean he like me
Hi!
and i KNOW he has a girlfrind i dident plan on my friend asking him and i know im not goin for anything yet soo dont tell
me that he has a girlfriend and that i should give up Ok caz i know

2007-12-05 12:52:35 · 1 answers · asked by Teehee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 12:49:13 · 5 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so here it goes! im 15 and this boy is 17. he used to like me alot and told the whole school about me!!! i liked him too, and i think he knows. he hasnt said a word to me though. well anyways, bout 2 days ago i was in like a good mood so i just layed back in my seat(which i don't normally do) i guess he took that in a bad way and thought i was being conceited or wutever then told his friends " she thinks she's cute but she's not" and he said sum other cruel words too. now his friends that im cool wit probably hate me now!


What happened!! I was actually fallen in love with this boy!! he crushed my world just like that! what should i do? should i just let it go? should i hold on and see if he'll change his mind?
my feelings were hurt so bad!

2007-12-05 12:49:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I check out a book called "Dr. Ruth Talks To Kids: Where You Came From, How Your Body Changes, and What Sex Is All About". In her book, she says that protection is 100% recommended. Even if I do get pregnant, I can go on birth control or have an abortion. She didn't specify what age to start. She only said teens. Is she right or does this book need to be pulled out of libraries?

B.T.W.- I'm 13.

2007-12-05 12:48:10 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK. Just been wondering what this guy was doing! I saw him take off his shoe, fix his sock and put it back on. What does this mean? Is this a sign of undressing? Please help me with this one!

2007-12-05 12:45:33 · 12 answers · asked by Cowgirl26 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 12:44:15 · 26 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

than from the man who supposedly loves me and (his words)will never stray from me.yet we are not married because i am good at picking up the left over pieces from two bitter divorces from his previous lives.this is the fifth christmas we have been together and i can not go through another christmas of will you marry me with yet another ring and then he takes them away from me on valentines day?why is he doing this to me?why wont he set a date?i feel like i am a playdate!

2007-12-05 12:43:24 · 6 answers · asked by CHER 6 in Singles & Dating

than from the man who supposedly loves me and (his words)will never stray from me.yet we are not married because i am good at picking up the left over pieces from two bitter divorces from his previous lives.this is the fifth christmas we have been together and i can not go through another christmas of will you marry me with yet another ring and then he takes them away from me on valentines day?why is he doing this to me?why wont he set a date?i feel like i am a playdate!

2007-12-05 12:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by CHER 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

than from the man who supposedly loves me and (his words)will never stray from me.yet we are not married because i am good at picking up the left over pieces from two bitter divorces from his previous lives.this is the fifth christmas we have been together and i can not go through another christmas of will you marry me with yet another ring and then he takes them away from me on valentines day?why is he doing this to me?why wont he set a date?i feel like i am a playdate!

2007-12-05 12:41:00 · 4 answers · asked by CHER 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, i'm going to turn 14 yrs old this sunday.
i want presents, ice cream cake, and a boyfriend [also someone who i want to go to the dance with!]

he's not popular, i think he's a bit dorkish. he's not in any of my classes & i don't hear anything about him & hardly anyone knows his name. he has a bit childish voice & a pretty long, thin face but i think he's a bit cute. there's another guy i like but he's wayyy to good for me. my face changed a bit to ugly so i don't think the other guy will still like me, but i hope he does. he doesn't even know i exist & he has no clue that i like him. i hope i won't hurl.

anyway, i'm pretty nervous about asking him to go to the dance with me & to be my boyfriend. umm, should i go do what i want to do?

and why don't girls ask guys out?
anyway, help me out here.

2007-12-05 12:38:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know they are important but we teens have enough stress as it is. so what is the deal with parents always pushing us to the limit. i understand that grades are important but colleges also look at extracurricular activities you were in. am i correct? i personaly dont understand this fascination that parents have with grades. i know they need to be descent but come on! we need a break! we have stress and obviously parents dont understand that.

2007-12-05 12:38:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family