i told this girl i liked her and she said aww and i asked her how she feels about me and she said idk cuz she sees me more as a friend than a boyfriend. what should i do?? i really really like her.
and im 14 and so is she
2007-12-05 08:00:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes we(girls) are just as nervous as you are give her time try being really really good friends with her but dont stalk her cause then she'll never talk to you then after things calm down write her a note telling her how you feel and asking her out(if you feel comfortable) rejection isn't the best thing in the world but it's not as bad as you think...trust me
2007-12-05 08:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by ffohhbeexox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I am a guy, but I am a Professor (My certificate is printing as we speak)
Don't chase her or you will be labeled as obsessive, and once one girl thinks you are obsessive, it spreads like the Black Plague through Europe and it will leave your love life the same way the Plague left Europe: BARELY ALIVE!!!
Instead, refrain from putting any romantic pressure on her, and let her think you are okay with it, love is very complicated and delicate and must be treated as such. Show her what a good honest person you are without pulling a Romeo and waiting below her window. Don't make it too obvious that you are doing this. Trust me, besides being a Professor of Love(TM) I am also a master of subtle manipulation, so trust me a single mess up could screw up EVERYTHING!!!!! Once you are absolutely sure you have her highest regard then you move in for the finish, and ask her out to a dance or for the traditional "Pizza & A Movie" (just make sure you don't have any obnoxious brothers or sisters or it will be game over.
I know it is long and complicated but it'll work so just trust me
2007-12-05 16:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by TwoFacedAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like her then you will value her friendship also - I know its hard to hear these solution, but you could try to get over her. If she says she like you like a friend thayt means she isn't interested in you like that. Getting over people is hard but not impossible, just try checking out other chicks for a start.
Otherwise you can still be just friends with her and not lose faith in your love for her/attraction to her/crush on her, whatever it is. Hopefully she will come around and start liking you in the same way, but seeing that you both are 14 you have a long road ahead of you, if I were you I would try to get over her, remain friends, enjoy life and laugh over this crush together in 50 years time.
2007-12-05 16:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by Meera88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why only girls, ive been in that exact same position, actually quite lately, well it depends on the girl, with the one i asked out, she never responded, then a while later said just wanted to be friends, were in same lunch, but now shes flirting with me, lol, kinda like it, but when i flirt back, she doesnt seem to look at it much, so for me, im going to ask her once more, just incase.
2007-12-05 16:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dann (: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww. honey there is nothing you can do. If you really are determined, you could give her flowers and be extra nice and stuff. Maybe flirt with her... see where it goes. Ask her to a movie. I honestly think there is nothing you can do though because you don't want to be with someone who doesn't have feelings for you too.
2007-12-05 16:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off, Romeo.
If you've been pigeon-holed into "just friends" it means you have a serious obstacle to overcome.
You've got to act like she means nothing to you. Date/flirt with other girls, show confidence and humour. You've got to show that you're a catch, and that you can have your pick of girls; only then will she consider you b/f material.
If you sit around waiting for her to come around, or if you chase after her now, you'll only push her away.
So... is she worth all the effort? If yes, strut your stuff and act like you know you're the object of desire. Otherwise, you settle for freinds, or piss her off entirely.
2007-12-05 16:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kara J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will tell. you cant make her like you. the best thing to do right now is be her friend, be there for her. if she get s a boyfriend be happy for her. all im saying is if you are always there for her, maybe one day sh emight choose you. you still got a long life . you guys are 14
2007-12-05 16:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by ♥CaramelDucky♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she told you..
"she sees me more as a friend than a boyfriend"
i think she just wants you guys to be friends and more than that. that happened to me once and i'd rather be friends with the person than nothing at all. you have to move on
2007-12-05 16:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh!! well, I think she doesn't want a relationship right now baby but relax, many other will come. Just for the record, when girls say that you sees you more as a friend, she's not that into you as you are with her.
SOrry..
2007-12-05 16:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by la-la-la 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being friends with her...and just tell her once in a while that you really like her and want to be with her. Don't tell her everyday just show her...leaving roses on her desk and stuff like that.
2007-12-05 16:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Diana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋