Me and my husband have been together for about 3 years and we take showers together about everday. Do you think this has cause my husband to be less interested in my body because he sees it everyday, so it is not an excitement anymore what do you all think?
2007-12-05 09:48:09 · 20 answers · asked by CC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband as seen my naked body every day for the last 20 years and he still gets excited! (Which still amazes me but there it is). The average shower uses 11.5 gallons of water. That's 80.5 gallons a week, 4186 gallons a year. Imagine the savings over 20 years! Set up a separate savings account, save the money you've been saving on showering together and plan for the trip of a lifetime in 20 years. Keep saving water and look forward to a fun future with your husband, that'll keep you more attractive than ever. Good luck ;)
2007-12-05 10:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't see why this would cause him to loose interest. I don't shower with my partner everyday but i would say that he does see my body everyday and he still looks at me the same way as he always has. He's not all over me every time i take my clothes off but there are times when he just sees me and that's enough. I would think that because he still loves to shower with you everyday would be the answer to your question. Enjoy it, most peoples hubby partner would not give them the attention you get by showering together everyday.
2007-12-05 17:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cinderella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be. Use your body to suprise him and turn him on. Something he doesn't see as often is better when he finally gets to see it. I don't take a shower with my husband and cover up my body most of the time that is why when I do get undressed or half undressed he can't keep his hands off. Try it for awhile and see how it goes. Hope this helps and good luck.
2007-12-05 17:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by bbygrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men DO like things that seem forbidden, and familiarity can be less exciting than something that appears taboo. To solve this problem, I would recommend some kind of lingerie that he's not used to, to surprise him. FOr example, the cheesy old crotchless panties or suspenders and stocking if you don't already wear them. Make your body different and exciting. Or play on the familiarity by blindfolding him and touching him with different parts of your body and making him guess which one?
2007-12-05 17:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, some married people dont even sleep in the same room.. just because he doesnt shower with you every day doesnt mean he is less interested in your physique. I believe that it would actually create a little mystery; he doesnt see you naked all the time & when the opportunity does arrise, im sure he is pleased by it. relationships arent purely pyshical though, they are also spiritual & mental & emotional, just because the 2 of you havent been as close physically as you had in the begining of the relationship doesnt mean that he is less interested.
2007-12-05 17:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by pandernpink 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not at all. If anything it keeps him excited in you. At least you aren't one of those uptight women who are so insecure that they won't let there husbands see them nude. It just happens in marriage sometimes that things aren't as new and as exciting as they once were at first but if you guys keep up things like taking daily showers together you shouldn't have a problem keeping up the intimacy!
2007-12-05 17:53:17 · answer #6 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In a way, it does, but don't stop for that reason. We all get used to things, even our partners. The point of being married is, or at least should be, much more than the physical. Since you're both comfortable with the physical now, you could start to develop more of your emotional and spiritual relationship.
2007-12-05 17:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by finra 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it could.....maybe you should take showers alone and not run around the house naked.....instead shower alone with the bathroom door closed run the house in some sexy under wear. You want to keep his mind wondering whats behind the door or under the sexy panties!
2007-12-05 17:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by imamom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be a little bit more independent, do things when they are supposed to be done, and do other things like work or take care of the house when they are suppose to be done. What you are doing is like trying to play video games (recreation) while vacuum the carpet of the living froom. Separate each other a little bit (if the guy is like me, I would add the words PLEASE).
2007-12-05 17:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's great that you both can share a shower. if you feel like he doesn't find you attractive naked any more cause he has seen it all before try sass it up with some sexy panties or a costume he'll love that
2007-12-05 17:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋