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i like him allot.. he is a nice person, great to talk to just the best boyfriend.. but when it comes to like sex and stuff i feel absolutely nothing! i don't get wet.. he always gets hard but i dont have that feeling. i never had a orgasm or anything.. is something wrong with me?? does this mean i don't like him?? n i should break up with him and find someone that makes me feel that way?? i wanna feel pleasure but i dont feel it with him. HELP ME PLEASE!!

2007-12-05 15:09:05 · 3 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Singles & Dating

A small raven on the underside of my wrist...my little tribute to Edgar Allen Poe. No I'm not goth, I just love his poetry. Be honest please.

2007-12-05 15:07:34 · 35 answers · asked by Helga G. Pataki 6 in Singles & Dating

i pick up after her and myself, i clean up after her dogs, i pick up their crap and mop up their piss, i cook, i do the laundry, all because she is to lazy to get up and help and bitches when i ask her to do something. she holds sex over my head like i sold my soul for it yet she doesnt even give anymore and cuz times are hard she sometimes holds money over my head she is nice when she wants something but mean the rest of the time she doesnt consider how i feel or the fact that im a person she bitches and calls me names when i try to joke with her yet when she does it im supposed to laugh and be okay with it even though the way she jokes with me (as she puts it) lowers my self asteem when i talk to someone on the phone she asks who it is and i tell her yet when she does she just tells me that sh edoesnt have to say so check the caller id i dont know what to do to improve the relationship she used to not be this way but has changed since we moved here 2 months ago i love her regardless

2007-12-05 15:05:47 · 11 answers · asked by bloodredangel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 17 about to be 18. My mom is cool with it because my half brother has been in for 7 years. My mom is white and christian and my dad is arab and muslim....they are divorced and both remarried. My dad has a problem with me joining because of course his native background and his whole family living in the mid east. I don't know what to do. every time i talk about it with him he shuts it down and doesn't want to ever talk to me about it again. He tries to be pretty controlling and tells me how it is and how it is going to be. He tells me that i am going to college and he wont listen to me. If i join the military he wont talk to me for god knows how long... What should i do?

2007-12-05 15:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by FtrMrn 1 in Family

Heres a long story gone short. My dad allowed his half brother to move at our house. My mom accepted him in the whole family did. It was o.k. Five months have passed and that person is totally different.

He is very irresponsible , he does not think before acting. its a hassle with him living here.

He uses my computer without asking and burgess into my room whenever he wants to. He eats all the food not leaving some for me nor my sister ( we have to go out to eat). He wakes up late and goes to sleep late. He stays in my computer 24/7. I can't take food cause he will eat it all. He arrives at work one hour and a half late and he doesn't take in consideration that my dad got him a job. You could say that he is just plain annoying. My mom, my sister, and I want him out of the house.
But my dad won't do anything cause he gives him money for the rent.

And I can't take somehow ima be forced to move out of the house ( I am 17 and go to college).

What can I do? He is screwing up my family.

2007-12-05 15:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by mizuno_ninja 1 in Family

I hate the fact that my bf spends alot of time playing his video games. there are times when i cant get ahold of him because he's too busy playing. there's times when our plans have ended cuz he's spends too much time on it. i hate thinking that im competing with his damn gaming systems. we actually joke that they are more of a priority than me. am i over exaggerating or is there a real issue here?

2007-12-05 15:03:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Help mee! My father let me check my e-mail on his computer and in the search bar there were bad sites!
All of them were like
Pornhub.com/video/001 etc...
What is pornhub?
I am so creeped out,
He told me he never would watch anything like that. when i told him i knew,he told me to leave. Could he be lying about more things? More importantly, is he cheating on my mom?

=(...

2007-12-05 15:02:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this girl I really like and she likes me too. So when i ask her out and after she says yes what should i say?

2007-12-05 15:00:53 · 1 answers · asked by lildude 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 15:00:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For instance, when they are unhappy, they vent their anger

2007-12-05 14:58:03 · 16 answers · asked by Wei Yang 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last month my son told us that he was beginning the process of legally changing his name to Cash-Money God. I don't know the significance of it, but I figured it was just him being a rebellious 17 year old boy. He claims his real name, Ralph Finkelstein, isn't "gangsta" enough. Today he showed me the papers and all he has to do is submit them to city hall on Monday and it's official! I never thought he was seriously going to do this! As if this isn't bad enough, when my daughter found about what her brother was doing, she thought it was cool and told us that she decided to legally change her name to Jenny Juicy-Legs. She also doesn't like the name my wife and I gave her, which is Agnes Finklestein. Plus, she's only 16 years old! I tried to talk them out of this but they say I have no moral authority since I legally changed my name last year to Super King when I launched my rap label. What should I do with my 2 rebillios children

2007-12-05 14:57:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

And also, might I add....she supposed to be tryin to holla at my boy Mark, wit tha multi-colored fro....and he aint online and now she all up on Stevie, who she KNOW I gotta thang for.....so wahat do I do?

2007-12-05 14:57:18 · 6 answers · asked by ssshhhh cause I said so™ 3 in Singles & Dating

First of all, my aunt and I disagree on a lot of things. We live in the same house, so she has a lot more of an affect on my life than most aunts would. And right now we are disagreeing over sports. She takes Tae Kwon Do, and she makes me take it with her. Today I was complaining about going, as I do every time she makes me go, because I absolutely hate it. She says I need exercise, and I agree to some extent. I have offered to do a million other things that I would absolutely love to do, like join a swim team, or especially do dance. She says that they are to expensive, but neither her or my mom have ever looked into it at all or tried to find scholarships. So, my aunt always makes me go to Tae Kwon Do with her, and I don't like it. There is no one my age in the class, I don't care for the way it is taught, and I think with something like swimming or dance I could have a chance to meet other girls my own age, not to mention I love swimming and dancing. So anyways, today in the car on

2007-12-05 14:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by Lili 2 in Family

This weekend my 16 yr old son stole $1000 from a wonderful man that I've been dating for 4 amazing months. The problem is my boyfriend told me he wants to continue to have a relationship with me because he loves me but, he never wants to see my son again and that I should send my son to live with his father. He also states that because of this he should not have any of his things (clothes, shoes, personals) and to let him start over w/ nothing. I've made a plan to repay the money. However, my son is a minor and as bad as this was he should be forgiven if he corrects his behavior. I love my child unconditionally and want to move past this with my son and my lover but right now this doesn't look promising. Should I repay the money and move on now or stay and try to convince my lover to forgive my son? Or since this is still new give it more time and decide later?

2007-12-05 14:50:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

After our daughter turned almost 2, we (my husband decided, i stood by his decision) cut ties with his parents. His mother has issues and nothing is ever good enough. Step-father is a bit controlling and was abusive to my husband as a child - He was always the outsider in the family. He has a step brother (36 yrs old, still living @ home, no girlfriend, little social life) The 3 are very introverted and once our daughter was born my mother-in-law made every excuse in the book not to be involved (not major parties, no babysitting requested - she wanted to be paid for that...just wanted her to come over for coffee every once in a while and enjoy her granddaughter) Anyway - we cut off ties. Haven't talked to them in almost 5 yrs (they live 10 mins away) My husband's stepdad is now sick with a rare disease and his mother is on the verge of a breakdown. a birdy told me) Husband still questions why they didn't fight the "cutting off" thing and has never been truely happy since Do I tell him?

2007-12-05 14:50:21 · 11 answers · asked by mscarlybobarlysmom 3 in Family

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Well, Im just curious here on opinions of my situation. At work a while back, talk of sexual relationships came up (I work with all men, me being a male as well) and one of the guys took a guess and asked if I were a virgin. I was not going to lie so I said yes. Heres my question, ever since then three of the guys have been bugging me about it almost every other day, asking if I have had sex yet and poking fun at my situation. I am 19 and have not really had any dates, and usually I can take a good laugh, but its starting to get on my nerves and stressing me out at work. What should I do? Is this a type of harassment at work? (seeing as it should be a private thing, I only have been working here for 5 months so its not like im best freinds with these guys, the youngest co worker is 28)

2007-12-05 14:49:47 · 17 answers · asked by tech88 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Even if she has a great job and the kids are in fantastic schools? What if It really is just to see If she will?

2007-12-05 14:49:45 · 24 answers · asked by Mrs. McK 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this one friend who i really enjoy talking with and hanging out with. But latley Im wondering if he could be gay or not. When ever Im at his house we seem to wrestle around. Also sometimes at school, when were alone he will just look at me and smile. I really like him and if hes gay (which i hope he is) he he. It doesnt matter to me either way as he is a good friend. I just want to know what anyone else thinks. Also He doesnt have a gf and he doesnt seem intersted in having one. Thanks

2007-12-05 14:48:33 · 1 answers · asked by Star 7 2 in Singles & Dating

If I sumtimes lock eyes with him does that mean he likes me? If you think he does what shood i do? tell him or wait 4 him to say sumthing. Also I kinda think he MIGHT have a GF.?

2007-12-05 14:47:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't want to interfear in her relationship with her husband.her husband is a cop.and he don't get home until 4am. and i am currently single

2007-12-05 14:46:10 · 28 answers · asked by dodge_ram_pickup_guy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been separated for 6 mos. He had an affair w/my neighbor for 2 1/2 years and although I tried very hard to forgive it and put it out of my head, I just couldn't do it. I haven't filied for divorce and I still have feelings for him, but I am not sure if it is really love or just the longing for the 12 years we spent together. He has been trying very hard to get me back and I finally agreed to counseling (I was in therapy on my own after I found out about the affair, but he wouldn't go for fear of being blamed for all that went wrong in our marriage). I just found his login info for eharmony and although we have counseling scheduled for tomorrow evening, he is still asking and answering questions to the women he is "matched" with...even this afternoon. Am I a complete idiot for wasting my time and money on counseling with him? I am doing fine on my own but have 4 children that we are co-raising.

2007-12-05 14:45:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to be a better person & it is working for me, but it seems like people around me are there to test me, and I don't always feel like I am passing. I am the kind of person where "it's all about the principle" & I don't know how to change that.

Ex: I let my daughter's aunt stay in my house for a week, and she lossed my house keys, and I got mad. Her take on it was I have money, and I will replace your debolt, so no worries. I didn't care if she could replace the dead bolt, it made me mad that she basically said she didn't care that she lost my keys because she could replace the dead bolt.

Ex: I told a friend about a close young family member who was born with HIV because this family memeber was going to play with her children, and I know everyone is not educated about it. She acted like she was ok, and then went and told that family member's teacher. I asked why, and she more or less said "oh we were just talking"

2007-12-05 14:44:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-05 14:43:49 · 57 answers · asked by ionbreather 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance is great my family adores him, we're living together and I don't feel the chemistry I had with him when we first started out, he's always horney when we're in bed but the idea of having it with him turns me off as it's boring and because he's always in the mood for it, I have it with him sometimes but I don't enjoy it, the intimacy is gone when I want cuddles or kisses I have to ask him, and when we do things together... well generally we don't do anything together anymore, I bought a jigsaw puzzle for us to do together and all he could do was whinge how boring it was! he plays his playstation and then whinges because I'm not paying attention to him cause I sit down and do work on my computer because he's not paying attention to me!
not to mention due to his spending habits we're always broke.

What can I say? the relationship is stale

2007-12-05 14:43:24 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Dillema that ruined my day :(?
me and bff are being very distant. i dont talk to her like i used too. we used to be the BESTEST FRIENDS ever, we were hyper and crazy. but now i say she's changed and she tells me iv changed. i have changed, i havent been as hyper. its our freshmen year and hw is loaded, i really dont have time to be hyper. i have also changed because its like iv seen her for the first time, sometimes i hate her so much just because and sometime i love her so much. instead i have become really good friends with her other bff, and now we're good friends, and we both agree that she has changed. but today on her myspace headline she wrote something that ruined my day...she wrote....

"I'd take a punch for you, but not two--its crazy messed up how ur BFFs one day and things have to turn out like that the next

"that hurt, and her bff and i were thinking that shes talking about one of us or even both. i think its me a LITTLE bit more.
i mean she can very mean sometimes and conceited and rude.
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but she is still my bff and despite all of this i still love her and i know things are not going to go back to normal, i dont want them too. it would be too awkard, but i wanted to know what you guys think and what headline i should put on my myspace about this. i dont want to make it as obvious as hers. thanks :)
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OH AND I HOPE IM NOT MAKING A BIG DEAL ABOUT THIS.
Report It

2007-12-05 14:39:25 · 2 answers · asked by مدينا Medina ☪ 6 in Singles & Dating

if me and my fiance were to get a marriage license, does that mean we are legally married?
do you have to have a ceremony? like if you dont, is it illegal?
and is a marriage certificate and marriage license the same thing?

2007-12-05 14:36:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

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