Family & Relationships - 5 December 2007

If you are one of them tell me if I look like a normal dude.

Surely it is a dumb HotOrNot pic but from what you can see, (me being wacky in the pic) do I look like a date-able guy?

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=SMHESZH&key=QWL


I am 18.

2007-12-05 08:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lend his sister my rolex. His mom sends me a message that I need to have love in my heart. I didnt realize having love in your heart is lending someone a rolex. She wants to use it to impress her ex boyfriend and I am not comfortable lending out my jewelry. I dont even let my sister use it. They used to let me use their bmw and compare the two. I told him bmws have insurance and its totally different. I worked so hard to buy this watch that I have always wanted. I would like some opinions. Now I think his family has very bad morals and values.

2007-12-05 08:10:44 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this is really weird but I do. I used to be very open and sexual around him but now it seems like we know each other too well and he is more like a friend than a partner. I do not feel comfortable being naked around him or having sex, especially with the lights on.. I don't know how to turn things back to the way they were.

2007-12-05 08:10:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-05 08:09:37 · 18 answers · asked by crystalt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

far around the globe we are spread

2007-12-05 08:09:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so following from my last question... so my "friend" wrote the guy i like a note without my permission and she wouldn't tell me what she wrote in it... all she would say is its about me... anywho... today (a few days later) i wrote the guy i like a note asking what she put in that note... and that i knew there was something about me in it... so he came up to me today and told me what she put... there was an awkward silence where i thought that was it but then he said and she also asked him if he liked me because i like him... and then we just stared at each other for like five seconds... then he walked away! now where talking like we always used to... (we werent really talking those days because idk!) but yeah so my question is... do you think he likes me or just friends... were already friends and flirt and etc. etc. etc. but do you think he likes me like i like him? are we both just shy?im pretty sure he likes me but i still got that little doubt...

2007-12-05 08:08:20 · 5 answers · asked by Jo-Z 2 in Singles & Dating

because i just think its better coming from a guy

2007-12-05 08:05:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No details needed.

2007-12-05 08:03:41 · 23 answers · asked by Armless Joe, Bipedal Foe 6 in Singles & Dating

i told this girl i liked her and she said aww and i asked her how she feels about me and she said idk cuz she sees me more as a friend than a boyfriend. what should i do?? i really really like her.



and im 14 and so is she

2007-12-05 08:00:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 3 years. This last summer, my wife cheated on me, I found out about it, and after a bit of fighting, I was able to forgive her and keep trying in the marriage.

Just last night, while using her laptop, I looked in the browser history and found out that she had created an account in the "singles" section of eHarmony.com . . . she was also looking up her ex boyfriend on myspace and looking at all of his pictures. Of course, I was upset when I found this. When I confronted her about it, she told me she went on eHarmony for "no reason" and that she could look at her ex's page all she wants. She actually got really mad and screamed at me over it just for bringing it up and being upset.

I feel like she is up to no good; she SWEARS she's not doing anything. Am I being out of line by being upset? What should I do??

2007-12-05 07:59:53 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After answering the same type of questions over and over and over I'm saving time and answering the most popular questions on here....(and i want stars...)

Is He Cheating? Or Should I leave Him?
If you have a just reason to believe the man is cheating in the first place I'm sorry to say he probably is, its not because your not beautiful or aren't putting out, its simply because most unmarried 15-25 year olds men will cheat if given the opportunity. If he did cheat unless you don't care that he did, then you should leave him.

Does he/she like me?
Flirting is a tricky tactic, but you shouldn't take it too seriously, sometimes he/she just flirts to flirt or if they do want to talk to you they will, also there is diff. types of flirting because they stare at you in class it doesnt mean they want you

How do I talk to her?
Make small talk, find a common ground, if she's in your class ask about an assignment, works with you ask about work, he/she looks nice that day simply say it

2007-12-05 07:58:29 · 12 answers · asked by Stan Gemini 6 in Singles & Dating

I've fallen for this guy I used to work with 2 yrs ago. I was transferred to another part of our company in another state shortly after we met but since then, we keep in contact now and again..every couple of wks or so. He is a very friendly guy and invited me a while back on a weekend but I couldn't go. He has also flirted now and again and there's an obvious attraction between us. We even got together once a while back when I was on a business trip in his city (physically but not complete sex..he wanted but I need time). I invited him to visit but he can't due to work load (its true) so I said if he wanted to see me, I could go to see him and he said it would be great ..that's in a couple of mths time due to busy schedules. Now he said he is coming to see me instead which I prefer..the guy to do the travel. Do you think he is into me? I mean he can get so many girls..he is good looking. I know he has other friends (girls) who are not girlfriends but worry..what if they like him?

2007-12-05 07:58:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Hunny and I have been together (finally after waiting forever) for 5 months. We have been the best of friends for 4 years prior to this. We're madly in love and soul mates for sure. I have never had such an awesome relationship with any man before. Our communication and team work skills as parents and mates is phenominal. He has three kids from a prior marriage and has been divorced for the past 10 years. I have a daughter from a prior reltaionship also but, I'm happy to say, I've never been married. I know that marriage is just a piece of paper to some people but, it's much more for me. Yes, we live together now with two of the four kids total. I love him so much!! He knows how I feel and I'm sure he feels the same way. My whole family is getting ancy as well....he's definately the one! Please help. How can I drop him a hint? Or should I just be totally honest and tell him I want to marry him?

2007-12-05 07:58:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 29 she 25. We hav been together for 3 1/2 months. Recently we have been having some issues with her not being that into our relationship, due to school work, job stress and life stress. She told me that space is inportant to her. She said just give her time she will get over her weirdness and lets take this slow. We went away this past weekend and all was fine askinhg me what i want for christmas etc.. come yesterday she calls me telling me she doesnt want to do this anymore she lost teh romantic spark in her heart and she will probably regret ending it, but she wants to still talk and hang out. What do you guys think is she just needing time to miss me and figure it out or is it really over. thanks

2007-12-05 07:57:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yesterday i told what my wifes secret fantasy is. She wants to be with multiple men at one time while i watch. I get turned on thinking about it also and might let her do it. I want some married Womens opinions. What would come of this? How many women would do this if it was ok with their husbands?

2007-12-05 07:57:01 · 22 answers · asked by MJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he died 6 months ago and he is really upset...hes 15 and so am i....what should i do????!!!!!
i dont know what to say when he brings it up....

2007-12-05 07:54:51 · 19 answers · asked by Brittany B 1 in Family

I want to be able to travel the world & take cruises & after my upbringing I KNOW I wouldn't be a good mom. Realizing that makes me a better person (I think) than people who pop them out to get more $$. Some old man said to me the other day that women's ONLY purpose was to be a wife & have kids/take care of them. What a SEXIST?

2007-12-05 07:54:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-05 07:54:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay theres a guy and i think hes really sweet and i like him but i dont know if he likes me too. He stares at me... ALOT. and he always talks to me i think he flirts w/ me. . . but im not sure. And today me and him went off together alone and played the gautair and talked.

2007-12-05 07:53:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so this weekend my boyfriend is ready, finally, to lose his virginity to me, and we are really excited. I want to make it very special for him and the one thing I haven't decided yet is what underwear to wear. So men out there, what do you like best? And something that won't intimdate him cause it's his first time and although he's seen me naked before and everything, like I said I want to make it really special.

2007-12-05 07:52:48 · 18 answers · asked by munchkin 7 in Singles & Dating

I've got an interesting question for you all. Lots of guys like me like athletic girls, but some think girls who exercise a lot or who do sports are too manly for them. Still, more and more girls are doing sports, going to the gym, or running alot. If girls are worried that we will think they are too fit, then why do they do all that? Do some girls like to work out, and do they think guys will like them for that? Or are they embarassased? Haha, I'm just trying to understand girls lol

2007-12-05 07:52:40 · 8 answers · asked by #1MetsFan 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband was married before with a 9 yr old son who we have 50% of the time and alternating holidays. This is our yr to have his son for x-mas. Because of this my husband wants to spend x-mas with his family. His family is local and both my hus and his son see them weekly.My family is out of state and we only see then 2-3 times a yr. My husband told me the yrs he has his son for x-mas he does not want to spend with my family but his. On the yrs he does not have his son we can spend with my family. I guess i just feel hurt he would not want his son with him to spend x-mas with my family(who loves his son) who lives far away and don't get to see us much. Please tell me an I over reacting? Is the "deal" he want to do fair?

2007-12-05 07:52:24 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a girl btw. My avatar is just super hot so i had to keep him! N-E-WAYS... I caught my b/f cheating on me and he doesn't know it yet. He was making out with my enemy from another school at his house, I was just about to knock, but I looked in the window to see it happening, What should I do?

2007-12-05 07:51:59 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Im wondering what you see in girls. What attracts you most? What is the least attractive things?
Be honest
Thanx

2007-12-05 07:51:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 07:51:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sometimes quiet, but sometimes i'm not. i only am like in classes where i dont have any friends in. anyways, what do guys think of quiet girls? it seems like the loud popular ones get all the boyfriends.... and can girls look conservative but still look hot at the same time? do girls have to be popular to get a boyfriend?

2007-12-05 07:50:11 · 5 answers · asked by Whatupdawg 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-05 07:49:42 · 7 answers · asked by jyuma13 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friends were calling me a whore because my chest has developed and we were fighting, but i dont think it is that big. is a 34C big?

2007-12-05 07:49:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is the weird thing i have never been single before [ im 14] my last bf was a alittle shy so it wasnt much, but i felt a huge bond. The guy before him was my first and he still messes with me about it. But there are 2 guys i like [Jake and Jacob] Jacob knows but Jake i dont think he does. In my old school all the guys liked me i could just go from guy to guy, bhut here i have made a choice that i wont jsut skip from guy to guy, and well no guys really like me here or they alreayd have a gf a little help please

2007-12-05 07:48:36 · 11 answers · asked by Angelique 1 in Singles & Dating

Help me please, I'm pregnant and I'm afraid to tell my husband. You see, my husband has told me more than once that he wasn't ready for a baby and that we should wait a few years. My pregnancy was ill timed and I'm afraid to tell him. Im afraid that he'll be angry. Can anyone give me any advice PLEASE, I don't know what to do.

2007-12-05 07:48:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce