How do you deal w/a guy that is nothing but DRAMA. And I don't just mean some things...I'm talking EVERYTHING is a major freak-out fit. He doesn't like something, he swears it's all your fault & you are the worst thing to ever happen to him & he's never stepping foot in your car again! Or he gets mad at you and constantly emails your ex telling him how horrible & insane you are?! Or he gets frustrated & can't talk things out so he just tells you to go to h*ll and then spends the next 24hrs sending you nasty, horrible texts/emails/ims telling you that you are a b*tch & a wh*re & every other evil thing he can think of? Oh, & don't forget how the world is all about him...he never thinks of you. And he writes horrible posts online about you. And you are 5 months pregnant! How would you deal with him? He's 30 years old...would you expect more maturity and respect for someone his age? Would you give it time to calm down? Should I cut my losses and run??
2007-12-05 10:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by sublime 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't say what your relationship is to this person, but if he is a boyfriend I would say he is a poor candidate for a lasting relationship. If he is the father of your baby there are at least two victims in this relationship, one of them unborn.
I don't know if there is any way to salvage this relationship, but I would say the possibility is slim at best. Cut your losses and run, but also seek some good legal advice on how to turn this loser off. It may be necessary to get a restraining order.
Depending on the laws where you live he may be entitled to some contact with the child--if it's his--and you may be entitled to child support from him. Find out what rights each of you have.
And, next time you enter a relationship with someone, try to know a little more about him before you get to a stage like this.
Any man can be attracted to a woman without necessarily loving her or respecting her. That's part of our nature. You want (and deserve) love and respect and consideration. Obviously he isn't giving you that.
If he's not the father of your child just get him the hell out of your life as soon as you can.
2007-12-05 12:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
RUN fast and far away NOW! That type of behaviour is emotionally and verbally abusive, and the next step is physical abuse. I would be really careful, especially if you are pregnant... Please go somewhere safe for you and your unborn child. I'm sorry you have to go through this, but this man will never change... I know- I was married to one like this myself, and divorce was the only way out. (my ex was 32 at the time btw- by 25 a man should be all grown up- you should have to wait for them to mature if they are 30 and above).
2007-12-05 18:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by vm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cut your losses and run. If he still acts like this at 30 he will NEVER change. Block him from your email/phone/im and whatever else you use to talk to him.
Sorry you got knocked up by an immature loser!
2007-12-05 18:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by morbidlybeautiful 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you call the woman who
1-hides the fact that she is married with10 kids and pretend to be single to date another guy and then tell him the truth after 3 months or 4!
2-Tries to sleep with one of your friends while she is with you
3-have an affair with a guy behind her bf's back and off course behind her husband too!!
4-makes her bf leaves everything in his country and come to be with her and then treats him so bad and neglect him as if he is not even here!
5-she doesn't mind kissing other guys while she is in a relationship
Do you expect a mature woman to deny her kids and husband for 4 months to be with a younger guy! and then call what he is doing drama!!
2007-12-06 04:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Loli dear, run, far and fast! If he's this immiture at 30 it's not going to get better. Change your phone number, move if you have to, this guy has danger written ALL OVER him! I wish you luck, Merry Christmas.
2007-12-05 18:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by velvetca1972 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jesus, Mary, and Joseph.
Do you even have to ask, honey?!
I have a relative like that and has been all of his life, from what I hear...he is now 70 years old and hasn't changed and he will be bitching, screaming, throwing tantrums, and maintaining his role as King of the Narcissists all of the way to the grave.
Put yourself aside...if you subject your child to that, you'll will be as guilty of child abuse as if you had treated him/her that way yourself.
Now THAT should be a wake-up call.
2007-12-05 18:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by thenightscribe 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well.....my dear, he sounds like a real piece of sh*t!! Cut losses and RUN RUN RUN!! If the baby is his and he treats you like this, just imagine how he is gonna treat the child!!
2007-12-05 18:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by dawndmo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my sisters husband was exactly like that, her funeral was two months ago he killed her in one of his weird fits we dont know why. think about it, so you got pregnant, a child is a blessing and he doesnt have to be in your life. find another guy who isnt so immature and stupid ad trust me they are out there. am sure youre a great person i hope you take my advise my sister was a great person i wish she had listened to what my family had to say about that psycho
2007-12-05 18:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by asking 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋