I've fallen for this guy I used to work with 2 yrs ago. I was transferred to another part of our company in another state shortly after we met but since then, we keep in contact now and again..every couple of wks or so. He is a very friendly guy and invited me a while back on a weekend but I couldn't go. He has also flirted now and again and there's an obvious attraction between us. We even got together once a while back when I was on a business trip in his city (physically but not complete sex..he wanted but I need time). I invited him to visit but he can't due to work load (its true) so I said if he wanted to see me, I could go to see him and he said it would be great ..that's in a couple of mths time due to busy schedules. Now he said he is coming to see me instead which I prefer..the guy to do the travel. Do you think he is into me? I mean he can get so many girls..he is good looking. I know he has other friends (girls) who are not girlfriends but worry..what if they like him?
2007-12-05 07:58:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you never know if you never ask
2007-12-05 08:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♥CaramelDucky♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so what if they do like him?? Who cares? If he is coming to see you, he is at least "into" you enough to travel to have sex with you. What more do you want? Why worry about things that don't have anything to do with your desire to have sex with him? Surely you don't think that a man who you might be interested in should not have any other friends??? Maybe you should rethink this idea you seem to have about making your (so far nonexistent) relationship exclusive. After all, he is only coming out for a week or so of sex, not to make a marriage proposal.
2007-12-05 08:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wasnt into you he wouldnt travel to see you,yes he has friends that are girls bu thats not a threat to you,you should have more confidence in yourself make him chase you,but its easier said then done
2007-12-05 11:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ky07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you have known him longer than i think that you might as have a better chance of him to like you instead of somebody else and you could also do a little flirting back at him
2007-12-05 08:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by heather c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds positive to me, dont worry about other girls yet, its too early to get jealous and possesive. just wait and see what develops between the two of you first
2007-12-05 08:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duhh course hes into u lol make time to see eachother good luck
2007-12-05 08:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋