we were married 6 years and i left him for someone who was a lot better for me. but now i realize that there were alot of things i could have changed about myself and i regret my choices.he says he still loves me but doesnt know if he could trust me again.
2007-12-05 10:24:39 · 18 answers · asked by VANESSA H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Forget it Vanessa. He know realizes you are a no good home wrecker!
Stay with the new guy and catch HIV/AIDS. That's just what you deserve.
2007-12-05 10:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Make sure that you are actually wanting to get back into this relationship. You've hurt someone and you now have to put your feet in his shoes.
Would you trust you w/your heart if you were him?
What changes have you made to improve yourself as a person and as a partner to him?
There are other questions that need to be asked, but you both need to take things slow. If this is what you're both wanting, then you both need to have a serious conversation on what you both expect and want from each other, where this relationship will be in the future and how to heal from past hurts.
Good luck to you both.
2007-12-05 18:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Karma Eve 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you can do is let him know. He may in time forgive you and try again, or he just flatout will never be able to trust you. Trust in a relationship is so hard to earn and 10 times harder to reclaim.
You may have to chalk this up as one of those life lessons....
2007-12-05 18:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by michael w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do everything in your power to get your husband back.
Counseling. If your church has a counseling dept for couples, this would be your best option. This helped my marriage tons!!
He has to trust you again. So this means that you have to prove to him that you are a secure strong woman and that you will never cheat on him again. This only comes with time.
2007-12-05 18:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by Journey 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, you screwed up big time, but if there is still something there then you have nothing to lose by going after it. if he can't ever trust you again though, that's the price you pay for what you did...no harshness intended, just honest
blessings and luck to you
2007-12-05 18:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by starting over 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to make sure that you have grown up and wont leave or bounce around when it gets bad.the grass is not greener on the other side. realize that.if you cant leave him alone and let him love again.
2007-12-05 18:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take things one day at a time and keep working on your own character defects.
If it is meant to be, it will be.
Good luck.
2007-12-05 18:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-05 18:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell him to give you a chance ,that you still love him and want to work things out.
2007-12-05 18:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take things slow and show him how much you have changed
2007-12-05 18:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋