My best friend of 5 years has recently begun talking and getting involved with guys from myspace, which I think is very dangerous, but she does it anyway
She has a new bf now that she met from there, and they have been dating for about 6 months or so
I noticed that she had been gaining a lot of weight which is VERY much unlike her, and I asked her if something was wrong and if she was depressed w/ her new guy
She told me that for years she has had this sexual fetish to gain weight and this guy shares it with her, and together they are trying to gain as much weight as they can
She went on to tell me about how they feed each other fattening food and have the best sex ever
I was more than stunned, and being her friend, I just listened, but now she tells me all the time about things they do together, and it's bizarre, not to mention a health hazard!
How can I handle this without being mean and loosing my friendship with her?
2007-12-05 07:37:46 · 4 answers · asked by marm212 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
btw she is only 19 and the guy is 24
2007-12-05 07:38:08 · update #1
Her body her life! I would probably mention to her that you like being her friend but you are concerned for her health and leave it at that. If she wants to talk more about it then you can discuss it further. I wouldn't get too pushy with how wrong you think what she is doing is. Also depending on how comfortable you are with the talks about sex you could also ask her not to discuss that with you and try to find other things to talk about. This might get her to start thinking about what she is doing.
2007-12-05 07:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by sanzoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer something worse than TMI from somebody you somewhat care approximately! purely permit her know which you adore her, yet you purely relatively do no longer opt to pay attention each final grimy element. you do no longer ought to circulate into why, purely be gentle. as far as her fetish, all you're able to do is wish for the main suitable, pray for her if this is something you do. Eww!
2016-10-19 07:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap dude, never heard THAT fetish before! Cool :O but if it gets to the point where she cant walk >.> stop her man, stop her. Physical health is more important than sexual health.
-Ryko
2007-12-05 08:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by xxx 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that is a new one to me she help suggest concealing
2007-12-05 07:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by irish_matt 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋