im 19 bf 22 he gets mad when i talk to my old friends from high school and elementary. I was sent to a school up north of my city to be away from the bad schools which kept me away from my friends. Now i try to keep intouch with them some are males and he gets pissed when he sees comments from Myspace or they text me....I feel like i am being restricted from talkin to my friends that i havent seen n forever we argue everytime. Im also in college and he isn't and throws a fit everytime i mention a male from school. Am i being a bad girlfriend for continuing to talk to my old friends or socializing with ppl at school?? in revenge he says he's going to do the same im like whatever
2007-12-05 10:09:40 · 10 answers · asked by Helpkwas! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He def thinks that he's going to lose me bc of me talking to males but I have never cheated on him.
2007-12-05 10:22:11 · update #1
Seems pretty controlling. It is not wrong. It is his insecurities.
2007-12-05 10:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to drop this guy you're with. He sounds like he doesn't trust you and you can't have a relationship where there's no trust! If he is like this now, he will only get worst! Maybe even start beating on you! I know the type, I've seen it with my own two eyes.
2007-12-05 10:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with that. You're not flirting with them or anything. Try sitting down and talking with him about this; he seems to get jealous way too easily. If he's a control freak, you may really need to think about your relationship with this person.
2007-12-05 10:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by distortedcrystals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ought to speak to him, no longer only the will? sounds like something risky right here. Are you romantic in any way with connection with this "pal?" Is he? Does your husband recognize him, too, and learn him a pal to be depended on? except you have some clarification for desirous to harm your husband, i could stow the different guy in a lower back nook of your innovations, and positioned across him out only whilst its a occasion with a fabulous variety of folk around, mutually with your husband.
2016-10-10 08:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not being a bad girlfriend, not at all. He, on the other hand, is being a jealous git of a boyfriend.
Ditch him at the first available opportunity.
2007-12-05 10:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him if he wont let you get in touch with people just 'cause they're guys. Leave him. You're not being a bad girlfriend. He's boeing a controlling @$$ #ole
2007-12-05 10:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jovian Knight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you lose this guy? He's trying to control you beyond reason. He's insecure and it's reflecting.
2007-12-05 10:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Silver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just really cares about you he probly thinks you will fall in love with some one els so really you just need to tell him to give you some space
2007-12-05 10:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy shouldnt try to restrict who you see . something's definitely wrong with him
2007-12-05 10:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad 2 talk to old friends..................... cause if u haven't seen them in a while yuo should be happy to see them
2007-12-05 10:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by kay kay w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋