Ok so theres this 8th grade girl(13) who is like totally in love with the 6th grade boy(11).They are always talking and he alwasy says that she loves her and she loves him. This girl really likes him an doesnt know if she should go otu with him or not because of the age.She also doesnt wan to be made fun of. She really thinks this boy is way cute and nice... she couldnt live wihout him.And he couldnt live without her.They've know eachother for 5 years, and really LOVE eachother.So do you think its okay for them to go out??
2007-12-05 09:08:27 · 26 answers · asked by lurver 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and yes it is me, and if usay its not love, then its like a really good feeling when i'm around him ,i feel like everyhting is okaya nd good. he amkes me feel soooooo speacial
2007-12-05 09:21:45 · update #1
yeah, it's okay. I know that they love each other so much, so tell her to go for it.
-Jake R's Girl Forever
2007-12-05 09:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Well, it's not "wrong", but it would certainly be awkward and it probably wouldn't work out because of the age difference. The thing is, age differences at that age are more extreme because the older person is more mature and wants different things out of the relationship. However, I can understand if they believe they are in love and in that case I say go for it, even though yes, they probably will be made fun of.
I noticed someone said that they are too young to know what love is - I highly disagree with that, however, it is true that it would be very difficult to keep that relationship going long enough for anything to really happen
2007-12-05 09:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you love him it doesnt matter about age. But on the other hand do you really know what love is. The only thing I would be worried about is next year this girl is going to high school and he'll stay in middle school. That might mess a realtionship up. If anyone does say anything dont mind them, their in middle school and thats what middle school is about. So I would say go for it. If while your in it you feel like it's not the right thing then end it nicely and since you guys have been friends for so long I think you will continue to stay friends.Good luck.
2007-12-05 09:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm yeah its incorrect.!! by means of fact an 8th grader is in a very diverse psychological and sexual developmental degree than a 6th grader. Its diverse once you're older bacause you're extra mature and able to starting to be unsleeping judgements. Please do no longer date a 6th grader. im confident you will locate somebody closer on your age.
2016-10-10 08:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by fenner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. As you get older the age won't matter. If they start off and find out that they really do love each other, they won't have any regrets. If they do, they won't see each other that often and they can just be friends and know that they tried. If they don't try, they'll never know. If she loves this boy so much, she shouldn't care about the age difference.
2007-12-05 09:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by ann-uh! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omggggggggg.
i had the same exact problem when i was 13 [im 15 now]
i liked an 11 yr old. my friends were like wow. but they didnt understand, cause i really loved him and he did too. but age always held me back.
but then i relized that you cant put numbers with love, if you love him and he loves you and you think it would work, then go for it. cause age is just a number.
just be prepared for people to question the age and know what your going to say. so you wont loose feelings for him because of what other people say.
so seriously. dont make the same mistake i did, go out with him, and make it work, age is totally just a number.
:] hope it helpss.
[and i kept sayin "you" when it might not even be "you" sry.]
2007-12-05 09:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes because even if it is only a 2 year difference girls in 8th grade are much more mature than boys in 6th grade boys
2007-12-05 09:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its true love it doesnt matter, there isint much of an age gap, and just take all those people who want to make fun and just block them out
2007-12-05 09:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon_EBP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah only 2 year difference it might sound weird because you are still kinda young but think about 20 year going out with 22 year old not that bad
2007-12-05 09:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by 『♥loveholic♥』 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love? i thought i was in love when i was your age, but really, youll know when its love! and now, you are a girl, who are ment to be maturer then bys, any how, so you should be with a boy older then you not younger! girls should never date boys younger then them! a fact for life!
2007-12-05 09:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by tooofunky69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, they are both too young to date. And the age difference is too big anyway. He is like a baby compared to her.
2007-12-05 09:12:24 · answer #11 · answered by Samson the Guinea Pig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋