I am 29 she 25. We hav been together for 3 1/2 months. Recently we have been having some issues with her not being that into our relationship, due to school work, job stress and life stress. She told me that space is inportant to her. She said just give her time she will get over her weirdness and lets take this slow. We went away this past weekend and all was fine askinhg me what i want for christmas etc.. come yesterday she calls me telling me she doesnt want to do this anymore she lost teh romantic spark in her heart and she will probably regret ending it, but she wants to still talk and hang out. What do you guys think is she just needing time to miss me and figure it out or is it really over. thanks
2007-12-05 07:57:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't sound like it came out of nowhere. She has been pushing you away for the entire relationship. Move on...you've only been with her for a short period of time
2007-12-05 08:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there is another guy in the picture somewhere. She wants to keep you around as a friend just in case her and her new man don't work out. You have suddenly become the "Plan B Guy" not a good position to be in. I would let her go. By trying to keep her it is just going make things worse for you and her. I would let her go and move on with your life. There are so many girls out there you will find another one. But, your best bet is to just let her go. I know it sucks but you are really not in control of the situation. But, you have only been with her 3 1/2 months so that is not so bad. It is not like you have invested years with her and now it is coming to this. Just let her go and find yourself a new honey. Take care and happy holidays.
2007-12-05 08:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by MightyRighty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me she just has alot of stress in her life. She might have broken up with you to get her sometime to think and wind down. She might have felt pressured to call you and go out with you. It happens when people are under alot of stress. Suddenly everything becomes a chore and she had no time to deal with her life. If she still wants to talk and hangout, that's a good sign. Most people who want it to be over, wouldn't even want to see that person again.
2007-12-05 08:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by crystalcandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space. You might have come on to strong. Put the situation in her hands. If she calls you again, it means it might not be over. If you never hear from her, it's a sign! It will be tough to do, but you have to let her figure things out for herself!
2007-12-05 08:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i for my section only did this too my ex some months in the past. this certainly caught my eye cuz it appeared like something he could do. =/ besides, she desires area. fed on with each little thing. My ex and that i pronounced we enjoyed eachother as properly and that i pronounced an identical issues to him. I only mandatory area from him. He appeared to clingy. He and that i've got been in a relationship for eleven months. I only didnt experience something. Sorry yet i understand its slightly harsh. It only wasnt meant to be. you will locate the suitable person once you're meant to. I sound like a fortune cookie, yet i for my section think of its genuine. Sorry! (btw, im 15 and hes 17.)
2016-12-17 08:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by bartelt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say you got kicked out of her "intimate" life because she maybe realized she doesnt want to be with you as bfs. SO, you can either insist and tell her that shes doing wrong and that you know she loves u and u love her, or you can tell her to think about it and let it go for a while.
2007-12-05 08:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only she can answer that give her time and space if she doesnt mean what she says then she will come bk to you other wise iam sorry its over try and remain freinds. i think after only a few months togerth she propberly means its over. good luck.
2007-12-05 08:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I dont think she was really that into.. She was probably trying, but shes just not feeling you that much.. Only thing you can do is to let her go.. You cant force anyone to feel what you feel.
2007-12-05 08:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaaaah! she sounds like me. haha, and if thats true, then she just needs time. she is probably up and down right now in her feelings, and with no proper communication present for her to 'vent', then obviously her more negative feelings will prevail.
2007-12-05 08:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is interested in another guy.....That is it...plain and simple...Excuses are a front...You said she had no cause..so that leaves only one explanation.....
2007-12-05 08:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Law 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋