Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

When i saw my crush in the hallway I briefly starred at her and she lowered her eyes when she looked at me. Then the next day, we had to take a test and she finished early, while she was leaving, she looked at me as she was exiting the door. It felt awkward b/c i could sense that she was starring at me really longingly. What could this mean? My crush knows i like her, and soemtimes she would turn around her seat to look at me but i don't think she smiled.

2007-12-05 12:37:26 · 29 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

I will be graduating from college soon, and upon graduation I am planning to move out of my house. Although my mom verbally says that she supports my idea, I know she doesn't want me to leave. The primary reason why I want to leave is that I have a step-dad, and we do not communicate/talk at all unless he has conflicts with me. Sometimes, I feel disgusted just to see him in the morning and hope that he won't complain about things I do. Because of this bad relationship, the relationship between my mom and me has been deteriorating year by year. Secondly, my mom is very strict that she wants me home at eight p.m. unless I am at work or school. I'm busy and have no time to go out anyways, so in that sense it's not that annoying. But I feel that it is little too extreme considering the fact that I am TWENTY ONE. I feel that right before I leave, my mom's gonna prevent me from moving out. So, What is the best way to move out of the house without hurting my her?

2007-12-05 12:37:19 · 4 answers · asked by Steven S 2 in Family

Ok so theres this guy and we flirt a lot like play hitting, and I have a tiny crush on him.So I asked him who he liked and he named this girl, but he said that she was number two on his list.I asked him who was number one but he didnt want to answer me does that mean its me???Oh and im the only one that knows about the girl.He hasnt told any of his friends.

2007-12-05 12:34:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is really nice, but I can't help his attitude to always try to get back at me.. for little things that do not really matter. For instance if I say that a guy with his shurt off looks good, he will start talking about how hot a girl looks. If I change my profile picture to be of just me, instead of the of us, he does the same. If write, or talk to some of my guy friends, he tries to write to some of his female friends. And it's never been really huge.. but it's kind of frustarating.
What should I do? I tried to bring it up, but he keeps denying that he is doing it. It's getting frustarated. Should I be worried that this might lead to bigger relathionship issues? Thanks.

2007-12-05 12:32:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that you would go to any extreme to get it?

2007-12-05 12:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by CHER 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok Is It Retarded To Not Know How To Kiss A Guy??? ((i fell really embaressed right now but i really wanna know...))

2007-12-05 12:30:40 · 1 answers · asked by pink_is_perfect13 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex won't let mee see or talk to my kids. i pay my child support, she call cops on me when i go to pick them up. when i don't give my ex extra money i don't get to talk to kids for weeks, they moved 2hrs away when she stole my kids from me, sometimes i could not see them because of work, when that happens i don't see or talk to them for weeks. what do i do

2007-12-05 12:23:49 · 20 answers · asked by scottytotaken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband ignored me for over a year. I did the wrong thing and cheated behind his back. He found out and we decieded to make it work. Then he starts to cheat on me with three different women in front of my face. I get that he wants "revenge" I accepted it and now we are back at square one. Im tired of trying everything. I want attention. Im not a gimme gimme gimme person, but a hug and kiss weekly would be nice. We wont tell me that he loves me or hardly any affection unless its sex. I have told him over and over that im sorry, he wont say a thing about what he has done. Im done with the relationship but everytime I say Im going to leave and go back to my home town, he begs me not to. But nothing ever changes. I know Im not perfect, but am I taking to much. When its good between us its good, but it never is. Should I just choke it up and leave? I dont know what to do.

2007-12-05 12:21:32 · 28 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well this make him cheat do I need to lose the weight?

2007-12-05 12:20:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

On a scale 1 to 10 1 being worst 10 being best.

Age: 15
Height: 5"5
Weight:121 lbs.
Hobies: computer,music,basketball,hanging out,guitar,reading
Eye color: brown-green
mussle defenition: normal
# of friends: 22
# of girlfriends: 5(2 of them very short period)
longest dating with same girl: 9 months
shortest dating with same girl: 2 weeks
Favorite clothing store: Kohls
Clothing style: fancy-casual

First date: Expose her to my little studio, play a song for her, take her out to eat, maybe invite her to my b-ball game.

Second Date: invite her to my b-ball game, maybe intruduce to my parents, dress nicer more fancy, nice parfume. Go to mall.

3rd date: take her to behind the scenes of my traning for a b-ball game, give her a special seat ticket, intruduce her to my friends, parents, my brother and sister. Take her to behind the scenes of my band and then take her to a nice dinner.



look at my accomblishments in my profile!!

2007-12-05 12:18:36 · 39 answers · asked by TruePistonsFan 3 in Singles & Dating

I may seem pathetic that I have to ask such a mundane and easy question, but I am a novice at relationships and dating etc. There's a girl at school in the homeroom across from mine, and the only time I ever get to see her is between homeroom and 1st period (I have her homeroom teacher for 1st period so she passes me and smiles when she leaves every day). I have noticed that every day she stops at her locker first before continuing to her 1st pd. class on the other side of the school. She's really beautiful and I would like to ask her out so I am getting to know her now before I ask her and I have only had one "real" conversation with her while walking from HR to 1st pd. I was able to do this because I went to get something out of my locker and happened to finish at the same time as her, so I walked with her. The question is, is it appropriate to wait outside her HR and start walking with her and wait at her locker when she stops and all, ***SEE MORE DETAILS SECTION***

2007-12-05 12:17:46 · 2 answers · asked by HT-5 2 in Singles & Dating

We just got married in June, and we are saving everything that we can so that we can move out of our crappy apartment and into a starter home. We even already told all of our family that we are going to do a small Christmas this year, and also agreed not to even buy for eachother. Then he took a work trip for a sales convention to Vegas. He was only there Monday-today and he gambled away $600! It may not seem like much to you, but to us newlyweds that is a fortune!

I am just so hurt that he doesnt seem to care about our home and the goals that we set for ourselves, or about me! He gets home late tonight. How do I approach this? I am SO angry...

2007-12-05 12:15:27 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 16, and i've never had a bf. It seems like everyone is always asking me do i have a boyfriend yet. I'm literally going to spaz on the next person who asks me that. It's the very first question they ask me when they see me. Even this friend of mine, who i haven't seen in 8 years, was like hey, i haven't seen you in so long! do you have a boyfriend? I don't get why people are so obsessed with this topic. How do I get people to stop annoying me about this issue? and don't tell me to just tell them because i've tried that and it either goes two ways:
i) they either forget about me telling them to stop
ii) they think i'm abnormal or a lesbian.
all help is appreciated.

2007-12-05 12:14:26 · 32 answers · asked by Billa Bong 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a 17 year old senior in High school. I will be 18 in april, but the way I am living in my house in unbearable. Im unwanted in my own home, and just yesterday my father and stepmother were saying they wish they could get rid of me & my step brother. they say they are tired of taking care of us, and the only reason im still here is because im only 17, but my best friend in CO said that I can stay with her, and her mom is ok with it, and im tired of getting beat by my dad, and feeling unwanted and unloved in my own home..Im wondering, if I were to run away..what exactly would happen to me?? Ive been told that Id go to juvenile, but Ive also ben told that the police would just make me go back home... and Id only be 90 days away from being 18..so aren't I old enough to make my own decisions about where I want to live??

2007-12-05 12:14:15 · 7 answers · asked by kingsprincess90 1 in Family

Would you rather loved and lost (got your heart brocken)
orrr
Never Loved at all

2007-12-05 12:13:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy at my school lets me copy his homework ( i know i know) if i forgot to do mine. He smiles everytime he see me. and he talks to me alot..we sit by each other in 2 of our classes and he bumps my arm so i mess up then he smiles..we are both in 7th grade so idk? help :)

2007-12-05 12:13:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating someone who lyed and cheated on me (i never walked in on him cheated but im 90% positive he did) he denied it etc anyway we are no longer together its been months. i recently looked up infedility rates and why people cheat online and it seems what they are saying is everyone cheats basically. its rare not to lie and rare not to cheat. so im just gonna take in the towel know as they say and never date again. i am young and just feel people make excuses for why people cheat because they arent getting enough of something in their relationship. In my case though it was me not getting enough respect, love, appreciation and he cheats, isnt that ironic?
i just want to be happy, is there a point to relationships anymore am i the only 1 who doesnt cheat? (hypothetical) but seriously it seems most people cheat and dont feel bad these days. why is it the amazing half of the relationship getting betrayed and hurt and broken up with?

2007-12-05 12:13:48 · 6 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf was with her ex for 4 1/2 mnths.He was her 1st bf.She hadnt done anything sexual.The 1st night they hung out,he asked if shed kissed a guy n he aggressively kissed her.He knew she was a virgin n he said he wouldnt make her have sex,but he'd sometimes get aggressive sexually & she would cry after.He'd act guilty n say 'sorry it won't happen again' but it would. She didn't like him but everytime she tried to end it hed convince her not to.One night he came over n was trying to convince her. She said 'idk about this' n told him to stop. After more convincing he put on a 2nd condom n tried again but she pulled it off. Then he got mad n tried again w/2 more condoms almost going in her.All along she was saying stop,hitting his back,n digging her nails in him.He left a few min after.She broke up w/him n he knew y but he denied he did anything.She talked to him normally after that. Is this normal? She shouldnt talk to a guy who did this to her even if he was her bf. He tried to rape her.

2007-12-05 12:08:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex girfriend broke up with me. And she told the that she wouldnt take me back because she thinks that i might break her hart. How can i prove to her that im not gona break her hart. girls can most likly help me the most so plz help me

2007-12-05 12:06:32 · 34 answers · asked by kickflip987 1 in Singles & Dating

she says things like 5 times sometimes and she is really self conscious about it. she has been doing speech therapy but she still feels really embarrassed about it, even with me. i wouldnt make a big deal about it but she cries about it sometimes. i want to help her feel more comfortable with herself because shes a really cool girl, but i dont want to make her think im trying to make her feel better

2007-12-05 12:05:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but is there ever an easy way out?i need to have happiness in my life and i do not see any in my future with my mate after four years.i am tired of false hopes and broken promises.i do not really feel loved or respected as his woman and it hurts like H3ll.i love him so much but i know i will never be the queen of his castle.he has his princess daughter to rule over his reign and she's only 11.can anybody help me with my dilemma?
serious answers only,i can't bear to hear any smart aleck remarks.thank you.i need to be discreet please.please honor my request.i am seriously hurting from this .i am ready to crack up.

2007-12-05 12:04:29 · 8 answers · asked by CHER 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this girl at school who keeps telling me she is my friend then tells me tons and tons of lies she cant keep a secret ive gave her like 10 chances if not more and she thinks she is so pretty and all that.....that is my first question what do i do without hurting her in any way!....2nd of all there is this girl who gets really mad easy and is a snitch all the time and im tired of her doing crap to everyone but if i cause any phisyical contact ill get expelled and if i argue ill get detention but i cant ignore her....cuz its kinda hard to what do i do?..3rd of all my friend is having a slumber thing just for fun this saturday but there is this girl that might come who is like my worst enemy but if i fight ill get sent home how can i avoid fighting if she comes without getting over upset remeber i have a teper and sometimes i go overboard with it i just need help!!!!

2007-12-05 12:03:17 · 3 answers · asked by Kaylee H 2 in Friends

My husband is grumpy, irritable, moody, changes his mind about vacations, and even cant decide what he wants for dinner. He has no drive anymore, is not motivated. He doesnt get things done around the house like he use too. He is always feeling sorry for himself, and now he even dislikes his current job. He is 57 years old. He doesnt want to go out with our friends anymore, hes just too tired or not in the mood. He is upset about the weight he gained, and is loosing his hair which has him upset too. He may be loosing his hair, but Im loosing my mind! How do I cope with all of this? Im on hormone replacement myself, and it has been wonderful. What can he do, and how do I handle all of this?

2007-12-05 12:03:17 · 8 answers · asked by autumn wolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Just want to know cuz im sweet but alot of people are mean to me for no reason but i geuss their just like that.

2007-12-05 12:03:04 · 1 answers · asked by kelsi c 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I am not that "big" like not strong under 5 feet......How do I tell this kid who is a lot bigger then me to f****** lay off my girl? Like should I bring my friend who are big? idk please help

2007-12-05 12:01:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy A LOT& whenever i look at him he always looks back for like three seconds
and from the corner of my eye, i can see him looking at me
i mean, if he didnt like me and thought i was a weirdo he would just ignore me right? thats what i would do if i was him,
so what do you tihnk hes trying to say?
do you think hes just PRETENDING to like me?? =(

2007-12-05 12:01:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years (together 7). 2 Years ago we decided to finish college (after working 3 years during marriage). We are very very happy and have built a strong, stable marriage. We are both set to graduate in August 2008. He says he wants to wait about 2 years after graduation to become more financially secure. We are both 26 years old and want 3-4 children... but spread out, at least 2-3 years in between each child. I've been wanting a baby for about 2 years... and I don't want to be an "old mom" after we are done with children. I want to enjoy our lives after they leave the nest. When is a good time to start? When did you start? What can I say to get him to change his mind?

BTW, I completely agree with waiting till we graduate... but that is only 9 months away... and I REFUSE to try to get pregnant without his consent.

2007-12-05 12:00:41 · 5 answers · asked by Just Tryin' to Help 4 in Family

ok so my brother is three years older than me. and i really am into his best friend. i feel totally confortable around him and i'm not like that with most guys. i'm not sure if he likes me but he teases me and flirts with me whenever he comes over to my house. i'm not sure what to do because i dont want my brother to get mad at me for liking him.

2007-12-05 11:59:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is so disrespectful. He screams at me and threatens to hit me. He has hit me in the past. He treats me like I am his child and not his wife. He works away and takes all his stress out on me. I stay home with our kids and he always throws it in my face that he is the one that makes all the money and I am questioned every time I spend it. I am fed up. He is a GREAT dad. I just wish he show me he loves me instead of fussing all the time. I do everything for him.....I would give up everything to make him happy. But I am not happy....why is that? Would you stay and work things out or would you go?

2007-12-05 11:57:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband does nothing but cause havoc in my household. He doesn't work half the time, and I have lost most of my stuff because of it. My money can only go so far. When he gets home from work, when he finally does work, he gripes and gripes about every little thing. My kids hate him. How do I get him out of my house when his name is on the lease. He mentally abuses me only a daily basis.

2007-12-05 11:55:29 · 15 answers · asked by missyblondness35 1 in Marriage & Divorce