she is devastated and i dont know what to say to her or how to help her
2007-12-05 10:23:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Um, I think it would be best to leave her alone. Like, if she wants to talk, let her. If she'd rather stay quiet, let her. Don't force her to say anything, this has to be a hard situation. I know that as her friend, she'll rely on you so be ready to take whatever. Anger, frustration......You have to be there for her right now. Just let her know you're there and that you do care about her and you'll support in any decisions she'll make......You need to let her know you wouldn't betray her and you're there to lean on. I always tell my friends I will always love them and be there for them, let her know that.....Hope this helps.....
2007-12-05 10:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to sleep with one of her mom's prior boyfriend and see how mom likes that. But remember also revenge doesn't always feel that great. Leave him quick before it happens again and you are standing there looking crazy.
2007-12-05 13:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jellybean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF!!!!
That s gross. I would invite to stay at my place to talk for a moment and then I would take her out. It s going to take time before she gets better.
That s so awfull!!! How can a mother dare doing this?
2007-12-05 10:35:06 · answer #3 · answered by Fiffi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can help most by just being there . even when you don't know what to say. The sorst is if you avoid her cos you don't know what to say. She will need company - she will need to be able to talk to someone - she will need to just sit with someone in silence -
and she might need to be able to be angry without upsetting you.
You really need to be her friend now....
good luck sweetie.
2007-12-05 15:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by Emma Jean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with her through this she will need you now more than ever, poor thing ! betrayed by the two people she should be able to trust. her mother is a sicko, good luck
2007-12-05 10:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there. You might be the only person she can rely on at the moment.
Let her do the talking now and you just listen
Good luck
2007-12-05 10:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewwww!!!!! i agree her mom is a whore!!!and every other name in the book!!! and the guy mut have been desperate to do it with her mom!!He did better paying a prostitute!!Or finding another whore at a strip club!!
2007-12-05 10:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she lives with her mother let her stay with u for a lil while (if u can) be there for her listen to her but dont say too much ... jst be a ear and a sholder for her .... wat a messed up mom she has! and her boyfriend isnt worth your time so if u eva see him dont even talk to him not worth it! HTH
2007-12-05 10:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and comfort her the best you can,
Be there and listen to whatever she has to say.
Best of luck,
Thank you very much :) xx
2007-12-05 10:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bloody hell, just be there for her. Gin might help too. Offer her somewhere to stay so she doesn't have to see her mum? Ouch that must really hurt.
2007-12-05 10:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by littlebethan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋