There is this girl at school who keeps telling me she is my friend then tells me tons and tons of lies she cant keep a secret ive gave her like 10 chances if not more and she thinks she is so pretty and all that.....that is my first question what do i do without hurting her in any way!....2nd of all there is this girl who gets really mad easy and is a snitch all the time and im tired of her doing crap to everyone but if i cause any phisyical contact ill get expelled and if i argue ill get detention but i cant ignore her....cuz its kinda hard to what do i do?..3rd of all my friend is having a slumber thing just for fun this saturday but there is this girl that might come who is like my worst enemy but if i fight ill get sent home how can i avoid fighting if she comes without getting over upset remeber i have a teper and sometimes i go overboard with it i just need help!!!!
2007-12-05 12:03:17 · 3 answers · asked by Kaylee H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First bit of advice....get some anger management!!
Answer to 1st question....
Don't do anything, just don't tell her any secrets!!
Answer to 2nd question...
Don't do anything, what goes around comes around....it will come back on her shortly!! You will have the last laugh without getting expelled.
Answer to 3rd question...
Simple....don't go!!
I hope this helps you.
2007-12-05 12:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by dot_on_the_horizon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to a counsler at your school about your anger issue. They have people who can help you with that.
Then get some new friends. The ones you have do not seem to really care about you. (telling your secrets, inviting your worse enemy, trying to get you to fight)
I would not go to the slumber thing if I were you. Definately stay away from the snitch. The everyone she gives crap to can take care of their own battles. You are responsible for your own actions. And the girl who says she is your friend, tell her to buzz off, leave you alone, go away and take a hike.
Be a loner instead of a bully. Help people with school work or ask for help. That is usually a good way to get to know other people and maybe make friends.
2007-12-05 12:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st answer: get a new friend, she isn't a true friend
2nd answer: Your doing right by ignoring her, but if she touches you, you do have the right to hit her back
3rd answer: avoid the girl, don't allow the girl to ruin your fun
2007-12-05 12:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Wise Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋