how should i tell my fiance that she treats me like crap?

Question

i pick up after her and myself, i clean up after her dogs, i pick up their crap and mop up their piss, i cook, i do the laundry, all because she is to lazy to get up and help and bitches when i ask her to do something. she holds sex over my head like i sold my soul for it yet she doesnt even give anymore and cuz times are hard she sometimes holds money over my head she is nice when she wants something but mean the rest of the time she doesnt consider how i feel or the fact that im a person she bitches and calls me names when i try to joke with her yet when she does it im supposed to laugh and be okay with it even though the way she jokes with me (as she puts it) lowers my self asteem when i talk to someone on the phone she asks who it is and i tell her yet when she does she just tells me that sh edoesnt have to say so check the caller id i dont know what to do to improve the relationship she used to not be this way but has changed since we moved here 2 months ago i love her regardless

Answer 1

Just say "you treat me like crap" and I'm leaving. Bye

Answer 2

I am sorry but you better reconsider this relationship. Is this how you want to spend the rest of your life??? I hope not, you sound like a great guy who deserves better!! Your head is letting you know its over, I know its hard but you need to move on and find a girl that will respect you and everything you do!! This relationship (that you call it) that you are in has died, its time to move on. She is NOT going to change!! Right now she is taking you for granted and you are letting her, so why should she?? Sorry honey go on with your life.

Answer 3

She is using you. I just got out of a marriage like that and I was probably even more stupid because she was nineteen years younger. Lowered my self esteem as well. She left when I got laid off. I don't even know where she is now and I don't want to. Lay off is supposed to be almost over and work will be a lot better without her. Leave before it is worse.

Answer 4

Now you now what married life will be like forever "til death do you part".
Boot her sorry butt out and tell her your going to get a woman who loves you and treats you like she loves you.She will curse whine complain and then later "want to work things out".Use this as a learning experience and get to KNOW a girl without sex or shacking then you dont have NEAR the emotional investment and you dont lose money etc either.If she works pays her own way has her own transportation place to live and keeps her place clean, thats a good start.

Answer 5

I understand. But you like her, so I don't know if you want to dump her or not. Just warn her a couple of times, "If you don't start doing some of the chores, then I'm leaving. I'm not going ot be in a relationship where my fiance/wife treats my like I'm a slave!"

Answer 6

How can you fell in love with her anyway? And thinking that you'll be married with this girl? Come on!! i think the best way is to stand up and face her like a MAN. Show her who wear the pants. Just think of the future. Can you live happily with her? Take actions now.

Answer 7

say baby we need to talk about something sit her down and then proceed to tell her i dont want to marry someone who treats me this way, i dont think you should marry her. if you want to stay with her ( dont know why you should) tell her to change or im gone, then shell find some a$$hole who will treat her like $hit then she will wind up wanting you back and then thats when you say you had your chance and blew it &itch, "that way youll learn!!!"-george lopez

Answer 8

forget her unless you want to be treated like this for the rest of your life, anddon't tell her your leaving just pack up your bags and walk out

Answer 9

Just dump her, you deserve someone lots of times better. She'll understand.

Answer 10

I'm agreeing with everyone else.

You deserve better, a lot better.