This girl has broken up with me twice because she says she just doesnt have feelings for me?

Question

but she says im a great guy and we have a great relationship on paper. ok i have already moved on after the second breakup which was about 4 days ago because im just tired of her emotional rollercoaster saying that she wants to be with me then telling me that she just doesnt have feelings for me. The thing is she still texts me everyday. I mean we are still friends but if i broke up with someone because i didnt have feelings for them i wouldnt be texting them all the time. Preferably girls, what do you think is going on in her head.

Answer 1

She likes you and likes it even better knowing that you adore her. However, she doesn't feel that the 2 of you have the chemistry to date or take the relationship beyond friendship.

Answer 2

Perhaps she has feelings for somebody else and is trying to play both sides until she knows which one she wants for sure? It's one possibility.

I'm really not sure, what's going on in her mind. I would need to know a little bit more about your relationship. Is she the type that changes her mind frequently? Is she passive-aggressive at times? I know I was like this in my first relationship - mostly because I didn't know what I wanted. I was scared. He was getting really serious and I was afraid of losing it all, so I was picking fights and going back and forth with him. When really all I needed was to talk some things out that I didn't understand...that I was afraid of.

I would talk to her about what's making her act the way she is. What is keeping her connected to you? What makes her want to hang on to you? Try to ask her what's going on in her mind. Perhaps you can probe her mind as a friend would - without having an agenda or looking for a return from her situation. I would tell her you need her to be honest with you because what she is doing right now is affecting you....and is very hurtful.

Answer 3

It seems she has a few screws loose and really don't know what the hell she really wants or gets her thrills srewing with your head!

And with her still texting you constantly, means she's so insecure that she must feel good everytime she bothers you! I would just kind of cut yourself loose from her completely before she tries to play girlfriend again with you! Those kind of nutty girls, you can't even take the chance of being friends with!

I know you are getting tired of her using you like some yo-yo! Just cut her yo-yo string and let her find someone else to screw over! From now on just play hard a-- towards her so she'll get the hint that you aren't a play thing anymore.

Answer 4

She looks extra worry then shes properly worth, the finished "textual content fabric me" ingredient is ridiculous. It is going to show how shallow she is. i will understand what she meant by using texting her in the commencing up of your clarification yet by using the top she is only too captivated with texting. I recommend do no longer waste a while on her, in case you do what she does not for then you despite in case you 2 have been given in a dating, she would be using you and wont put in as lots attempt. If 2 human beings won't be able to easily develop right into a pair and initiate up a dating, it only skill it wont artwork out in the top or a minimum of there'll be a fabulous variety of discomfort and drama in the dating. i'm hoping this helped and that i wish the better of success to you. p.s. love on the commencing up sight dose exist, it only takes on a diverse form at present

Answer 5

It sounds like she's just messing with your head. Sort of like when a cat catches a mouse - tosses it around and catches it again - lets it go and then catches it again. The texting would be extremely annoying, especially if she doesn't have feelings for you. Tell her you are no longer interested and to quit texting you. Just delete her texts and do not answer.

Answer 6

haha well first of all shes a girl so be patient. if she keeps doing this she might be confused. but like you said if u are really over someone you shouldnt want to talk to them. trust me i know. she still likes you. shes just playing a game. its really up to u. i know people will say there are other fish in the sea but if you really love this person then you do whatever it takes for love. tell her, to not lead you on. communicate and show her that you arent a toy and if you say you have moved on then why should you care. obviously you both care about eachother still. i just went through something like this. and it was the hardest thing to go through, but in the end things will work out wether its your way or hers. sorry i babbled on and on. haha. break ups are tough. but like i said she still likes you and doesnt wanna let you go

Answer 7

It sounds like she is dragging you along. My advice RUN. She will just string you along and get what she can while she can. You need to set some rules. No texting. a phone call every once in awhile is ok but thats it. If she really wants to be friends then she will accept

Answer 8

I think she's a bit of an idiot. It's cruel to break up with you twice and then keep texting you on a more-than-friends frequency. Don't let her do this to you again- tell her that you want to keep it as friends because you don't want to be hurt again. Find a girl who doesn't play with your feelings like that.

Answer 9

She probably still isn't sure of what she wants and doesn't want to really lose you.
She might think you don't care about her anymore.
And she'll probably ask you out again.
She still cares a lot about you, and she probably does have feeling for you and is just confused.
No matter how crazy she seems, just don't get a new girlfriend and flaunt it in front of her.

Answer 10

She is messing with you big time. Telling you she has NO FEELINGS for you hurts to the core. Then turning around and constantly contacting is rubbing salt into the wounds.

You're decision. But I'd say time to swing the old sledge hammer and end it once and for all. Move on. Hurt me once, SHAME ON YOU! Hurt me twice, SHAME ON ME!