There this guy that i really liked so much.....he is the biggest crush i ever had and i ended up crazy over him. I cant get him out of my mind and it seems like he likes me back but hes to shy to talk to me. The reason why i wanna get over him is because he got a girl pregnant and it was his ex-girl. She's still pregnant right now and he didnt even want her and thats bad. I'm afraid he gonna do me the same thing just like he did her. He used her. Sometimes i catch him staring at me and being shy. Hes been to shy to talk to me for a while and if i make the first move i'm afraid hes gonna think i'm easy and he gonna use me too and i dont want nobody like that but at the same time i still got deep feelings for him and i cant get over him. I told his friend to tell him that i'm not feeling him anymore and i dont kno if i shouldnt have done that cuz i still have feelings for him. I just hate the way he done that to his ex and i dont want to end up being used by a guy that i really like.
2007-12-05 13:00:22 · 3 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem to have strong feelings that this guy is no good. Listen to these feelings. A guy that ditches a pregnant woman is obviously not cool.
Although you have a huge crush on him, it would be better to get over it than give into it.
If you give in to it - you could end up getting used like she did
if you get over it - you will find a man who will not use you, you can find a good man who respects you, who respects women.
this is very important. you should never, ever give up your feelings and values just so you can have a man around.
REAL men are great, and good company. but loser men are just a pain in the *** that you really dont need
anyway, good luck !
2007-12-05 13:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Loen872 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to avoid this guy at all cost. You already know that he is no good. How he treated the other girl he will treat you. You need to find a nice hobby and get your mind off of him
2007-12-05 13:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by TallyLady83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have my sympathy, Jasmine. In your position, I feel that it is best to run away from him. He's a player, pure and simple. Besides, there's TONS of nerdy guys out there that'll treat you like a princess.
2007-12-05 13:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Travis S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋