(continued) because i spent most of that week at my cousins, didnt call her except for thanksgiving and didnt hang out with her because i though she would be working most of the weekend but because i never call her, since i'm so smart i didnt know that she free most of the time.
She doesnt believe me when i say i care, what do i do? i dont want to lose her
2007-12-05 13:12:56 · 18 answers · asked by eddie k 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should tell her that it hurts when she says you don't care about her, and that even if something bad happened between the two of you, you would always care for her! Explain to her that you really did think she would be at work most of the time, and that it was really important for you to be with your family over Thanksgiving. Good luck, I'm sure you really love her!
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2007-12-05 13:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a lot of things that are going here is a lack of communication. Maybe she thought you were busy and didn't want to bring up what you were doing on thanksgiving but you thought she'd be working. Both of you are making assumptions by yourselves. Definitely call her.
Since you can't go back in time to reverse what you've done. Devote a weekend to her and do show her you care. You don't have to do anything extraordinary to show her you care but little things that will reassure her again will definitely work.
2007-12-05 13:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation. It sucks. BADLY. Girls always do this they become so insecure that they break down. (guys do too, but i think it's more natural for girls-no offense) anyways, you have to ask yourself..."Is she the right girl for me? i had to go to my family's house for thanksgiving and i had to spend quality time with them. there's NOTHING wrong with that! if she has a problem, thats her deal. you cant expect yourself to talk to her 24/7. maybe she was having a bad day or something, but in my opinion its rude what she did. she must notice your obligations. and an honest relationship should be bonded by trust. if she doesnt trust you then how will your realtionship hold? if you love her that much keep begging for her forgiveness-even though you didnt do anything wrong. tell her that and try to resolve the problem. dont make up stuff either. if the girl finds out you lied, then youre in for it. be straight to the point, and tell her how YOU feel about it. good luck...
2007-12-05 13:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go spend time with her right now. Don't talk about Thanksgiving anymore; it's over. Focus instead on the here and now, and with making her feel better and more confident in your commitment to her. Good luck. (The holidays are excellent opportunities to pull this off in grand fashion).
2007-12-05 13:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg wow...this is purely merciless. i do no longer understand, is he continuously this advise for actual no reason? something ought to be occurring, is he mad at you for something? this is techniques boggling, how he can purely ditch you and not even care. you somewhat have the main staggering to be dissatisfied. i might comprehend if he pronounced "I have been given compelled into eating dinner with my mum and dad yet i visit be back and that i promise something of the day would be dedicated to you babe". What he did replace into thoroughly uncalled for. i do no longer even comprehend why he might do exactly that all of the sudden different then he ought to be pissed as hell approximately something.
2016-10-19 08:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by dotel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well did you guys have plans, and then you ditched her? If so thats really messed up. If not, she's over reacting a little... but in either case, get her some roses and chocolates or something and tell her you're sorry that you hurt her feelings.
2007-12-05 13:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by Enrique 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show her that you care show her that you want to be there by doing something romantic for example have you two your own thanksgiving sh ow that you r thankful for her and she is the best think that happened to you and dont be afraid to show her off to your friends and cousin because one day she might not be here.
2007-12-05 13:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jalisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her in person.. Thanksgiving is a family holiday not a girlfriend holiday... jsut tell her you love her in person.... if sh ereally loves you she'll come back.. if you've done everything you could, just move on.. she obveouly never loved you if she wont com eback after you explained it to her..
2007-12-05 13:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by barnbum912 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grovel and buy her something expensive. You really screwed up and it's not going to be easy to convince her without a long period of you begging for her to come back. Where you really dropped the ball is when you thought that she deserved you....
2007-12-05 13:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Billy Shat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's mad at you because you didn't spend a couple of days with her???
Well anyway just take her someplace nice or spend a lot of time with her in the next few days.
2007-12-05 13:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋