Im only 12, but im like super mature (already gone through puberty) and a guy that is 14 really likes me, and i really like him. i know he is gonna ask me out, but im wondering if i should say yes or just say im not ready. p.s. we have kissed before and we text eachother all day saying that see like each other. ok not done. theres also this guy in tenth grade (im in 7th) at my school and hes super nice and he also likes me and i like him too and i dont know what to do because hes 15 almost 16 and were already going to the movies together (i think as friends).... p.s. parents are not a problem.
also guy #1 doesnt speak (i speak spanish the language he speaks) english my language of choice, and guy #2 does speak english....
ok i need answers!!
2007-12-05 11:01:09 · 13 answers · asked by spogetti0s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too little for it...
You should study
2007-12-05 11:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by C6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see...your 12 and hes fourteen. your saying that you've already gone through puberty and everything, but are you really ready for a bf? Especiually one thats two years older than you...its your decision, however chose wisely. Make sure hes not taking advantange of you, then decide what you think. my advice would be to stay friends first get to know him even better then think about whats right for you.
now on the other hand the 16 year old....NO.
your twelve hes 16 and thees so much of an age difference there and many things that take place in a guys mind, that im sure you think you know but probably dont.
stay away from the 16 year olds.
2007-12-05 11:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by Darlene S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are asking questions in this forum, you are wrong. You must be 13 to be on answers. It may seem harmless, but it is a start in the wrong direction. If you are already making poor decisions, will that keep happening? If so, you should take a long hard look at consequences for your actions. What will that 'date' lead to?
It's time for you to sit back and think about this. What would your Mother and Dad say? Have you asked them? Usually , they know what the boy is like from you and friends talking about him. Experience is very valuable. Talk to your parents.
And lastly, you are much too young to even think about boys in that way. You should be going places with all your friends and having fun.
So, go play! I would give you till you're at least 16 to think about a first relationship.
2007-12-05 11:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by freebird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, yet i easily dont think of a twelve year previous could be in a relationship with every person. you're way too youthful for that. you may in basic terms be in 6th grade authentic? so as meaning you in basic terms have been given out of consumer-friendly college. No offense, yet i think of twelve year olds at the instant are not mature sufficient for that. I mean, yet once you easily need to, i could say provide her the teddy submit to. that ought to be so plenty greater helpful that spending an excellent type of money on a necklace. Who is conscious of? You men won't even stay jointly very long and the money wiuld have been a waste.
2016-09-30 23:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, because you went through puberty does not mean your mature.
Are you mature enough to think about your future. Think of what things you want to achieve during your school years?
Guys come and go. Trust me, a guy who 14 and up who is talking to you is most likely using you, or is trying to.
Wait till you're atleast 15, 16.
Till then you can just go out with them and reget it. Which you will, dont think to yourself you wont.
2007-12-05 11:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say for the 14 year old its not a big deal hes only 2 years older but just be smart and dont let him talk you into anything you dont want to do but for the 15 year old NO because hes about to turn 16 and thats when guys really start wanting more from girls but anyway be careful and smart......good luck!:)
2007-12-05 11:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by sum_gurl123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be a little young to be dating, regardless of how mature you consider yourself. I think that you have many years ahead of you to date and should be a bit older before you regret anything later in life.
Good luck!
2007-12-05 11:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Cieguilla 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never go out with a boy in high school when you're in middle.
2007-12-05 11:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love knows no language, the gap shouldn't be a problem just be careful!
2007-12-05 11:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by mpftmead1014 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on which one you like to most.
i would say go with the 14 year old. because he is more your age.
the 16 would expect more from you, he is probley more experienced.
2007-12-05 11:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by m.arinad 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you should not date him you are a little to young to be thinking about dating any one
2007-12-05 11:07:08 · answer #11 · answered by ¸.•*´`*♥ GODEZZ ♥*´`*•.¸ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋