i like him allot.. he is a nice person, great to talk to just the best boyfriend.. but when it comes to like sex and stuff i feel absolutely nothing! i don't get wet.. he always gets hard but i dont have that feeling. i never had a orgasm or anything.. is something wrong with me?? does this mean i don't like him?? n i should break up with him and find someone that makes me feel that way?? i wanna feel pleasure but i dont feel it with him. HELP ME PLEASE!!
2007-12-05 15:09:05 · 3 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should i break up w/ him??
2007-12-05 15:09:37 · update #1
i dont wanna cheat 2 get that feeling
2007-12-05 15:10:07 · update #2
It could be you. Then again, it could also be that your boyfriend isn't putting any work nor time in foreplay and getting you in the mood for sex. Sadly most guys just don't get how a woman's sex drive works. You have to heat her up before sticking the meat in. I suspect that this is the case with your guy.
Now the question I pose to you is, "Does he put at least 15 minutes into foreplay?" If not, then you need to tell him and give him honest feedback. Let him know what turns you on as well as what turns him on. If he is doing his best to bring pleasure to the bedroom and you still aren't feeling it, then it could very well be that you are both incompatible with each other sexually as well as personally.
2007-12-05 15:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't get insulted by the next sentence, I just want you to think about it. Do you get that feeling for any guy? I've had too many friend ask me the same question as you did over and over again for years before they realised they might be gay.
They is nothing wrong with you. Attraction is not a choice. I hate to say it, but if you don't feel attracted to him now, you never will. No matter how much you "like" him you cannot convince yourself to be and feeling guilty about that is pointless.
2007-12-05 23:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by No Drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well perhaps what most yahoo user will say is that use toys lubricant be erotic, but what I say is this well what do you do when you masturbate? how do you satisfy yourself? Do you even do that? Another thing is this sex is sex (sex comes and goes) you can have it with anybody you want. but what makes is special is that person you're with. What I'm saying is this what are you looking for in a relationship? sex? or someone who you enjoy being with?
2007-12-05 23:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mobius1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋