Is it possible for you to just...become insane from the lack of friends or popularity?
Because...I've lost all my friends in three days due to retarded reasons, and now I'm alone.
Everyone hates me because of the retarded stuff I've done.
ex: jealousy (in thier minds) and offending my best friend with an matter-of-fact remark.
and now, they've told everyone, and now I'm screwed, and nobody likes me because they think I'm a *****!!
PLEASE...
I don't know what to do....
2007-12-05 07:37:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friends come and go, it's a natural order of life. Sometimes you lose friends because you've just moved past the point of needing them in your life.
If these currents friends of yours are so caught up with "retarded reasons" for disliking you, maybe it's better that they don't like you. True friends will be there forever, no matter what reason.
For now, just stay calm. Seeing as you feel you are going insane over this, maybe it's because you're not comfortable with yourself. Take sometime to get to know yourself (as retarded as that sounds) things will always come out better if you're ok with being alone. Because in the end, you're the only person you can count on.
2007-12-05 07:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by crystalcandi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry to hear about your troubles. I know, from firsthand experience, that it does affect how you feel, but physically and mentally.
If it makes you feel any better, maybe it was time for a sort-of 'house cleaning'. A good friend will appreciate you being honest with them, even if it does hurt their feelings a bit. They'll see beyond their hurt feelings for greater good in being honest.
They say that sorrow shared is half the sorrow and joy shared is double the joy. I think they're right! If you want/need to talk, you can message me on yahoo messenger.
2007-12-05 07:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Travis S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just relax, and dont overreact
stay calm
and THINK before you act or saying anything else
in time they will come back
but be reserved and calm
if you act crazy and desperate you will look nutty
just act like you are right
eventually ppl will beleive it
be sure of yourself and people will be drawn to that
ps ill be yer friend
2007-12-05 07:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by The WingHunter 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
F*ck them If it really was some thing retarded and they have not forgiven u .then they are not ur freind
2007-12-05 08:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by twisted.1_666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, been there, but first of all stop thinking what others think
it will blow offer
but if you did do something wrong best thing
confess say your sorry, give it time
and enjoy life!
2007-12-05 08:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by An EcStAcy pRiNcEsS’s ReBeLLiOn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be my friend...your friends sound f*cking retarded.
2007-12-05 08:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Catch up on your reading....
All the drama will blow over by next week, and everything will be back to normal....
2007-12-05 07:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
check your self into a mental institute its the only place for u now.it will blow over in a couple of days.
2007-12-05 07:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you did what you like to do. if your friends cant understand you let them go away... cuz they are not your real friends... time show you who is friend.
2007-12-05 08:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋