There's a guy that i've had some conflicts with that my girlfriend talks to for a little bit in a class each day. I really don't like this kid, but she talks to him anyways. I trust her, so that isn't an issue. She says she talks to him because he's the only one that talks to her that class. I don't want her to have an hour each day where she doesn't talk to anyone, but i don't want her to have anything to do with him.
2007-12-05 15:25:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to keep your girlfriend - you'll leave this alone. If she hasn't given you reason to suspect anything, then don't. If you push this issue - I guarantee you will lose her. Girls don't like guys who try to control them or who they talk to. This guy probably knows that it gets your goat to be talking to your girlfriend and you're just giving him the satisfaction. She's with you and if you want to keep it that way - let it go! If not, he may become the forbidden fruit and you may actually drive her right into his arms.
2007-12-05 15:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by JVar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, associates and friends in class are normal. If you are worried about her finding another boyfriend, you should stay cool, observe and listen for signs of a relationship forming. In addition, find out if she wants a steady relationship or switch from time to time. This could save you some time and love pains. My suggestion is to get a good book on relationships and dating and use the tips to create a romantic atmosphere and let her know that she is special to you. http://romanceexpressions.com/1-books.php
2007-12-06 00:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a right to choose her own friends, whether you like them or not. However, if you feel like she's betraying you by being friendly with someone you have personal issues with, then tell her that so you two can talk about it. Otherwise, your resentment will build up, she'll become angry and defensive, and your relationship with her might end. I think it's best to talk to her about how you feel. Girls love that anyway, so it will be easy.
2007-12-05 23:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really tell her what to do so if she wants to talk to him then she can, but I would make it clear to her that you don't like her talking to him and give her your reasons for that and you have good enough reasons not to like him then she may stop. Otherwise I would just deal with it and maybe start talking to a chick u know she hates and see how she likes it
2007-12-05 23:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by colesuncoast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give two hoots bout your girlfriend. She didnt refrain from talking to the guy when you asked her to, so now is your turn. Go talk to some chick in fronta her and see what happens.
2007-12-05 23:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know if this was me I would keep a eye open on this it may be alright now that she is just talking to this boy. but some times things begain to start taken place not that she is planing to do any thing! don't get me wrong!
mainly if she has you and cares as much for you as you do her.
I feel things will be okay ! good luck
2007-12-05 23:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i totally know what your feeling. but she should respect your feelings. let her know that if it was the other way around you would do the same for her. and lord knows that if it was the other way around she would be LIVID if that happend. like i said, she is at school, its not for socializing she should be paying attention anyway. theres no reason for her to be disrespecting you.
2007-12-05 23:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about her and start talking to other girls. This girl isn't worth the worry. Start ignoring her and paying attention to other girls. Turn the tables on her!
2007-12-05 23:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let them be, your gf probably doesn't think it is a big deal, and this gut will probably make a jerk comment about you and make your gf stop talking to him so much because she likes you way more! don't worry about it.
2007-12-05 23:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you can't stand the guy and you would appreciate it if she understood how you felt. You would feel better if she would try to stay clear of him.
I know if I didn't like someone I wouldn't wan't my man chatting w/ them I don't care how bored he was!
2007-12-05 23:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Kendra420 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋