well i really liked this girl. and well idk i thoguht we could become better friends and it never really happened. like we would talk but nothing more than a little bit. nothing that deep. anyway not that that she ignores me but she really dont start convorsations with me i gotta say sometin2 her. i mean idk if shes shy cuz theres been times weve talked alot. well idk, but i dont think she really likes me. shes sorta more popular than me and well idk i realized 2 day that its not gunna workout. i wanted 2 find a gf this year i thoguht she was the 1. now that i realize shes not.. i really dont even like any1 else at this time. idk please help me get over it and find a girlfriend. Please help me im really desperate.
thanks 2 every1 who responds 2 this!
2007-12-05 10:20:14 · 12 answers · asked by Fballa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i didnt mean i was like totally desperate but im sick of bein lonley by myslef.. i wanna find some1 and im sick of lookin but i still wanna find some1 thats all
and i do play sports and do things
2007-12-05 10:25:44 · update #1
no i didnt force her into anything we jst neva caught on2 eachotha i guess idk
and help on how 2 make me less upset also
thanks for the answers ive already gotten
2007-12-05 10:28:43 · update #2
like i said im not 100% desperate and i do a good job hiding my emotions 2 ppl so she didnt know.
2007-12-05 10:31:34 · update #3
i gues mayb u could say outta my league
but not that far outta it
2007-12-05 10:34:02 · update #4
Darlin, I'd work on that English and communicating better were I you, in order to have others understand completely, what it is, you're trying to say. The gist seems to be you like a girl you feel is out of your "league" so to speak. Well gosh, we've all been there, girls and boys...I had an enormous crush on the cutest guy in highschool who didn't know I was alive...so I get that much.
It's nice to have a boyfriend or girlfriend, but really what counts, is friendship. Is there some nice girl around you have as a friend to do things with? As time goes by and you're living your life, chances are at some point, you'll be more ready for that kind of committment...in the meantime, just enjoy your friends and if someone else comes along, strike up a conversation and see if it goes any where. -But somehow, when you're focused on LOOKING, you don't find anyone, and when you LEAST EXPECT IT, someone comes along to be more than friends with.
You shouldn't be "desperate" for this, it will happen dear...give yourself some time, and be patient!
Sincerely,
Grace
2007-12-05 10:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learning about love is never easy. Some lessons of love are very hard to deal with, and it sounds like you are in the thick of it. All you can do is go on with your life and, in time, you will get over it. I guarantee there will be new and exciting love interests in your life.
Not everyone responds when we are attracted to them. But SOME TIMES, in those lucky stretches in life, we do get love returned. So far for me, it hasn't lasted forever.
Don't give up, however! You never know what she'll say if you asked her out. Try it! SHe might say yes! But she might also say no. Get over the fear, and just ask.
Have a great day, and take care.
-Stebone
2007-12-05 10:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ste Bone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she relatively likes you, she would manage to no longer techniques in case you do not have the physique of a professional athlete. what's greater you're actually not lazy, fat or a settee potato and additionally you're doing all your maximum suitable to look super. So, do no longer challenge, she'll discover you captivating purely the way you're. hint her that such stuff require lots time and devotion and that abs won't be able to be made for a week or 2. She'll comprehend, relax. :)
2016-10-19 07:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by federica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kinda the situation im in... There is this guy in my History class and i've liked him for a while but we rarely talk. My best guy friend is friends with him and i told him to stay out of it.... If it wasnt meant to work then it just means that there is someone else out there. And usually when u give up u get the girl.
2007-12-05 10:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by softballsoccerq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just admitted that you're desperate. Honestly, I would take a step back and look at your life. I'm not one to like drama myself so a boyfriend is not at the top of my list of priorities. You don't "NEED" a girlfriend. Take up a hobby or a sport or something. They're less annoying.
2007-12-05 10:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Teach 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't NEED a girlfriend. sure, it's nice to have someone. but don't cut yourself short and make it to where it's something you absolutely can't live without.
you're young. you have your whole entire life to get a girlfriend. don't be desperate.
trust me, girls don't like that. if you know it won't work out with this girl, then you've already answered your question.
if nothing works out, at least try to remain a friend to her. as for finding a girlfriend, don't go trying to find one.
you'll get one soon enough.
2007-12-05 10:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey..Take a step back and never let em see u sweat{{tell no one you are desperate}}There is someone out there for everyone so dont feel bad you will find someone dont try so hard!!
-Glad 2 Help
2007-12-05 10:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not the one.. You just need to be yourself and let things happen naturally. Careful, because she may be feeling like you are pressuring her and that's why she's backed out a bit.. ?? Don't worry.. It will happen when it happens..
How old are you by the way?
2007-12-05 10:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by nikki f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe tell her your feelings? If she rejects you, I find that the best way to get over a someone is to fall in love with someone else.
2007-12-05 10:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't NEED a girl friend. You want one because you are not thinking with the correct head. All you need is air, water and food.
2007-12-05 10:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by Why ask me? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋