Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

My son's girlfriend's parents are going overseas for a week and her parents asked if she could stay here. They obviously have no problem with it, and i don't have one really, but what precautions should i take? (They are both 14)

2007-12-05 10:16:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have left my home town, best friends, family, EVERYTHING for my husband and his career. i knew his career being in the military was going to be like this. but now he tells me that girls from his past are asking for his number and they are talking....with excitement.... we have been married and i have like i said left and lost a whole lot for him. i have lost trust from him from females that he called friends...no sexual encounters were made distance kept that from happening. but i thought husband and wife were to be committed to each other and weren't to bring past female crushes back into the picture. worst of all he is secretive...i have no idea what the heck is being said, in email, texts, phone convos. im not here. what should i do having left everything for this person? i cant keep telling him over and over that he hurt my feelings...and where do i leave to? im in California...and my hometown is Maryland....im sooo lost and confused. should i see a professional?

2007-12-05 10:16:07 · 25 answers · asked by KellyJean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 7 yrs and we have 2 children together. I know for a fact that he has cheated and been with one particular women for 2 yrs and I believe that there has been more affairs. You're probably wondering why I haven't left but its due to a number of reasons. We have alot of positives in our relationships. Its actually great with the exception of infidelity. We get along great, work together financially and with the kids great, we're supportive of each other and motivate the other to achieve our goals. Another reason why we dont want to end the marriage is because we don't want to take that time and energy and put it towards other relationships and waste time on those that don't work. After this incident where he got busted cheating I decided that it may be best to have an open relationship.My husband doesnt want to have one. I'm not looking for advice on safe sex or whether I should leave but my question is how do other married couples feel about open relationships.

2007-12-05 10:14:51 · 26 answers · asked by mypassions4life 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, can i get some details, or a link???

2007-12-05 10:13:23 · 14 answers · asked by HELP! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay.... so heres the story

I like this guy...
at school he acts like he likes me
but when we get home and I talk to him on Myspace... he's all rude.
He is always staring at me
and today he made some comment like
I don't cook or something like that
and his friend goes.. i would hate to be your girlfriend.. and they both look at me....

SO what do I do?
Do I ask him out..
Ask whats up?
or do I just let it go??
Please give all thoughts and ideas and please be honest

He has told me many times that he doesn't like me (over myspace) but when we get to school its different

2007-12-05 10:13:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a teen(18) right now and I don't understand love yet but when I think of marriage in the future, I am worried. In my country, the U.S. I see so many divorces happening... I see many children suffering because of their parents' selfishness. It seems that divorce is the only solution for every little argument or if someone is bored of their love...in America.

I see some traditional people who stick together and work things out no matter what, they do it for their children. I think it is hard to find someone trustworthy. Even if I am kind and provide for my partner she will just get bored and cheat on me...

Thank you for reading.

2007-12-05 10:12:10 · 10 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Marriage & Divorce

if you feel torn between wanting to split up with your partner and wanting to stay what would you do? if the bad times are really bad and the good times are really good? and if you did split up how do you cope, if you have been together for 7 years and have a son together? or do all couples feel like this sometimes? coz i want it to work just sometimes................
i feel like screaming! aaaaarrrrr

2007-12-05 10:11:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 19 bf 22 he gets mad when i talk to my old friends from high school and elementary. I was sent to a school up north of my city to be away from the bad schools which kept me away from my friends. Now i try to keep intouch with them some are males and he gets pissed when he sees comments from Myspace or they text me....I feel like i am being restricted from talkin to my friends that i havent seen n forever we argue everytime. Im also in college and he isn't and throws a fit everytime i mention a male from school. Am i being a bad girlfriend for continuing to talk to my old friends or socializing with ppl at school?? in revenge he says he's going to do the same im like whatever

2007-12-05 10:09:40 · 10 answers · asked by Helpkwas! 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend who is a indian guy loves a malay girl and they have been together for about 14 yrs... But nw that it comes to marriage. the family of the guy opposes in letting him convert to Islam... His mum is threatening him with sucide n his grandms is crying n stuff like that.. he too is confused abt what 2 do,,, But he is a very obedient son...
How do u think he can change his parents thinking.......... Plz help>>>>>>>

2007-12-05 10:09:39 · 5 answers · asked by Rina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have quickly become friends with one of the new girls at the clothing store that I work at. She is a sweet and nice girl, and yesterday I was shocked when her boyfriend came in to visit her. Picture a pretty girl with long brown hair and blue eyes, dressed fashonably, in pink and brown, not to mention accessories (well you get the point) In comes her boyfriend doing a stupid walk as he came in the door to make her laugh. He is just not right for her. He was dressed in skinny jeans, a slipknot shirt, and convers, not to mention the goti (sp?) long scraggly hair, tattoo on his arm, and the industrial piercings in each ear. He came in and hugged her, and then she asked something about his guitar, and they talked about slipknot and tool (which she later explained to me who they were, and I really don't see her ACTUALLY liking that kind of stuff) then she helped him change one of his piercings and he kissed her hand before he left. When I left for my lunchbreak a few minutes later I noticed him standing at the window watching her work with this weird grin on his face like a creepy stalker or something. He is nothing like the cute guys the rest of us at the store date. How do I tell her that this guy is just trouble and not for her. She says they are celebrating their 4 month anniversary tomorrow. I mean he is a punk, how could he be good for her?

2007-12-05 10:09:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is 16 i am 15 and my mom dosent like him so i havent told her were daiting its getting harder to lie how do i tell her without her getting mad at me and my friend also like him but i didnt no when i got with him how can i tell em

2007-12-05 10:07:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been dating little more than a month now, and we haven't kissed. I've went in for it a couple of times but she moves her head the opposite way and smiles... can you give me an explanation?

2007-12-05 10:07:50 · 7 answers · asked by Michel A 2 in Singles & Dating

My Dad's girlfriend is really bossy. She has lived with us for 1 year now and she tells me and my brother to do housework while she does hardly anything. She works one day a week and thinks thats enough to make herself important in the house. What do I do?

2007-12-05 10:07:28 · 12 answers · asked by thomas j 1 in Family

her told me that she likes me, but doesn't even say " hi " to me when we met.
but i always talk to her but, she doesn't act like she like me.
sometime she protend not to see me.
what should i do.?

2007-12-05 10:07:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf (well ex now) just broke up wit me today.

He says he thinks of me as his "best friend" instead of gf and if i love him, i'll let him do this
wat does that mean?

But just yesterday everything seemed to be fine...

2007-12-05 10:06:57 · 3 answers · asked by Rav 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 10:06:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi

at college I used to be friends with this girl, at first she was great, but now I have figured out she is VERY two-faced and makes my life an absolute nightmare. Living in the same college house as her (next door to mine) I see her every day, I am in the same classes as her so it's very hard to avoid her, she spreads lies about me, and when I last stood up for myself, I was accused of being a bully! When I said nothing rude and do nothing but stick up for her despite the amount I hate the girl! I tried avoiding her, talking to her, and for a while she is fine then she goes onto an attention seeking rant and the staff just think I am being mean. All my fellow students tell me what an attention seeking b**** she can be, and have on many occasions said nasty things about her, but still I refuse to gang up on her. She even claimed rape on a friend of mine so she could get some attention!!!

How do I deal with her without being accused of bullying, or being mean =/

2007-12-05 10:02:47 · 4 answers · asked by jessy p 2 in Friends

I finally mustered up the courage to do it.. I just hope his phone doesn't end up in the wrong hands!

2007-12-05 09:59:52 · 8 answers · asked by cz73 6 in Singles & Dating

I feel like finding a man and being the only one of her friends to not be married is consuming my sisters thoughts!I am the youngest (20) and she is the oldest and she is terrified I will get married before her for some reason..

she has her priorities with what she wants in a relationship all wrong!! I.e. she would marry for money over love! I tried to tell her that money is only a temporary fix and wont make her happy long term but maybe that’s just me. i try to tell her that if he has money then great/its a plus, but not to make it a deal breaker if he doesn’t since this obviously isn’t working for her.

I don’t want her to end up settling for a man who isn’t right for her b/c of his wallet. i just want her to find someone that deserves her and make her happy and want her to stop obsessing over getting married and learn to love herself /realize maybe shes not ready to love another .. What should I do/say to her?! nd why is it that my beautiful sweet and funny sister hasn’t

2007-12-05 09:59:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have trust issues real bad and it really affecting my relationship. How do I handle this issues without ruining something good? My gf understands me, but I know inside it getting on her nerves. what should I do? Please help me ASAP!

2007-12-05 09:59:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help me to use true enghlish sentence, is the below sentence true? and if not please fix it.

"Do you give your daughter to someone whom himself and his family drink? and not feel the responsibility about her life in this case?"

note:i want alarm to a father that he dosnt know his daughter suitor drink and if he knew it, he never give his duaghter to suitor.
please make a full sence sentence for a father.
thanks

2007-12-05 09:59:36 · 5 answers · asked by mastercard 1 in Family

I feel like I always start the physical stuff. I love that he respects me--he's such a great guy...but sometimes I just wanna yell, "No more respect! Throw me down on the couch!" When we first started dating he was kind of shy and I think I've helped him get over that but it hasn't completely happened when we're personal. Sometimes I just want to feel like I'm being taken advantage of. Is that so hard...?

2007-12-05 09:58:24 · 41 answers · asked by lovebird25 5 in Singles & Dating

We were friends for almost a year and things were going well but within the last six months she calls me 4 or 5 times a day, comes over when i dont answer the phone, she has one sided conversations with me (doesnt listen to me or cuts me off) She pokes her head out her door as soon as i drive in and says: wanna come over for tea?, Tries to talk me into drinking when I try to quit, slept with the neighbor's husband, she doesnt have any family and makes me feel guilty so that ill be her friend, i keep trying to avoid her but she always finds a way into my house, looks in my window and asks who was here, screwed around with my brother, keeps hounding me and she wont give up no matter what i do or say. How the hell can i get rid of her without hurting her too badly?

2007-12-05 09:57:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-05 09:55:22 · 28 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I usually got based on word of mouth and my own gut instinct when I've met them. My husband's planning to have his vasectomy during one of his vacations this year and I'm not sure who to go to. Men seem to be closed mouthed about their experiences with this and I don't want to just simply pick one out of the phone book. Thank you.

2007-12-05 09:55:01 · 2 answers · asked by mamasmurf_50 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How come i can feel like i like a guy soooo much. and then all of a sudden not like him anymore. like the day before i'd b tellingm y frend how much i like this guy hoo's in my class, and then the next day i'd b like "eh, he's cool, but don't like him like that any more" ... i think i explained that write... i think

2007-12-05 09:54:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 09:53:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-05 09:52:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's a long story really but, my ex husband I have decided our divorce was a mistake and we are dating again. We have 2 daughters(4.5 months and 23 months old) and we guess it's good for their sake.

He's coming to my house for Christmas and I'm nervous. We have only been divorced a few months. Usually around Christmas time we're so happy and on Christmas morning we have so much fun. I feel like things will be different this year...help!

2007-12-05 09:49:31 · 7 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my husband have been together for about 3 years and we take showers together about everday. Do you think this has cause my husband to be less interested in my body because he sees it everyday, so it is not an excitement anymore what do you all think?

2007-12-05 09:48:09 · 20 answers · asked by CC 3 in Marriage & Divorce