On a scale 1 to 10 1 being worst 10 being best.
Age: 15
Height: 5"5
Weight:121 lbs.
Hobies: computer,music,basketball,hanging out,guitar,reading
Eye color: brown-green
mussle defenition: normal
# of friends: 22
# of girlfriends: 5(2 of them very short period)
longest dating with same girl: 9 months
shortest dating with same girl: 2 weeks
Favorite clothing store: Kohls
Clothing style: fancy-casual
First date: Expose her to my little studio, play a song for her, take her out to eat, maybe invite her to my b-ball game.
Second Date: invite her to my b-ball game, maybe intruduce to my parents, dress nicer more fancy, nice parfume. Go to mall.
3rd date: take her to behind the scenes of my traning for a b-ball game, give her a special seat ticket, intruduce her to my friends, parents, my brother and sister. Take her to behind the scenes of my band and then take her to a nice dinner.
look at my accomblishments in my profile!!
2007-12-05
12:18:36
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asked by
TruePistonsFan
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
Do you guys think I'm obbesed with the b-ball thing? I just want her to know I am succesful b-ball player and that's what I love to do.
2007-12-05
12:28:22 ·
update #1
amean I had girls who was really interested in going to behind the scenes before my band performed.
2007-12-05
12:30:14 ·
update #2
definitely 10. I would date you, but I have a boyfriend, so I would give you a 10!
-Jake R's Girl Forever
2007-12-05 12:22:28
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answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7
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5, average. You are a normal guy.
I give you five points for your athletic skills, which are decently impressive. The description of your looks is irrelevant, so scratch them off. We have to see your face. Decent gpa. But have you peaked too soon? News flash: four years from now NOBODY will care what you accomplished in high school. It will be like you didn't do anything. And everyone is focused on themselves. I soloed for the President of the United States. How many people cared when I got to college? Um, none. They just started talking about THEIR singing, and THEIR choirs. It will be the same for you. THis will not interest a girl unless she loves you enough to focus on you, or unless she is an unselfish person.
But the thing is, it seems like it's all about you. She gets to go and see all of your accomplishments. Hopefully your ego won't show too much. Take her to something SHE will enjoy. Get to know her interests and take her to that, also find out what her accomplishments are before she finds out about yours. Take her to dinner with your parents and let THEM tell her, so you don't seem into yourself.
Also, how would you take a girl to the mall? You are 15, you have no car. What is this, shocks, pegs, LUCKY?!! 15 and FIVE girlfriends? You've been busy. Jeez. Don't grow up too fast.
And I wouldn't judge you by the quantity of the friends you have, but the quality.
I would be more interested to know:
-If you found a hundred bucks on the floor of a store, what would you do with it?
-What's your sense of humor like?
-What's your favorite band?
-What do you believe?
-How do you treat your mom?
-What's your dad like?
-Do you read or have a favorite movie?
-Who is your hero?
-What's the worst thing that has ever happened to you?
-What do you do for other people?
-Do you want to volunteer anywhere?
-Do you think you have a problem with pride? (and if you say you don't, that means you do. Another sign is that you really can't stand to be around arrogant people)
-Do you have compassion?
-How often do you lie every day?
-What's the most important thing to you (sounds to me like it's appearing successful)
I mean, if you can play baseball really bad and you are in a band (btw, so am I) and I don't like your answers to the other questions, could you blame me for not dating you?
Heh, at least you'd take me to the mall. lol.
2007-12-05 12:26:04
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answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6
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Well, do you want me to be nice or honest?
I'll be honest. You sound full of yourself! A girl does NOT want to go on a "date" to see your b-ball game or see your "little studio." What the hell? Let's turn the tables... for your first date, would you like to go and watch her Knowledge Bowl competition? When you take a girl out, the idea is to get to know her! Ask her about her interests. Have fun TOGETHER. Why do you think she'd want to sit back and admire your accomplishments?
Here's an idea... since you like reading, why not go to a bookstore together, maybe when they're having an Open Mic poetry reading? Get some lattes, peruse your favorite books together. If you like music (and most girls like music too), find a concert you could go to. If there's a university in your town, there are usually lots of cheap concerts there.
You sound like you've got this thing too orchestrated. Just hang out with a girl you like, who likes you back, and let it go from there.
2007-12-05 12:30:11
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answered by Anonymous
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She might not be into to sports all that well. Wait a little later in dating until you ask to her to attend one of your games. If she comes willingly without your asking a couple of times, then yes, you can give her a speacial seat. It shows she has speacial interest in you and sports, or just you, or just sports. Every date you should take her to eat. I'd say the first date you should introduce her to parents and other family. Second date, friends. So I'd say 7 or 8. These are good improving tips...at least your not a zero.
2007-12-05 12:26:09
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answered by Respect Is What It Is 6
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You get a 0 for thinking people can be rated on a number scale. Your attributes sound shallow and meaningless.
But for trying to be a considerate date, I'll bum it up to a 2.
Don't be offended. You are only 15. Be more concerned about the man you are growing into and less about who you impress and you'll be fine.
2007-12-05 13:59:59
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answered by Anonymous
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I have an idea you are fun person to be around,but you might want to pay heed to your spelling.If you were to write a note to your honey,she might not quite get what you are saying.Communication is the key to a good relationship,so practice writing.Otherwise,you are ok in my book!You obviously have a good rapport with your family.Manners are definitely a plus!Remember,manners and smarts will take you where money and good looks won't.
2007-12-05 12:30:49
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answered by orangepjs44 2
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you sound nice, but try not to force girls into watching basketball so much. Especially on a date...dates are supposed to be more romantic...but if she likes basketball, then go right ahead. And she might not be comfortable meeting you family so early in the relationship.
2007-12-05 12:24:38
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answered by Vanessa :) 2
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ummm 6.5??
you seem like a nice enough guy... tone down the conceit, though. focus on the girl. and don't try too hard -- just go with it. most girls would really just like to hang out and get to know you better... movies... ice cream... walks... nothing too big. taking her to YOUR basketball games and showing her YOUR band is a bit too "look at me! look at me!" she'll like you if you seem interested in her... not just yourself.
2007-12-09 07:49:00
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answered by Rosie 1
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huh..... you almost seem too good in my opinion.... However, give me a computer nerd any day! I'd give you an 7.5..... Instead of taking her out somewhere, what about just hanging out at home and talking about whatever? Why was your longest dating time with a girl 9 months, anyways?? I think having 22 friends is way too much!! I love sports but basketball is fun when your not playing for points.
2007-12-05 12:24:39
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answered by Jay P 5
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No offense, but I would say a 5. You just seem pretty concieded, and all about you."I'll take her to my b-ball game, my band, special tickets to see me..." blah blah blah. If you like a girl you should probably focus a little more on her than yourself. Sorry :[
2007-12-05 12:23:55
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answered by crimson 5
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ok you had sure better hope she likes basketball because if she doesnt and you do soooo much basketball i think she would be less intersted in you than before also what is with u and behind the scenes thing
also how about some pictures?????
2007-12-05 12:23:50
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answered by J 2
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