i am not overweight, however i am tall and my friends always say you dont look like what you weigh!! but when i see myself, i see exactly what i weigh, so im thicker......
i always like guys who probably weigh less than me, sometimes are shorter than me and i dont have a problem with it at all, but i feel like they do...
so guys please answer does it matter that you are slimmer than the girl?
2007-12-05 15:28:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this question is for guys but I want to answer anyway.
And you know what, if you arn't overweight and you are healthy than thats ALL that matters. Girls really need to stop comparing themselves to other people. Everyone is different, we all have different metabolisms rates, different bodies frames, and differrent everything, so even if you eat healthy you still may be "thick" so be confident with it and work it! personally, I don't care how skinny a man is I think a real man likes something he can give a little pinch. So all in all, just be confident and when you do find that man don't worry about what he thinks, worry about what you think and feel. You need to be happy with yourself and not through what other people think.
2007-12-05 15:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it depends on the guy.
I am kind of tall so it wouldn't really matter to me. However, I can understand a guy feeling odd if the girl is 6 feet and the guy is lets say, 5 feet 2 inch. A one or two inch difference wouldnt matter to most guys.
That being said, there are many guys out there following all different sorts of laws of attraction. So again, some guys might only look for a girl taller than them and others might shy away.
2007-12-05 23:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Man Kalia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a guy who is 5'6" tall, I find myself in this situation where the woman is taller than I am. Because of this, I don't have a problem with it. If she likes me and doesn't mind being the taller one then I don't have a problem with it.
If she is a little bigger than I am, then I am fine with it too as long as she isn't too overweight. I am a fitness freak. It just won't work if she isn't. If she is making me look like Jack Sprat, then forget it.
2007-12-05 23:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a guy but i have an answer to ur question if you mess with the right guy he wont care about your weight know if u atleast have a cute face with a nice attitude they enjoy someone bringing light into their world. But other than that i only weigh 109 so i never had that problem.
2007-12-05 23:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know,i'm 6' 1" 212 lbs and benched pressed 285 lbs 4 times today,i'm 34 and work out at the gym 3 times a week.
2007-12-05 23:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a girl who weighed more than me once(I'm 150lbs), in fact I fell in love with her. I also dated a girl who was a little bit taller than me once (I'm 5'10"). I don't care about that, as long as I find the girl attractive. Some people care, some don't, it depends on the person.
2007-12-05 23:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a guy but I will tell you this... I always dated guys bigger than me, those were the guys who were rude to ma dna said something to me about MY weight not noticing their own obviously. I am now dating a guy that is smaler than me and he treats me wonderfully. I started feeling weird about it and tried to diet and all that and he told me not to that he didnt want me to becaust there was nothing wrong with me. women are supposed to have curves, dont loose them is what he says. So if you find a guy that treats u that way and you can tell he means it, dont let it bother you and realize that your fine the way you are and keep that person, because thats who your meant to be with.
2007-12-05 23:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by chassie81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its hot!
I always liked a tall girl who could give me a run for my money if we wrestled or horsed around (I mean that in a NON SEXUAL way).
Its so much better than a girl who you'll break in half if you breathe on her the wrong way.
2007-12-05 23:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some slim guys really like thicker girls, and I'm sure the guys you date don't have a problem with it cuz otherwise they wouldn't be dating you!
2007-12-05 23:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by DumBlonD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2007-12-05 23:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋