Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

ok guys what are some signs that a guy likes you

2007-12-05 15:39:39 · 9 answers · asked by kool breeze 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married 4 years. I have known his family that long as well. My husband is eldest and has to go. The family never took to me because we live in FL and I am very beautiful. The problem is that the funeral is in NY. I don't want to go because it upsets me. I want to support my husband but feel pressured to go. My husband is 61 and says he will drive straight through all night to NY. He refuses to fly. Also we have a brand new puppy that is not trained. What is the correct ettiquette on these situations. Also, no one told us until today that he was is hospice care. He was taken 11/27. I have done everything I could for his family but I get no respect back. I really don't want to be around miserable people. I also don't want my husband to die in a car wreck. He cannot see like he used to. Also I'm LPN and the family used to literally dump his parents on us so they could go in the house and steal. I am so sick I do not know what to do.

2007-12-05 15:39:34 · 7 answers · asked by MaggieMae 4 in Family

i got a call from a well woman i thought i was rid of for good as much as she has caused problem.s before . it.s that trailer park trash. how she got my number. i never know. she wans me to meet her i was shocked a tamp now.48. would have the nerve to ask me to meet her i only did her back for spite towards her . now . ex.husband . she is sick to even think i want that again but that.s a tramp for you . why would she ever think i would want to see her . a nut case she is

2007-12-05 15:38:58 · 4 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know...............

2007-12-05 15:38:42 · 22 answers · asked by jonel p 1 in Singles & Dating

Forgot to mention, I am the wife - married 25 years, we split because of an affair, July and August. Separated since Veteran's day, maybe 6 months until divorce. He keeps on saying would not leave house, but would still see her in the 6 months, but I think that would burn like a sore. Right in my face, having to live with him during the separation. Last night I thought we were trying to patch things up, mistake, woman? not one to me, still in picture. So told him today, just go stay with her tonight. I'm sick of you, but he would not do so, would go to a hotel, refuses to spend the night, I said why do you want to go to hotel, why not her place. It turned out he was afraid I would use it against him in divorce. I told him to just stay with her, leave me alone. So tonight we had another big fight. He had to inform me how happy he is with her and I did not ask for that info. I've tried to make him happy for 25 years and it hasn't been enough, what a fool.

2007-12-05 15:35:49 · 16 answers · asked by lynn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a friend who said he likes to date girls with small hands because they make his (thing) bigger. we had a good laugh and then I realized all the girls he dated are tiny women.

2007-12-05 15:32:19 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. Mastershake 5 in Singles & Dating

Like Im 20 years old but I live at home and my parents are still protective (which is understandable) and I love my mom and dad and I don't want to upset them when I tell them but I also want to be able to share it with them. Any ideas of how I can tell them?

2007-12-05 15:30:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 15:29:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am not overweight, however i am tall and my friends always say you dont look like what you weigh!! but when i see myself, i see exactly what i weigh, so im thicker......
i always like guys who probably weigh less than me, sometimes are shorter than me and i dont have a problem with it at all, but i feel like they do...
so guys please answer does it matter that you are slimmer than the girl?

2007-12-05 15:28:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a guy that i've had some conflicts with that my girlfriend talks to for a little bit in a class each day. I really don't like this kid, but she talks to him anyways. I trust her, so that isn't an issue. She says she talks to him because he's the only one that talks to her that class. I don't want her to have an hour each day where she doesn't talk to anyone, but i don't want her to have anything to do with him.

2007-12-05 15:25:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright there is this girl I really like, she has the greatest personality, is funny, athletic, smart, and beautiful. I went way too fast and screwed up the first time, and when I asked her to homecoming she let me down softly. Now I have tried to back off so I don't look like a stalker.

Since then she has opened up to me. She starts conversations with me, she is hyper when I'm around, she flirts with me. We have even gone snowboarding together a few times and hang out.

What would your reaction be if a couple months later, a guy says to you "Amy, (her name) I try everyday to get over the fact that you don't like me. But somehow your personality and smile speak to me in a way that make that impossible"

I look deep into your eyes as I say that with true sincerity on my face. It comes from inside, not some cheesy thing that doesn't really mean anything. What would your reaction be girls? Would you give me a chance?

2007-12-05 15:22:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my son recieves medicaid through social services my son lives with me but his father lives elwhere but we're still a family my sons father also receives medicaid through the same program but he has to pay child support for our son even though we live in seperate places can i take my son off my medicaid case and put him on his fathers medcaid case

2007-12-05 15:21:18 · 6 answers · asked by pretty1 1 in Family

2007-12-05 15:20:19 · 40 answers · asked by thorno74 3 in Singles & Dating

okay,im in a college in a far off city from home,and i hate it.i hate it to the very core.so much so that i don't want to pursue this stream anymore.but due to pressurization from home,i have to be here.now,for the past 5 months,ive been partying like a ***** and not attended even ONE class.....semester ends 22nd December,and i was all cool with that,and i was not even gonna appear,thinking its gonna pass..but then suddenly my college calls home telling i did NOT fill my end term forms . . . and my parents found out... now ..if i dotn fill the forms...some people would get seriously pissed,and if i go there to fill em,i face massive humiliation and bullshit which my ego could not absorb. any ideas??

2007-12-05 15:20:05 · 8 answers · asked by wha_shizzle_is_dizzlin 2 in Family

what happens to eveything u have b 4 the marriage is it better to add his name on or keep ur own name or change your name entirely what r the rules with marriage as far as assets can u have your own with his last name or is everything ours?

2007-12-05 15:19:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is this some type of nice way of telling me that he likes me, but when something better comes along he'll take that? or is it that he doesn't like the commitment?

2007-12-05 15:19:20 · 12 answers · asked by Katers 1 in Singles & Dating

What do guys fdo that girls dont know about when they like someone???

2007-12-05 15:18:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year and a half maybe. im 18, and a senior in highschool, and my boyfriend is just a year older than me. this christmas, or rather, afterwards, he wants me to go with him up north to visit his family. i want to, and my mom is excited for me to go (parents divorced), but my dad is still reluctant to let me! im a pretty good kid, do well in school, going to college soon, mature, never gotten in too much trouble..yet, he is barely budging!!! what can i do to let me go?

2007-12-05 15:18:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So far I see I have done wrong after helping so many people make back up I let myself down.I had beg Stephen to go back to his family If he see fit and he should try working things out.I even ask him to go visit them and if he doesn't miss them.He use to talk about them sometimes and I use to ask him If he spoke to them daily.I beg him to try work things out but he ignore me.I don't know if she was unfaithful to him or if he was.Alot of people who I know that knows him speak good things about him.I blame myself for the mess am in and all I want is to move on.It's just thatI was wondering why would this man stop calling me without saying a word I am telling u we was good that day.If he goes back to his family I am most happy I always told him children shouldn't pay for parents mistake and I talk to my mother about this and reallY its hard to understand everything.I still ask myself why he so wanted me to meet his parents his sister was so comfortable about me.What do I do now from here?

2007-12-05 15:17:05 · 2 answers · asked by christine r 1 in Family

She claims that she misses me but whenever I go hang out with her, the other guy is there

2007-12-05 15:15:11 · 4 answers · asked by Osarogie 6 in Singles & Dating

but she says im a great guy and we have a great relationship on paper. ok i have already moved on after the second breakup which was about 4 days ago because im just tired of her emotional rollercoaster saying that she wants to be with me then telling me that she just doesnt have feelings for me. The thing is she still texts me everyday. I mean we are still friends but if i broke up with someone because i didnt have feelings for them i wouldnt be texting them all the time. Preferably girls, what do you think is going on in her head.

2007-12-05 15:15:01 · 36 answers · asked by Rickyxlnos 2 in Singles & Dating

Almost everyday, I see or hear about women shacking up with these guys. And these women aren't necessarily skanks, either. Many of them are classy, successful women who seem to be going places in life. So, what are they doing with these types of men? And why, on the contrary, do some of us decent, deserving guys have a helluva time finding just one woman willing to spend time with us? What's up with that, anyway?

2007-12-05 15:14:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a couple months ago one of my male friends asked if we could date but i only see him as a friend so he agreed to remain that way,but he still flirts and makes little comments about dating so i know he still has it on his mind.i dont get this? if someone doesnt feel the same way about you as you feel for them shouldnt that make the eprson not like you any more? i mean why do they persist? instead of dating someone who likes them the same way? what do you guys think?

2007-12-05 15:13:35 · 31 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 15:13:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 15:11:18 · 1 answers · asked by foodforthought 1 in Singles & Dating

...than never to have loved at all?
I loved, and lost him 3 years ago. We are still friends, but he has since remarried. For all the pain and agony I have gone through, (and am still going through, because I still cry over him sometimes).....I feel that it is better to never have loved at all. If I never met him, I never would be feeling so much pain.

2007-12-05 15:11:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I loved my stepdaughter. Her father wasn’t in the picture because of a selfish mother who was abused as a child and went through guys like water. I was just 100 on the list. She called me daddy. Her real father was no where to be found. However because I have 2 children from a previous marriage I have been raped by the law system financially. I want to be in the my stepdaughter’s life but don’t have the resources left if the courts decide I was acting as a father and have to pay child support to her mom. I already pay for my 2 and can barely afford to live but I love my stepdaughter and want to be in her life but can’t be made responsible for her like her real dad should because financially I’d be living on the streets if I had to support my stepdaughter. I miss her so much. I’m caught between a crazy law system and what I feel. What should I do? I’m the only dad she has ever known. If I throw caution to the wind I could get screwed by the court system saying I acted as the father so I should pay but I can’t live if have to support her and my two biological kids. She needs a father and I was it. I want to be able to live ok financially and still be a part of my stepdaughters life. Any advice? Should I give her a Christmas present and tell her her daddy (which is me in defacto) will always be there for her or just forget it because if the courts find me liable I can’t take care of any of them given my financial situation. It’s heartbreaking.

2007-12-05 15:10:32 · 9 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...than never to never have loved at all?
I loved, and lost him 3 years ago. We are still friends, but he has since remarried. For all the pain and agony I have gone through, (and am still going through, because I still cry over him sometimes).....I feel that it is better to never have loved at all. If I never met him, I never would be feeling so much pain.

2007-12-05 15:10:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The thing is that we are both 20 and in college, and I feel that we cannot afford children at the moment. I am curious to know if it is mandatory that I allow him to do that. We are married, but I am just scared to death of an "accident." Are my fears irrational? Is this normal? Do most married couples allow that or am I being abnormal?

2007-12-05 15:09:54 · 42 answers · asked by lesh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a sister who's son wishes she were dead he is very angry and has some mental health issues. She is very hurt by his words and he has been living with his father for some time now. The best way to describe the issues is a messy divorce and what I call the Blame Game where the parents blame each other and it goes back and forth. Yet the child is stuck in the middle. I told her to keep silent about his dad reguardless how she truely feels to her son, she needs to act like the dad is father of the year per-say around him.Yet how does she deal with the fact her son wishes she were dead? Also wants nothing to do with her? They are going to therapy as well. Yet I want to help her with more advice on how to help them both before the relationship is more damaged.

2007-12-05 15:09:52 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family