than from the man who supposedly loves me and (his words)will never stray from me.yet we are not married because i am good at picking up the left over pieces from two bitter divorces from his previous lives.this is the fifth christmas we have been together and i can not go through another christmas of will you marry me with yet another ring and then he takes them away from me on valentines day?why is he doing this to me?why wont he set a date?i feel like i am a playdate!
2007-12-05 12:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by CHER 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
jim f,coming from a man i thank you for your honesty.i am not hurt by your comments,i can only learn by negative and positive responses.
miss t,i appreciate your comments and you have my utmost respect.
2007-12-05 12:56:59 · update #1
He can't commit to you because he don't know how to get it right the first time.He may just not want to make you his 3ed divorce because he don't know how to make love work.give up on him he is just playing you for a fool.Gives you a ring then takes it back. For get him and find some one that will love you and give you a ring and never take the ring away.Because he will want to spend the rest of his life with you.
2007-12-06 11:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if your boyfriend has developed a fear of commitment due to the fact that he was married twice and got divorced twice. That in itself would scare most women off. You sound like a good woman. You should have a talk with him and tell him how you feel and find out how he feels and what he's thinking and where he sees the relationship going. That way you can have a clue as to what it is you want to do. I'm sorry to say but form your other question your man isn't a real man at all. You can do better then him but you have to believe deep down inside that you can do better then him.
2007-12-05 21:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we are wanting to tell you the truth and are not connected to you so if we hurt your feelings oh well ,you get your answer like it or not,
You have to put your past behind you and focus on making a new and happy life for yourself and others around you give people in your life a chance to prove there love to you then love yourself.
2007-12-05 20:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can't settle. 2 divorces, can't commit to you... Walk away. What a bad man. In fact, not a real man...
2007-12-05 20:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by Miss T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its sad to say but if you have let him do this for 5 years then you have no one to blame but you. get rid of him. you get honest answers because i'm not trying to impress you or get into your pants and i'm not worried about your feelings, although i'm not trying to hurt you. you don't know me so you can't hurt me, i don't know you so i can't hurt you. there is absolulely no reason not to be honest. you want to have a honest conversation- e-mail me and i will hit you with 42 years of honest experience
2007-12-05 20:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋