I have trust issues real bad and it really affecting my relationship. How do I handle this issues without ruining something good? My gf understands me, but I know inside it getting on her nerves. what should I do? Please help me ASAP!
2007-12-05 09:59:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GET TO KNOW HER BETTER THAT SHOULD FIX YOU ISSUE AND IF NOT YOU GUYS AREN'T SUPPOSED TO BE TOGETHER! hope it works out
2007-12-05 10:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by butterfingers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I've been there done that, I left twice. Then another time for 3 months. Then realized I could not live without my soulmate.
I have huge trust issues. Maybe it is due to something from your past, like me. Maybe your parents had a bad marriage or something along those lines. . . just hang in there. Find a good friend you can trust to talk things out with, or even get some councelling.
Relationships are scarry, I know!
Just hang in there and do what you have to do:-)
It they love you and are care about you, they will try to understand it all.
2007-12-05 18:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might need professional help with this. I know it's expensive, but this is your life we're talking about, and your emotional health.
By professional help, I mean talking to a therapist to find out the source of your problem, and seeing how you can deal with this.
Coming to Yahoo Answers is a desperate act on your part, and I don't think that there is anyone who can really help you here. So think about this, and talk to your girl, you might find that she is very supportive of the idea, and ask your doctor to refer you to a therapist.
And good luck with this. It's scary, but worth it in the end.
2007-12-05 18:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and let yourself trust her
2007-12-05 18:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by greatgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋