Ok so this guy that i realy like asked me out but i know my mom and dad wont like him but i said yes anyway. the thing is that i am not going to tell them but my mom is a teacher @ my school so she might find out anyway. am i totaly screwed
2007-12-05 08:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so i totaly said no and i just want to be friends because i still like him. do u think we will still be friends
2007-12-06 08:39:47 · update #1
he has also gotten 3 girls pregnate but he treated them differant than he treats me and i trust him.
2007-12-06 09:59:43 · update #2
Hmmmm I was in this exact situation when I was in high school... and I tried to keep it a secret and boy did that blow up in my face.
I know it isn't going to be easy but I would sit your parents down and be honest with them. If I had to do it over again I would say ...
" Mom & Dad, I just wanted to let you know I have started seeing "vinny" and I wanted to be honest with you about it. I know for one reason or another you mite not think he is the right one for me, but I think he is a really nice guy. I want you to know it wasnt easy for me to tell you this because of the way you feel about him but I want to be open and honest with you."
I think if you approach it like that they mite see you as being responcible and mature and trust you will make good choices.
Trust me... When your mother is a teacher in the same school you go to there is NO SUCH THING as privacy. Come clean and they should respect you for it.
Good Luck Love!
2007-12-05 10:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by redhotdancer4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all honesty, i would tell your parents. Its better to tell them now then to keep a secret and then let them find it out later at an awkward time. And who knows, maybe they will like him.
2007-12-05 22:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what makes you happy and your parents should understand. Most girl's parents love me, they want their daughter to date me, but alas they don't :(. The one real girlfriend I ever had? Her parents hated me, go figure.
2007-12-05 17:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Pfo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, life is to short.
2007-12-05 16:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Vitaliy D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're and let me tell you,.Good luck.
2007-12-05 17:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just do it cuz you dont know that your mom wont like him.
2007-12-05 16:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by m0o0000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so do you still love being single????
2007-12-06 19:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful............ive been in a similiar situation and it sucks when u get caught...........
2007-12-05 17:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by $keeter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋