I always meet guys that I like but when they ask me out on a date i get scared and make up excuses theyl ask me a few more times then get fed up and not bother again! how can I get over been so scard?
2007-12-05 01:52:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to be mean.......but grow up? What is their to be scared of?
2007-12-05 01:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by victor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just don't feel so far any of these guys you really want to spend time with....or like someone else said to your question...go out with other people on the date....
...don't worry you aren't missing much...most dates either they are uncomfortable...can't find things to talk about or the guy is just trying to get physical with you too fast....take your time find a nice guy to date.....and if the guy really likes you,too...he shouldn't give up so easily....
...some dates are fun...with the right person...someone who likes you as much as you like them....
2007-12-05 10:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by answergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are doing the right thing by pacing yourself with these guys cause there are some fools out there. give it a try and you might like it you dont have to do anything you dont want to do if the two of you do go out just be careful and give it a try dont let him know you are nervous and scared. Do you trust him to go anywhere with him if not then you dont need to go
2007-12-05 10:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by purplewoman 86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go somewhere you feel safe on your first date a restaurant ,go double dating and relax if at anytime you feel nervous then end the date and lighten up and have fun
2007-12-05 09:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by papabear098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with whomever mentioned a double date. they are a lot more relaxed, and a good way to feel comfortable with someone, especially if u have never been on a date before.
good luck!
2007-12-05 10:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by nolan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres what you do. whenever you see a guy you like, dont picture a dating scene with him , etc etc etc.
Just picture him as a complete stranger and as he is one. chances are you have a 20% chance of getting a date.
you may find yourself asking 10 people sometimes.
2007-12-05 09:57:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say yes once, and ignore your gut. Once you're over the edge the rest is a lot easier.
2007-12-05 10:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have to go on a date eventually. once you REALLY like a guy, say OK. just give into your fears and go with it. but OK course stop it if you get uncomfortable. know your limitations, but have fun! it's worth the risk! :)
2007-12-05 09:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by Dara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a double date with friends, youll have support and you can think of it as friends going out.
2007-12-05 09:56:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going on a double date. or just out doing somethign fun with a bunch of people that way its not so werid.
2007-12-05 09:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by shortchick33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try being relaxed and to get over that anxiety, it is
understandable.
go out on your date with a guy you both like and trust.
after that it will get easier.
best of luck and god bless.
2007-12-05 09:58:53 · answer #11 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋