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Since January of last year my life has taken a downfall first I was terminated from my job because of discrimination I think my partner and coworkers set me up and told the supervisor they treated me teribly said sexual things about me and abused me in lots of ways because Im christian and they hated me i think they told the boss things I wasnt doing and I got fired which is unfair because another worker crashed a car with the tow truck and didnt get fired and I did for what?I thought I was alright but then my cousin and I liked this girl and about 2 weeks after being fired I found out they were girl and boy friend he told the girl stuf that wasnt true I guess?she was my crush and he didnt even treat her right!then in July my car broke down and had to walk for 2 months.just last month a little girl that had given me hope and actually cared about me has also been taken by her dad and I think is being abused/neglected by her parents Im unemployed people seem to hate me is there hope?

2007-12-05 12:58:03 · 6 answers · asked by Mr.romantic 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

I have decided to take charge of my life for now on I want 2008 to my best of my life i turn 21 on saturday and need some aadvice to have what I want and have the best life I can.ill forget the past I need advice to forget the past and paln for the future!

2007-12-05 13:40:11 · update #1

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There is hope if you can only come to the realization that you are the source of the problems in you life.

Good luck.

2007-12-05 13:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0 0

Your hope was briefly described in the middle of your text...you are Christian, and as such you realize apparent inequities in life are par for the course. Job lost all he treasured in life but still maintained faith in God. Joseph was jealously sold into slavery by his own brothers but rose to a position of great prominence among his Egyptian captors. Jesus himself was falsely accused, tried, convicted and executed which on the surface seems a staggering defeat, but these events solidified God's plan of salvation by which all humankind is redeemed...thereby acheiving the greatest victory over evil ever attempted. So continue to trust God's ability to use calamities to bring about positive and powerful change in your life...it has happened too many times in human history to doubt His power. Good luck to you, and Happy Holidays.

2007-12-05 13:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1 0

don't focus so much on what other people think of you. job searching is hard, but there are resources available to you online. if anything, try to get a job doing something like waiting tables while you search for a job you're better qualified for. if you think people don't like you because you're christian, try being less of a christian in public. it may be that people are noticing in you some unchristian behaviors like condemning others for their sins, so it wouldn't be a loss if you were to stop practicing habits like these.

and for your own sake, don't bother with women until the rest of your life is in order. it can only bring you pain and hardship. what you need to do right now is focus on yourself.

2007-12-05 13:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by rozefyre86 3 · 0 0

Blessed is the man who perseveres under the trial, because when he has stood the test, he WILL recieve the crown of life that GOD has promised to those who love him! The eternal stars shine out as soon as it is dark enough. Hold on stay positive. The doors that were closed, closed because the window of more opportunity is and has opened for you! (I hope I did not offend you GOD gives me my strength)

2007-12-06 16:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by ljjmjd3 4 · 0 0

I'd feel for you, but I can't reach. Ha ha lol, not really. This is a really bad situation for you, we all have bad experiences, and yes, one right after the other. You are probably thinking yea your just saying that to make me feel better, I'm not. You can keep feeling sorry for your self, or change your thinking and start thinking more positively.

2007-12-05 13:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by dearmeohmy 4 · 0 0

have faith me once I say comprehend what your dealing with. fairly distinctive circumstances, however the staggering comparable thoughts. you need to save attempting because of the fact there are going to be some many different ladies like her, different than the choose no longer have boyfriends and additionally you are able to desire to have lots of possibilities. a number of those ladies are going to interrupt your heart, each so often your going to interrupt their heart, each so often you will no longer have the skill to do something, and each so often you will have the skill to do each thing. there is lots greater. speaking to people is significant. i'm no longer able to rigidity how significant this is. heavily. refer to somebody, all people. do exactly it. Having a individual you know, or somebody interior of sight makes a great distinction. you have purely have been given to maintain shifting forward, and not in any respect lose wish. Stuff changes. you are able to desire to have the prospect to tell her the way you sense. continuously being the satisfied circulate fortunate individual sucks. you're actually not required to act that way. each so often this is okay to be selfish. each so often we could desire to be selfish. So in all honesty all i'm able to inform you is refer to somebody. communicate! there is not greater desirable way. no longer speaking gets people killed, and that sounds dramatic, whether this is the reality. So purely communicate.

2016-10-19 08:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by dotel 4 · 0 0

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